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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Trying to come across all cool as if if I get blanked don't bother me because I've got another 100 messages to go through yet when the truth is how many knock backs,can a former stud muffin take honestly peps hard work don't even come close help needed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trying to come across all cool as if if I get blanked don't bother me because I've got another 100 messages to go through yet when the truth is how many knock backs,can a former stud muffin take honestly peps hard work don't even come close help needed "
You’re in the wrong place if you don’t like rejection, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Trying to come across all cool as if if I get blanked don't bother me because I've got another 100 messages to go through yet when the truth is how many knock backs,can a former stud muffin take honestly peps hard work don't even come close help needed
You’re in the wrong place if you don’t like rejection, "
I understand that was just being open about my experience at the moment you gotta laugh |
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"Trying to come across all cool as if if I get blanked don't bother me because I've got another 100 messages to go through yet when the truth is how many knock backs,can a former stud muffin take honestly peps hard work don't even come close help needed "
Stud muffin ?? Wont matter if a woman finds you irresistible lack of profile always seems to show how much effort a guy is willing to give ... |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Trying to come across all cool as if if I get blanked don't bother me because I've got another 100 messages to go through yet when the truth is how many knock backs,can a former stud muffin take honestly peps hard work don't even come close help needed
You’re in the wrong place if you don’t like rejection, "
Does anyone "like" rejection? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Trying to come across all cool as if if I get blanked don't bother me because I've got another 100 messages to go through yet when the truth is how many knock backs,can a former stud muffin take honestly peps hard work don't even come close help needed
Stud muffin ?? Wont matter if a woman finds you irresistible lack of profile always seems to show how much effort a guy is willing to give ..."
I get what you are saying but I'm not very good when it comes to expressing myself on paper I thought I'd done ok but it isn't ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Trying to come across all cool as if if I get blanked don't bother me because I've got another 100 messages to go through yet when the truth is how many knock backs,can a former stud muffin take honestly peps hard work don't even come close help needed
You’re in the wrong place if you don’t like rejection,
Does anyone "like" rejection?"
exactly "and stud muffin ott I think just a little " |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"not everyone is for you so deal with it"
I realise and was being happy and honest when posting this thread and was asking the only place I could where like minded people who are coming from a familiar place
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile shows no originality and will easily be over looked by women and couples im afraid,it doesnt matter how good your opening message is if the profile is boring people will move on to the next |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trying to come across all cool as if if I get blanked don't bother me because I've got another 100 messages to go through yet when the truth is how many knock backs,can a former stud muffin take honestly peps hard work don't even come close help needed
You’re in the wrong place if you don’t like rejection,
Does anyone "like" rejection?"
Not until I joined fab lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your profile shows no originality and will easily be over looked by women and couples im afraid,it doesnt matter how good your opening message is if the profile is boring people will move on to the next"
I will sit down and try and jazz it up I appreciate all of use for kindness BIG HUGS AND KISSES X
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"Your profile shows no originality and will easily be over looked by women and couples im afraid,it doesnt matter how good your opening message is if the profile is boring people will move on to the nextI will sit down and try and jazz it up I appreciate all of use for kindness BIG HUGS AND KISSES X "
You dont need to jazz it up tell truth let us see the real you x search forums for profile advice there is lots on here |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"Trying to come across all cool as if if I get blanked don't bother me because I've got another 100 messages to go through yet when the truth is how many knock backs,can a former stud muffin take honestly peps hard work don't even come close help needed
You’re in the wrong place if you don’t like rejection,
Does anyone "like" rejection?
Not until I joined fab lol"
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"Trying to come across all cool as if if I get blanked don't bother me because I've got another 100 messages to go through yet when the truth is how many knock backs,can a former stud muffin take honestly peps hard work don't even come close help needed
You’re in the wrong place if you don’t like rejection,
Does anyone "like" rejection?
Not until I joined fab lol"
It’s an awesome kink once you get used to it, abject humiliation now gets me off.... I crave the rejection  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your profile shows no originality and will easily be over looked by women and couples im afraid,it doesnt matter how good your opening message is if the profile is boring people will move on to the nextI will sit down and try and jazz it up I appreciate all of use for kindness BIG HUGS AND KISSES X
You dont need to jazz it up tell truth let us see the real you x search forums for profile advice there is lots on here "
I'm gonna do exactly what you are saying I thought I was but was probably trying to hard nothing to lose your opinion on the new profile when done would be appreciated x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Trying to come across all cool as if if I get blanked don't bother me because I've got another 100 messages to go through yet when the truth is how many knock backs,can a former stud muffin take honestly peps hard work don't even come close help needed
You’re in the wrong place if you don’t like rejection,
Does anyone "like" rejection?
