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Ok so ready to move on from being f,cked by wife with butt plug to being pegged with a strap uon. Just wanted some recommendations of good starter ones and any other advice..thx |
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Very easy to find good harnesses, lovehoney has some good ones, i've got a couple off amazon. Get your partner to find one she likes the look of and check the reviews.
My recommendation is go for one that has leg and waist straps. Doesn't look like the straps are too thin on the waist. You want the dildo to be firmly held, so she doesn't end up constantly fiddling with it. Look at the straps running between the legs in the crotch, she needs to be comfortable there.
Then for the dildo, you both need to pick one that you can manage. So don't go crazy if you've never done 6in, don't get an 8in. Ideally get a harness with a ring so you can change dildo later and get dildo's that can attach to it.
Then you need to practice with the dildo you choose, get used to its size and make sure you can get comfortable playing with it and for a good amount of time. That will allow her to fuck you with it, without you trying to run off the bed in pain! Trust me, getting to the point she can really fuck you hard, is an awesome experience for her and you. So practice practice...
I'm going to assume you know how to get clean back there, remember if the dildo is bigger, you might need a deep clean... she might literally fuck the sh*t out of you , so be prepared!
Then go from there, good luck and enjoy. |
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No need to douch if you prepare well.
No junk food 12-24 hrs before
Eat bran or weekabix for breakfast
Go to the loo approximately an hr before the meet
Wash thoroughly
That way you save embarassment |
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We bought our harness from Sh! about eight years ago. They even did a trial fit to make sure we had the right size. It's still beautifully comfortable and they have a number of interchangeable dildos so you can start small and work up if needs be. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"I fuck my cuck at least once a day with a strap on. There is lots to it. The main thing is buy real, very good lube. Not the rubbish from high street shops."
This ^^^^ AND a decent harness. Cheap harnesses will move about and hurt. We have the Spareparts Joque harness - expensive but good. Buy cheap buy twice. |
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Have had a strapon from babes’n’horny with a leather harness that I’ve had for over 15 years. It’s an amazing secure harness with a silicon dildo. The only problem is that I bought the largest ones they do probably should buy a smaller ones for beginners x |
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"I fuck my cuck at least once a day with a strap on. There is lots to it. The main thing is buy real, very good lube. Not the rubbish from high street shops.
This ^^^^ AND a decent harness. Cheap harnesses will move about and hurt. We have the Spareparts Joque harness - expensive but good. Buy cheap buy twice."
I've had loads also. I now have a leather carmen rivera. Amazing. |
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"No need to douch if you prepare well.
No junk food 12-24 hrs before
Eat bran or weekabix for breakfast
Go to the loo approximately an hr before the meet
Wash thoroughly
That way you save embarassment"
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"I fuck my cuck at least once a day with a strap on. There is lots to it. The main thing is buy real, very good lube. Not the rubbish from high street shops."
What a lucky cuck! |
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"Ok so ready to move on from being f,cked by wife with butt plug to being pegged with a strap uon. Just wanted some recommendations of good starter ones and any other advice..thx"
Lots of lube - we have a few but the best one goes round her thigh - great for spoons |
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