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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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When a guy displays pictures involving others.. 'consent' is always questioned.
When ladies or couples do I can't think its brought up.
Unfair, maybe.. ..did you set the boundaries before the meet, did you stop the meet when your request wasn't allowed
We can "all" say no at any time.
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"I was asked to be recorded during a meet. I was OK with it but when I asked to do the same they said no. Does it sound fair to you? "
We're the same. We will happily record of take stills with our camera but we won't allow anyone else to film or photograph us. We explain this and respect anybody who refuses.
It isn't fair but it's how we do it.
I'd say that they if they didn't explain that to you they should have |
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"I was asked to be recorded during a meet. I was OK with it but when I asked to do the same they said no. Does it sound fair to you? "
This is the way we do things, we've been stung before with unsolicited footage of us appearing online.
It's a case of each to their own, rather than fairness - if you're not happy with the arrangement, they're not the couple for you.
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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No, but we do understand. When Garry takes pictures or video of me with a partner he will make sure only my face is shown.
If he takes photos or videos for the other man ( with their phone) he will show the man's face but not mine.
We think this is a fair compromise |
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This sounds fair...just don’t get it why they could record me and I could not have a copy or take my own record...that’s all! It sounded a bit suspicious to me so I declined to meet up! I guess each of their own?  |
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"I was asked to be recorded during a meet. I was OK with it but when I asked to do the same they said no. Does it sound fair to you?
We're the same. We will happily record of take stills with our camera but we won't allow anyone else to film or photograph us. We explain this and respect anybody who refuses.
It isn't fair but it's how we do it.
I'd say that they if they didn't explain that to you they should have"
It is fair it’s how you want it and state so! |
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"This sounds fair...just don’t get it why they could record me and I could not have a copy or take my own record...that’s all! It sounded a bit suspicious to me so I declined to meet up! I guess each of their own? "
You dodged that one!  |
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"I was asked to be recorded during a meet. I was OK with it but when I asked to do the same they said no. Does it sound fair to you? "
You both asked and both had the right to choose.
But in the scheme of things no it's not at all fair. We have recorded meets and guys have had a copy if they wish to. But that said we only film meets with trusted guys that have become regulars. |
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"I was asked to be recorded during a meet. I was OK with it but when I asked to do the same they said no. Does it sound fair to you?
You both asked and both had the right to choose.
But in the scheme of things no it's not at all fair. We have recorded meets and guys have had a copy if they wish to. But that said we only film meets with trusted guys that have become regulars. "
Your first line of reply is juxtaposed with your second! |
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"I was asked to be recorded during a meet. I was OK with it but when I asked to do the same they said no. Does it sound fair to you? "
Yes
(Not gonna explain the gendered and patriarchal nature of slut shaming cos if you had to ask you won't understand my explanation)
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"I was asked to be recorded during a meet. I was OK with it but when I asked to do the same they said no. Does it sound fair to you?
You both asked and both had the right to choose.
But in the scheme of things no it's not at all fair. We have recorded meets and guys have had a copy if they wish to. But that said we only film meets with trusted guys that have become regulars.
Your first line of reply is juxtaposed with your second! "
They have both have the right of choice. But the couple shouldn't expect the guy to allow it if they won't allow him to. Plain enough for you? |
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"I was asked to be recorded during a meet. I was OK with it but when I asked to do the same they said no. Does it sound fair to you?
You both asked and both had the right to choose.
But in the scheme of things no it's not at all fair. We have recorded meets and guys have had a copy if they wish to. But that said we only film meets with trusted guys that have become regulars.
Your first line of reply is juxtaposed with your second!
They have both have the right of choice. But the couple shouldn't expect the guy to allow it if they won't allow him to. Plain enough for you? "
They didn’t expect him to they offered free choice, he accepted their wishes and then tried to negotiate ... they had free choice too and chose not to let him film.... both had choices to make and didn’t agree .... nothing unfair! Is that plain enough for you? |
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"I was asked to be recorded during a meet. I was OK with it but when I asked to do the same they said no. Does it sound fair to you? "
If you don’t like it then don’t meet.
Life isn’t fair, but we are all free to make own our choices and in this case by communicating beforehand you were both able to make an informed decision about whether you wanted to go ahead or not! |
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"I was asked to be recorded during a meet. I was OK with it but when I asked to do the same they said no. Does it sound fair to you?
Yes
(Not gonna explain the gendered and patriarchal nature of slut shaming cos if you had to ask you won't understand my explanation)
Ms Icebreaker "
So much this  |
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