Not until I joined fab lol
It’s an awesome kink once you get used to it, abject humiliation now gets me off.... I crave the rejection "
the reason I'm here in the first place is I've got a very open mind and wany to explore what I personally feels greatest gifts is our minds and sexual experience and would like to meets friends of a similar framenities of mind |
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"Your profile shows no originality and will easily be over looked by women and couples im afraid,it doesnt matter how good your opening message is if the profile is boring people will move on to the nextI will sit down and try and jazz it up I appreciate all of use for kindness BIG HUGS AND KISSES X
You dont need to jazz it up tell truth let us see the real you x search forums for profile advice there is lots on here I'm gonna do exactly what you are saying I thought I was but was probably trying to hard nothing to lose your opinion on the new profile when done would be appreciated x"
No problem least your trying x |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"Have you thought of a club or social op,can be a good way to meet people .I've been about a year ago, but feel a bit out of place on my own "
. OP for us single guys this site can be hard.I feel the best way forward is to bite the bullet and attend clubs and socials so you can make friends and make a connection that way.If I have read your profile right you are based in Sutton if so there is a house that does various events so if I was you I would look at the events they have see it maybe best for you.Also I believe Sutton is close to Croydon so it maybe worth going on the London forum finding the Croyon Social and expressing a interest that you would like to attend.The social is on the 7th February
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"Trying to come across all cool as if if I get blanked don't bother me because I've got another 100 messages to go through yet when the truth is how many knock backs,can a former stud muffin take honestly peps hard work don't even come close help needed
You’re in the wrong place if you don’t like rejection,
Does anyone "like" rejection?
Not until I joined fab lol
It’s an awesome kink once you get used to it, abject humiliation now gets me off.... I crave the rejection the reason I'm here in the first place is I've got a very open mind and wany to explore what I personally feels greatest gifts is our minds and sexual experience and would like to meets friends of a similar framenities of mind"
Things like that on a profile would confuse the hell out of me lol and I would pass it by as I don't have a clue why your here with that wording lol x |
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"Have you thought of a club or social op,can be a good way to meet people .I've been about a year ago, but feel a bit out of place on my own . OP for us single guys this site can be hard.I feel the best way forward is to bite the bullet and attend clubs and socials so you can make friends and make a connection that way.If I have read your profile right you are based in Sutton if so there is a house that does various events so if I was you I would look at the events they have see it maybe best for you.Also I believe Sutton is close to Croydon so it maybe worth going on the London forum finding the Croyon Social and expressing a interest that you would like to attend.The social is on the 7th February "
 great advice x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trying to come across all cool as if if I get blanked don't bother me because I've got another 100 messages to go through yet when the truth is how many knock backs,can a former stud muffin take honestly peps hard work don't even come close help needed
You’re in the wrong place if you don’t like rejection,
Does anyone "like" rejection?
Not until I joined fab lol
It’s an awesome kink once you get used to it, abject humiliation now gets me off.... I crave the rejection "
Ooh I'm sticking this in my profile as a kink / like  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Trying to come across all cool as if if I get blanked don't bother me because I've got another 100 messages to go through yet when the truth is how many knock backs,can a former stud muffin take honestly peps hard work don't even come close help needed
You’re in the wrong place if you don’t like rejection,
Does anyone "like" rejection?
Not until I joined fab lol
It’s an awesome kink once you get used to it, abject humiliation now gets me off.... I crave the rejection the reason I'm here in the first place is I've got a very open mind and wany to explore what I personally feels greatest gifts is our minds and sexual experience and would like to meets friends of a similar framenities of mind
Things like that on a profile would confuse the hell out of me lol and I would pass it by as I don't have a clue why your here with that wording lol x "
lol writing not my faulty, I'm been to a club about a year ago had a amazing weekend and would love to have morw |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Trying to come across all cool as if if I get blanked don't bother me because I've got another 100 messages to go through yet when the truth is how many knock backs,can a former stud muffin take honestly peps hard work don't even come close help needed
You’re in the wrong place if you don’t like rejection,
Does anyone "like" rejection?
