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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So be honest (but not nasty) what’s up with our profile.is it boring? Or not to the point. It’s strange we get loads of club offers but not a lot of messages these days, probably a good thing as we lead busy lives outside and like our random meets at clubs but I just wonder what it is, no wrong or right but what’s your diagnosis,Doctor....
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Can't honestly see anything overly wrong with it - it's possibly a little too much about what you want and not what you think you bring to the table but that's being overly critical.
One thing that may have a bearing for some (and dependent on how long you've had it may be irrelevant) is your avatar isn't going to appeal to all - but again being picky (and it wouldn't put me off).
I'd also maybe think about some new pics - your older ones are possibly more sensual and teasing than the newer ones which are a little more lighthearted - again not a criticism more an observation.
Ultimately all of the above are things that if you're happy with them leave things as they are but *may* influence some people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can't see anything wrong with it. Not boring at all. Lovely pics.  "
Aw thank you I wonder what it is then, loads of viewers but not many messages... maybe it’s just preference and not looking for the same things, thanks for your feedback though:D |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Can't honestly see anything overly wrong with it - it's possibly a little too much about what you want and not what you think you bring to the table but that's being overly critical.
One thing that may have a bearing for some (and dependent on how long you've had it may be irrelevant) is your avatar isn't going to appeal to all - but again being picky (and it wouldn't put me off).
I'd also maybe think about some new pics - your older ones are possibly more sensual and teasing than the newer ones which are a little more lighthearted - again not a criticism more an observation.
Ultimately all of the above are things that if you're happy with them leave things as they are but *may* influence some people "
Yeh some good points there, yeh I don’t care about the avatar pic, the people put of by the look of a good member aren’t my type of people lol but your right we probably do need some new pics, we have a lot more but they are in friends only album to keep our identity private.
I can look at adding more about us and what we offer but we are just a regular couple, both switches and we bring what people see and what our veris say. I always go straight to the veris when I’m looking at a profile as it has more juice than profile info
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By *exi7000Couple
over a year ago
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"So be honest (but not nasty) what’s up with our profile.is it boring? Or not to the point. It’s strange we get loads of club offers but not a lot of messages these days, probably a good thing as we lead busy lives outside and like our random meets at clubs but I just wonder what it is, no wrong or right but what’s your diagnosis,Doctor....
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Please do not be offended, but you asked for opinion.
We find the photos of the male half not appealing at all. They look too childish and not making you any justice
Meeting you in person in a club will be different as people can see the real you. Online they make theirs opinion based on just few photos, and few sentences in your profile.
Online dating is miles different than face to face.
Hope that helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks ok to me, I understand what Mexi is saying but I think u look fun, maybe a few more/different pics of mr? u sound like nice people. I wish u the best of luck  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So be honest (but not nasty) what’s up with our profile.is it boring? Or not to the point. It’s strange we get loads of club offers but not a lot of messages these days, probably a good thing as we lead busy lives outside and like our random meets at clubs but I just wonder what it is, no wrong or right but what’s your diagnosis,Doctor....
Please do not be offended, but you asked for opinion.
We find the photos of the male half not appealing at all. They look too childish and not making you any justice
Meeting you in person in a club will be different as people can see the real you. Online they make theirs opinion based on just few photos, and few sentences in your profile.
Online dating is miles different than face to face.
Hope that helps. "
Thanks for your feedback, yehhh I sort of get what your saying but I think that’s different preferences.., it depends what you’re looking for, I would definitely respond to a funny pic compared to a posy pic because it just says more about them but that’s just me, we are both not models and with the dad/mum bod has to come a little humour. We have hot “serious” pics of mr but they are in friends only because his face is in them. but you are right it could be putting some of. I’m not too fussed I was just curious what feedback we would get and it seems a good mixture so I’m happy with that : ) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Looks ok to me, I understand what Mexi is saying but I think u look fun, maybe a few more/different pics of mr? u sound like nice people. I wish u the best of luck "
thanks I think we are lol. to us swinging is about having a laugh and stretching our boundaries together and we get that so we’re good but I was just curious with ppl saying they get like 15 plus a day  all the best to you too |
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It’s difficult to criticise other people’s profiles when they have actually made an effort with their photos and words. I tend to do most of the browsing and look firstly for pics of the male hag and theirs nothing on yours to see. If you made the same effort with the male half you may get more interest . Also putting meets up and statuses attracts more messages
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