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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tried anal sex today and was painful. Whats the best jels etc "
I am guessing you were on the receiving end so to speak.
You need to get the perpetrator to be more considerate, plenty of lube, be gentle, maybe a finger first.
Loads of advice on the forums here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"May need a tutor lol"
the idea is to start small and gradually get bigger, thickness wise.
As has been said, plenty of lube andtake it gentle, unless you are intothe SM side of it |
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"Want to have another go, lol tried a dildo after and wasnt to bad dont think there was enough foreplay"
This is most likely the case. You’ve gotta be relaxed. Rimming really helps and ‘breaking the seal’ gently with a cheeky finger.
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By *eannaTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Tried anal sex today and was painful. Whats the best jels etc "
There is a lube you can get from Ann Summer's that relax your anal opening that would help but the best advice has already been given start off small and work your way up. |
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i like the super thick and this is the one i use -
https://thepantiepurse.com/collections/lubricants/products/give-lube-super-thick-anal-lube-200ml
but i also like this one to -
https://thepantiepurse.com/collections/lubricants/products/pjur-back-door-relaxing-silicone-anal-glide-250ml
hope this helps
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Anal sex is no different to vaginal sex you need to get it ready for the mutton dagger 
You wouldn't just whip your Mrs undercrackers off and start hammering away ! Same principle applies for the choccy starfish 
And as the bumholio doesn't produce a natural lube you need to either make it yourself (Precum or spit) or use a commercially produced one
Only be careful not to use chilli olive oil !!!!
Ray |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anal sex is no different to vaginal sex you need to get it ready for the mutton dagger
You wouldn't just whip your Mrs undercrackers off and start hammering away ! Same principle applies for the choccy starfish
And as the bumholio doesn't produce a natural lube you need to either make it yourself (Precum or spit) or use a commercially produced one
Only be careful not to use chilli olive oil !!!!
Ray"
Ouch i can imagine you would really feel the burn if you did |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Loads and loads of lube. Have him enter you slightly, just the tip then hold it there for as long as possible before pushing all the way in and again hold still for a while before start slowly moving. Add more lube if needed as it dries out.
I find that if I lie on my side and I'm spooned I can take it easier and then move into another position after a few thrusts.
It is all down to having a understanding partner though I thought I hated anal until I was shown it doesn't have to be painful
Belle |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Loads and loads of lube. Have him enter you slightly, just the tip then hold it there for as long as possible before pushing all the way in and again hold still for a while before start slowly moving. Add more lube if needed as it dries out.
I find that if I lie on my side and I'm spooned I can take it easier and then move into another position after a few thrusts.
It is all down to having a understanding partner though I thought I hated anal until I was shown it doesn't have to be painful
Belle "
this is exactly what I do. To a T. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Loads and loads of lube. Have him enter you slightly, just the tip then hold it there for as long as possible before pushing all the way in and again hold still for a while before start slowly moving. Add more lube if needed as it dries out.
I find that if I lie on my side and I'm spooned I can take it easier and then move into another position after a few thrusts.
It is all down to having a understanding partner though I thought I hated anal until I was shown it doesn't have to be painful
Belle this is exactly what I do. To a T. "
Well done ladies, that is how I prepare those receiving me, after I had relaxed them a bit before both in body and bum
Deleted last post to give more detail. I relax bum with fingers and to tongue it does help. Also apart from the side spooning position, I find them lying on front with head comfortable on pillow is a goos starting position. It is a good way also to judge if they are tense in neck and shoulders, which will translate to a tense bum too and more discomfort, can relax further then if required |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ann summers do a silicon lube that is very good.
The secret to good anal is lube, then more lube and then even more lube xxx "
And then a tad more just to be safe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ann summers do a silicon lube that is very good.
The secret to good anal is lube, then more lube and then even more lube xxx
And then a tad more just to be safe"
The secret is to be relaxed down there. If you’re ready you actually don’t need much lube. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ann summers do a silicon lube that is very good.
The secret to good anal is lube, then more lube and then even more lube xxx
And then a tad more just to be safe"
Looking at your pics, id say that's a good idea lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Train your arse with butt plugs and plenty of lube. Small to large plugs, 5 mins with each, your arse will be ready to go and it’s amazing when the cock goes in without the hideous pain than makes you want to be sick  |
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