Not until I joined fab lol
It’s an awesome kink once you get used to it, abject humiliation now gets me off.... I crave the rejection the reason I'm here in the first place is I've got a very open mind and wany to explore what I personally feels greatest gifts is our minds and sexual experience and would like to meets friends of a similar framenities of mind
Things like that on a profile would confuse the hell out of me lol and I would pass it by as I don't have a clue why your here with that wording lol x "
miss quoted it's not my kink |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Trying to come across all cool as if if I get blanked don't bother me because I've got another 100 messages to go through yet when the truth is how many knock backs,can a former stud muffin take honestly peps hard work don't even come close help needed
Thank will take that on board
You’re in the wrong place if you don’t like rejection,
Does anyone "like" rejection?
Not until I joined fab lol
It’s an awesome kink once you get used to it, abject humiliation now gets me off.... I crave the rejection the reason I'm here in the first place is I've got a very open mind and wany to explore what I personally feels greatest gifts is our minds and sexual experience and would like to meets friends of a similar framenities of mind
Things like that on a profile would confuse the hell out of me lol and I would pass it by as I don't have a clue why your here with that wording lol x "
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"Have you thought of a club or social op,can be a good way to meet people .I've been about a year ago, but feel a bit out of place on my own . OP for us single guys this site can be hard.I feel the best way forward is to bite the bullet and attend clubs and socials so you can make friends and make a connection that way.If I have read your profile right you are based in Sutton if so there is a house that does various events so if I was you I would look at the events they have see it maybe best for you.Also I believe Sutton is close to Croydon so it maybe worth going on the London forum finding the Croyon Social and expressing a interest that you would like to attend.The social is on the 7th February
great advice x"
. Yes it’s great advice and so simple advice.To me it does no harm to go to your area forums and go to the club reviews for your area you never know what is out there.I hope the OP follows it up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your profile shows no originality and will easily be over looked by women and couples im afraid,it doesnt matter how good your opening message is if the profile is boring people will move on to the next"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trying to come across all cool as if if I get blanked don't bother me because I've got another 100 messages to go through yet when the truth is how many knock backs,can a former stud muffin take honestly peps hard work don't even come close help needed "
I'd say you can take as many knock backs as messages you're prepared to send. Cos in my experience it's consistent.
Woe is me.
Keep your head down and your chin up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Trying to come across all cool as if if I get blanked don't bother me because I've got another 100 messages to go through yet when the truth is how many knock backs,can a former stud muffin take honestly peps hard work don't even come close help needed
I'd say you can take as many knock backs as messages you're prepared to send. Cos in my experience it's consistent.
Woe is me.
Keep your head down and your chin up."
I was worried I'd come across as woe is me ,when it was the exact opposite I'm just being honest no bravado just telling it and.asking for.advie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Main thing is to be you And rejection we all get it in some form or other
I'm taking completely honesty on board  "
You saying i dont get rejected in life.? |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"I been here for 6 months and no meets... Trying to get the opportunity to go to a club and try my luck"
. Clubs and organised socials are a great way to make friends and connections. Check out the club reviews for your area on Fabs when you have picked your club contact the club owners / management and explain it’s your first time at a club they will give you a guided tour of the club and keep a eye out for you.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I been here for 6 months and no meets... Trying to get the opportunity to go to a club and try my luck. Clubs and organised socials are a great way to make friends and connections. Check out the club reviews for your area on Fabs when you have picked your club contact the club owners / management and explain it’s your first time at a club they will give you a guided tour of the club and keep a eye out for you."
thank you costs real gentlemen
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"I been here for 6 months and no meets... Trying to get the opportunity to go to a club and try my luck. Clubs and organised socials are a great way to make friends and connections. Check out the club reviews for your area on Fabs when you have picked your club contact the club owners / management and explain it’s your first time at a club they will give you a guided tour of the club and keep a eye out for you.thank you costs real gentlemen "
. No problem OP
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I been here for 6 months and no meets... Trying to get the opportunity to go to a club and try my luck
Go enjoy it xwould you like to come "
I go to clubs alone, i dont need aman holding my hand  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I been here for 6 months and no meets... Trying to get the opportunity to go to a club and try my luck
Go enjoy it xwould you like to come
I go to clubs alone, i dont need aman holding my hand "
will you hold mine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I been here for 6 months and no meets... Trying to get the opportunity to go to a club and try my luck
Go enjoy it xwould you like to come
I go to clubs alone, i dont need aman holding my hand will you hold mine "
No. Go alone grow some balls |
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