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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Love watching f with other guys and have a fantasy of her meeting alone. The reality though is difficult to imagine.
Is anyone or has anyone else been this way and found it has developed into a cuckold relationship? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was meeting a couple and it was new to them and our first meet he sat and watched while we had sex. This developed and he wanted her to meet me alone so we met at a hotel as it was neutral ground and he went to the cinema but he got jealous and came back kicking off.
I did meet them several times after a but I always met her and then she would send vids and pics to him during our meets. The reality of what he wanted I don’t think worked and jealousy took over |
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"Love watching f with other guys and have a fantasy of her meeting alone. The reality though is difficult to imagine.
Is anyone or has anyone else been this way and found it has developed into a cuckold relationship?"
Try not to be too specific about what might make you a good cuckold. From my perspective a big chunk of the pleasure I get from meeting cuckold couples is going on the journey with them. If every tick box and fantasy was full-filled in just a couple of meets all that wickedly delicious pleasure could fade quite quickly.
Just be honest and communicative with how you feel both with your lady and any Bull that you meet. If he is any good he will be sympathetic and adjust accordingly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe I have been lucky but I have never seen any evidence of hubbies being jealous when I have met wives.
All of the hubbies I have met have really wanted, and enjoyed, their wives to have fun and I think they all got a real kick out of the meet. Some like to sit and watch, some love to take pictures, others wanted to be in the house but not watch and others were fine to let us play alone in a hotel or club.
It has been fun to him on the journey with them - what they want changes over time and I have always had to be flexible to the situation.
I think it is probably as important to choose the right partner that you are both comfortable with. That will likely help reduce anxiety and jealousy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest I enjoy both aspects. I _really_ love to be watched but there is also something special about spending quality time alone with a wife.
I usually meet as a couple to start off with and then we progress to meeting alone. The best is when you overnight alone! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thank you. As a bull, is it a bigger turn on for you if the partner watches or with the female alone?
What does she want "
She enjoys me watching but finds the idea of meeting alone very exciting |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"To be honest I enjoy both aspects. I _really_ love to be watched but there is also something special about spending quality time alone with a wife.
I usually meet as a couple to start off with and then we progress to meeting alone. The best is when you overnight alone!"
Is that because it's very taboo with her waking up next to another man etc. It's definitely something I've imagined happening. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be honest I enjoy both aspects. I _really_ love to be watched but there is also something special about spending quality time alone with a wife.
I usually meet as a couple to start off with and then we progress to meeting alone. The best is when you overnight alone!
Is that because it's very taboo with her waking up next to another man etc. It's definitely something I've imagined happening."
She might appreciate you joining her in the morning |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"To be honest I enjoy both aspects. I _really_ love to be watched but there is also something special about spending quality time alone with a wife.
I usually meet as a couple to start off with and then we progress to meeting alone. The best is when you overnight alone!
Is that because it's very taboo with her waking up next to another man etc. It's definitely something I've imagined happening.
She might appreciate you joining her in the morning "
All of the above are interesting ideas. The more I think about it the more the devil on my shoulder nudges me to take the plunge!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is that because it's very taboo with her waking up next to another man etc. It's definitely something I've imagined happening."
I have never thought about the taboo aspects of it - I just enjoy all night sex and then more sex in the morning before she goes back home.
Want trying to over think or psychoanalyse it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have moved from straight swinging to cuckold situation and it's the best thing we have ever done. Message up if you need to chat about how it works, emotions involved or anything else |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We have moved from straight swinging to cuckold situation and it's the best thing we have ever done. Message up if you need to chat about how it works, emotions involved or anything else"
Thanks for the comment. Unfortunately unable to message you but would love to find out more about your experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have moved from straight swinging to cuckold situation and it's the best thing we have ever done. Message up if you need to chat about how it works, emotions involved or anything else
Thanks for the comment. Unfortunately unable to message you but would love to find out more about your experience"
Try message again now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are a long time Cuckold Couple but have moved into a FemledMarriage Marriage so as a Cuckold I have little if anything to say as to what Mistress does or says these days?????? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We are a long time Cuckold Couple but have moved into a FemledMarriage Marriage so as a Cuckold I have little if anything to say as to what Mistress does or says these days??????"
Was there any point where you were unsure of whether you were cuck? |
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"We are a long time Cuckold Couple but have moved into a FemledMarriage Marriage so as a Cuckold I have little if anything to say as to what Mistress does or says these days??????
Was there any point where you were unsure of whether you were cuck?"
it can be very exciting we have done it couple of times message us if you want to discuss |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"Thank you. As a bull, is it a bigger turn on for you if the partner watches or with the female alone?"
I prefer the partner present as I like seeing him enjoying it too. If not present the sent pics and vids or a video call.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love watching f with other guys and have a fantasy of her meeting alone. The reality though is difficult to imagine.
Is anyone or has anyone else been this way and found it has developed into a cuckold relationship?"
I have been friends of a lovely older married couple for some years, the husband has a medical condition that prevents him getting erections and through time he has persuaded me to sleep with his wife, its not a weekly thing, sometimes not a monthly thing, but it does happen. He has also been in our company during some of these times and he gets off watching, I would not consider it a cuckold relationship, more a loving couple who understand each others needs and are mature enough to accept certain things in life, in a way I would love to have a relationship like they have, they are older, happy, and I suspect will be life long companions. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Love watching f with other guys and have a fantasy of her meeting alone. The reality though is difficult to imagine.
