 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Scared she might up and leave need a softer approach "
Bring it up while talking dirty if she doesn't like it pass it off as dirty talk and not mention it again if she likes it slowly press the idea use it more in dirty talk and then one day say I'd love to try it for real that way you will find out without pushing her away |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Also be sure yourself that you want it because once you go down this road its hard to stop if you change your mind the fantasy of it can be very different from the reality it's a big decision and you need to talk about it to her openly if she does like the idea in the first place |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Best ask her. If she doesn’t want it, just fantasise while having sex. Often things are best left to a fantasy unless 100 per cent sure both want it."
Thanks for the advice guys ill try it out |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Tell her about your fantasy and see how she responds. She might really dig the idea and be happy to explore it with you."
Might have a few drinks weekend and drop the hint x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Tell her about your fantasy and see how she responds. She might really dig the idea and be happy to explore it with you.
Might have a few drinks weekend and drop the hint x"
Make sure you ask her about her fantasies too. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Tell her about your fantasy and see how she responds. She might really dig the idea and be happy to explore it with you.
Might have a few drinks weekend and drop the hint x
Make sure you ask her about her fantasies too. "
She might want a woman  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Want to see my gf having sex with a hung guy but don’t know how to approach it any advice please"
Gonna use my default answer to these kind of questions...
If you have been with her long enough and don’t have any clue if she would be into it, she probably won’t be. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Well so as not to go down the route that most on here seem to that your request is to be ridiculed and made fun of, I suggest perhaps a couple of glasses of Prosecco to relax a little, maybe see what sort of porn she likes if any and maybe suggest watching a little together.
Go out for a drink together and see if any of the other guys at the bar make her go phoawwwwww. LOL.
Bout all I can suggest really. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
We were open right from the outset. A hot and steamy night turned into a discussion about fantasies past relationships did not have interest in. Turns out she loves a bit of bondage and I admitted I was a swinger. Both of these are now firmly in our lives |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
