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Good evening Ladies (and Gentlemen) - I'm seeking your advice.
How do you feel when you see that a guy has one or more dick pics in his profile?
Would you advise having dick pics in the profile, or not? I've added one, but I'm not sure if it's helpful or not.
Many of my fem friends are somewhat anti-penis, but that is in real life. They like it to be there, but they don't necessarily want to see it - if that makes sense.
On a site for swingers though, maybe it's different, or maybe it's not.
I'm just looking for some feedback which will result in me seeing some sort of general preference and making a decision based upon it.
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Do what you want because you'll never please everyone.
Some like them, others don't.
It helps if it's an attractive knob rather than something that looks like it lost a fight with a badger of course.
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"Do what you want because you'll never please everyone.
Some like them, others don't.
It helps if it's an attractive knob rather than something that looks like it lost a fight with a badger of course.
A"
Ok, thanks. Personally, what do you think? Is it a good move or a bad move? Or neutral? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some things are better left hidden..
Who wants to see your cock, they'll ask for it.
No need to show it publicly. Unless of course you're very proud of it. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Do what you want because you'll never please everyone.
Some like them, others don't.
It helps if it's an attractive knob rather than something that looks like it lost a fight with a badger of course.
A
Ok, thanks. Personally, what do you think? Is it a good move or a bad move? Or neutral?"
I used to have several on display but then I have an immensely attractive penis. 
As a couple we preferred to be able to see 'the goods' as on occasion had been promised a few more inches than were delivered.
When you order a 12" pizza you expect a 12" pizza. Not one of those mini ones you get at finger buffets.
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We like to see what we're getting. As other posters have said, good to see what you are getting as it is part of the overall play thing and we do like a good pretty cock rather than, as it was so eloquently put, cocks having lost a fight to a badger are not our bag |
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Big no from me - I don’t usually reply to men with dick pics in profile tbh. The only thing worse imo is photos of women on a single male’s profile ... like a whole body of a precious meet and three inches of the bloke’s cock 
Also when men have absolutely not photos on their profile but message you and attach a dick pic..... why please tell me why! |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Big no from me - I don’t usually reply to men with dick pics in profile tbh. The only thing worse imo is photos of women on a single male’s profile ... like a whole body of a precious meet and three inches of the bloke’s cock
Also when men have absolutely not photos on their profile but message you and attach a dick pic..... why please tell me why!"
Playing devils advocate...why are tit, arse or fajina pics any different to cock pics? They're all body parts you may encounter on a meet.
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"Big no from me - I don’t usually reply to men with dick pics in profile tbh. The only thing worse imo is photos of women on a single male’s profile ... like a whole body of a precious meet and three inches of the bloke’s cock
Also when men have absolutely not photos on their profile but message you and attach a dick pic..... why please tell me why!
Playing devils advocate...why are tit, arse or fajina pics any different to cock pics? They're all body parts you may encounter on a meet.
A"
I don't know, but I'd like to thank her for her honest reply. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As someone who used to organise 'date nights' for a previous swinging, and live in partner then its a no!
We had the swinging as a couple seperately but on a date night she liked the mystery and surprise. So my first filter was no dick pics, fit guy in undies cool but a sense of humour, own place, meet her or both of us socially first went straight to the top.
So many single guys approaching couples miss out that it is a couple they are talking to.
Hope that helped |
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"As someone who used to organise 'date nights' for a previous swinging, and live in partner then its a no!
We had the swinging as a couple seperately but on a date night she liked the mystery and surprise. So my first filter was no dick pics, fit guy in undies cool but a sense of humour, own place, meet her or both of us socially first went straight to the top.
So many single guys approaching couples miss out that it is a couple they are talking to.
Hope that helped "
Cool cool, 2-1-3...
I'm not really into couples, but it's good to know anyway. |
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I want to feel that I've got a good sense of whether a guy is attractive to me, when I view his pics. Too many dick pics at the expense of others makes it harder. A couple of them is fine, if you are showing your body, your physique etc, that lets me fancy you or know you are not my type.
In general, don't overdo anything, just keep it fairly simple. Avoid pics of you having sex with others too.
Stature, legs, chest, back, bum are all great. Face, head too, if ready, including a smile. Some people really want to see a dick, so if you have several physique shots, you'll probably not deter anyone if you have 1 dick pic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do what you want because you'll never please everyone.
Some like them, others don't.
It helps if it's an attractive knob rather than something that looks like it lost a fight with a badger of course.
A
Ok, thanks. Personally, what do you think? Is it a good move or a bad move? Or neutral?
I used to have several on display but then I have an immensely attractive penis.
As a couple we preferred to be able to see 'the goods' as on occasion had been promised a few more inches than were delivered.
When you order a 12" pizza you expect a 12" pizza. Not one of those mini ones you get at finger buffets.
A"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's your post your profile.
Personally never send with first message.
Keep for friends only
Suggestive pics show imagination rather than in your face.. Most of us women by now know what they look like... Minus a few variation of size n shape but we get the jist..
So my preference.. Nar |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No two people are the same so you'll never please everyone. Though from experience it often seems that single woman are more against cock pics than couples. Might be because it's usually the hubby running the couple's profile and they like to see the wife with a bigger cock (and like to see proof before arranging a meet - true in our case, anyway |
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"Big no from me - I don’t usually reply to men with dick pics in profile tbh. The only thing worse imo is photos of women on a single male’s profile ... like a whole body of a precious meet and three inches of the bloke’s cock
Also when men have absolutely not photos on their profile but message you and attach a dick pic..... why please tell me why!
Playing devils advocate...why are tit, arse or fajina pics any different to cock pics? They're all body parts you may encounter on a meet.
A"
Absolutely! And I don’t post anything more intimate than boobs.....and I can get them out on a beach. I think it’s definitely about personal preference I prefer tease to all our sleaze on a profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't enjoy seeing a cock as a profile pic. I find it a little too full on...
I even ask on my profile.. Don't message me if this is the case. Sadly this is often ignored so I just delete. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't enjoy seeing a cock as a profile pic. I find it a little too full on...
I even ask on my profile.. Don't message me if this is the case. Sadly this is often ignored so I just delete. "
But cocks in 'friends only' is fine!! It's just as a profile pic I don't like... |
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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago
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I as a woman personally love looking at the dick pics. I like to know what i will be getting. Although I've had a few meets where the pants have come down and I've thought that doesn't look as big as in the picture lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good evening Ladies (and Gentlemen) - I'm seeking your advice.
How do you feel when you see that a guy has one or more dick pics in his profile?
Would you advise having dick pics in the profile, or not? I've added one, but I'm not sure if it's helpful or not.
Many of my fem friends are somewhat anti-penis, but that is in real life. They like it to be there, but they don't necessarily want to see it - if that makes sense.
On a site for swingers though, maybe it's different, or maybe it's not.
I'm just looking for some feedback which will result in me seeing some sort of general preference and making a decision based upon it.
Thanks for your time! "
I would agree that opinion can be mixed so just do what makes you happy. But for me personally, dick photos, even one would put me off.
I know you have a penis, I don't need to see it unless we're going to be having sex. |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
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I'd rather not see it.
I make the assumption that you have one and that it functions.
If someone had an arty photo of it, I'd be OK with it but in reality dick pics are only ever going to put me off or make me feel indifferent, they won't draw me in.
And if someone has loads of photos that's just a big no.
However this can change if I've become acquainted with the owner of it and made a connection with them.
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