Is anyone or has anyone else been this way and found it has developed into a cuckold relationship?
I have been friends of a lovely older married couple for some years, the husband has a medical condition that prevents him getting erections and through time he has persuaded me to sleep with his wife, its not a weekly thing, sometimes not a monthly thing, but it does happen. He has also been in our company during some of these times and he gets off watching, I would not consider it a cuckold relationship, more a loving couple who understand each others needs and are mature enough to accept certain things in life, in a way I would love to have a relationship like they have, they are older, happy, and I suspect will be life long companions."
I don't have the medical condition but this is kind of where we are at the moment. |
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I have been in a variety of situations: with some couples, hubby just watches, or will take pics. With others, I have been solo with the lady - hubby is at home or downstairs. With one wife, I "dated" her for couple of years. Like mr Coco says, peoples tastes change. As a single guy, I love the taboo aspect of it all - either being with a wife in a bar, almost as if we are boyfriend/girlfriend as well as the thrill of fucking a wife in front of her husband. If i were you, I wouldn't be too prescriptive to begin with but see what feels most fun |
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"Thank you. As a bull, is it a bigger turn on for you if the partner watches or with the female alone?"
Its a question i have thought about : the most erotic aspect for me is that the lady is married and hence should not be having sex with another guy. And what is more doing so, with her husbands active approval - that is what I find really mind blowing. As to the question, is it a turn on having hubby there - yes very much so! Its a real headfuck to fuck a wife while her hubby watches. But having said that, I dated a hotwife for long time and her hubby was never there. It was erotic in a different way, meeting her for date, going back to my place for sex and then in the morning she would go back to her husband ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thank you. As a bull, is it a bigger turn on for you if the partner watches or with the female alone?
Its a question i have thought about : the most erotic aspect for me is that the lady is married and hence should not be having sex with another guy. And what is more doing so, with her husbands active approval - that is what I find really mind blowing. As to the question, is it a turn on having hubby there - yes very much so! Its a real headfuck to fuck a wife while her hubby watches. But having said that, I dated a hotwife for long time and her hubby was never there. It was erotic in a different way, meeting her for date, going back to my place for sex and then in the morning she would go back to her husband ! "
Great thanks for giving your perspective. I think it's the taboo thing too where she should be having sex with another person. |
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"It is better if the partner is present in my experience "
Yeah, then you can keep eye contact with hubby the whole time..... and show him and tell him (every now and then) how much of a good time you are having. I would find that really erotic.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I used to meet a hot wife solo on our days off. We used to video and take pics and send them to her hubby. Sometimes he knew I was going round and sometimes we would surprise him. It's great fun when done right  |
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"Love watching f with other guys and have a fantasy of her meeting alone. The reality though is difficult to imagine.
Is anyone or has anyone else been this way and found it has developed into a cuckold relationship?"
Only had one solo meet.
I met a guy we had talked to for a long time, we had never met him before but had been speaking, flirting sharing stuff for months.
The proviso was no Intercourse as it was the first meet and hubby watched everything on cam.
It started with a massage, which I took further, while still receiving the massage.
Very hot, horny session, also got hubby very excited being able to direct partly and join in.
Maybe try this first if possible.
Not something we ever i tended doing doing but we certainly both I tend on trying more scenarios in the future. X x
Mrs p x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love watching f with other guys and have a fantasy of her meeting alone. The reality though is difficult to imagine.
Is anyone or has anyone else been this way and found it has developed into a cuckold relationship?"
I do like watching the wife with other guys, it’s great and she enjoys it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love this, me forcing hubbies head down till hes gagging on the other guys cock. Making him the one gagging for once lol, then when the guys finished eating. My pussy and hubby has sucked him hard enough he can guide him into my very wet pussy, or if they are both very lucky this booty x |
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"We love this, me forcing hubbies head down till hes gagging on the other guys cock. Making him the one gagging for once lol, then when the guys finished eating. My pussy and hubby has sucked him hard enough he can guide him into my very wet pussy, or if they are both very lucky this booty x"
Oh I really like how your mind works.....a lot. I love having my cock prepared by a cuckold but it's only fun for me of the hotwife is very enthusiastically getting pleasure from watching it happen x |
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"Oh this one is trust me"
Goodness me, you guys have the most awesome profile. So refreshingly open minded and oh so hot pics. Its probably good that I'm out of your age range and too far away because I'd be all over you....both of you....damn!!  |
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By *ongarMan
over a year ago
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My experience the cuck is always present and the play is that the wife displays how much she enjoys my ‘much bigger than his’ cock, obviously as an alpha male I get off on this massively, I’m not sure how that would work if he wasn’t around, would it still be a cuck relationship ? |
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By *omis.69Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
There has been many a post on cuckolding and if truth be known I believe it’s down to individuals tastes, wants and expectations. In the end it’s a type of relationship formed by three individuals and all must gain some degree of satisfaction from it otherwise what’s the point ?
Start out with a wish list and boundaries then discuss and hopefully enjoy.
The bill shouldn’t govern the relationship purely enhance it. |
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