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So bi men,, one or both?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If men are bottom, do they prefer just being bottom or can you multitask, you see all these sandwiches in porn but then I saw a post saying they go soft if being bottom so.. is it just a porn thing?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most bottom men are just bottoms and only take anal, quite a few don’t get hard at all, Top guys tend to only give and not take as where a versatile man will give and take ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does taking a Strapon qualify as bi? "
It doesn’t but it’s the same idea for this post I guess, it’s just wether guys can really perform when they are being performed on themselves, I have a real fantasy of this and amazed at all my club visits still haven’t seen it. Scarlett x |
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"Does taking a Strapon qualify as bi?
It doesn’t but it’s the same idea for this post I guess, it’s just wether guys can really perform when they are being performed on themselves, I have a real fantasy of this and amazed at all my club visits still haven’t seen it. Scarlett x"
I've done it
Happy to discuss. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Most bottom men are just bottoms and only take anal, quite a few don’t get hard at all, Top guys tend to only give and not take as where a versatile man will give and take "
Thank you, we have a lot to learn |
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"If men are bottom, do they prefer just being bottom or can you multitask, you see all these sandwiches in porn but then I saw a post saying they go soft if being bottom so.. is it just a porn thing?
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I can multi task and it's my favourite thing to do! See you at the weekend xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m a bottom guy ( I know my profile says straight) I don’t go soft. Like to multi task especially if a woman is involved. If I’m with just a guy a nice bit of cock play and blow jobs are good enough for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s all about stimulation and if your comfortable taking the dick then often can get hard also.
Often though it’s the guy with the biggest dick whom does the Fucking lol |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Like most things it will vary from person to person - I tend to lose my erection when being touched anally (although even that can vary dependent on position, what is being done etc), but that doesn't mean I am not enjoying the sensations and experience in the slightest. |
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In our experience, and we have a lot, there are more bottoms than tops.
Lots of bi guys prefer to bottom as that’s what they don’t get when with a woman. It’s being the taker rather than the giver.
Versatile guys are the best for sandwich fillings!
Top guys tend to be able to pick from a wide choice of bottoms.
Much the same as the women on Fab have a wide choice of men. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Mr is just dipping his toes in but he said he is feeling more top than bottom, I think he’s more into the visual and forplay atm but he suggested the sandwich and the thought has consumed me, just patience now. we will see, I’m excited though
Thanks for all the advice guys, glad it happens |
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"I’m a bottom guy ( I know my profile says straight) I don’t go soft. Like to multi task especially if a woman is involved. If I’m with just a guy a nice bit of cock play and blow jobs are good enough for me. "
Ah yes but people such as myself will realise that those are not the pants of a straight man hehe x |
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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago
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I'm a bottom guy, and stay hard whilst being fucked (it also makes me cum like a fountain too) but have no interested in topping a guy or t-girl, i would however love to fuck a woman whilst being fucked ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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I'm most definitely bottom.
I usually stay hard when having sex with a single guy, but if it's a group scene or prolonged & hard sex I do go soft.
TBH I enjoy being used by several guys enough that I go soft, it's a massive mental turn on. |
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i'm bottom... i also find that if i am focused on the pleasure i am getting in my ass, then i don't really get hard in anyway. i have seen bottoms that do get hard, but i suspect being hard or not has a lot to do where your focus is... physical bum, soft... mental visulisation, hard... just a guess. |
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