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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi, my wife is set up here to meet single males and groups but she is embarrassed and worried to take the first introductory step, Is there any advice other newbies could give her to get over the line please.
We have a had a few meetings when we had a couples account,
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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"Hi, my wife is set up here to meet single males and groups but she is embarrassed and worried to take the first introductory step, Is there any advice other newbies could give her to get over the line please.
We have a had a few meetings when we had a couples account,
Insist on a social first. Coffee shops are good places. Definitely somewhere you feel comfortable.
Put message filters on most of the time to block the incessant drivel and sometimes nastiness message wise. Turn off occasionally and you may find a gem. Search for local people with good verifications but also check out who has verified them.
Hubby could always be nearby to rescue you if that would help you feel more comfortable.
Always always trust your gut and get out if you don’t feel safe.
Have some great horny fun and reclaiming sex
Many thanks xxx"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the reply, how does this get me to meetings though, I have plenty of offers, i'm just scared to do it for some reason, although I really do want to. |
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"Thanks for the reply, how does this get me to meetings though, I have plenty of offers, i'm just scared to do it for some reason, although I really do want to."
Its doesn't!!
No one can help you, its you that has to do it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its one of those things where u may need to take a leap of faith for the first time, the anxiety of meeting is likely to fade if you better get to know the person first more and have more experience in the swinging community |
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"Thanks for the reply, how does this get me to meetings though, I have plenty of offers, i'm just scared to do it for some reason, although I really do want to."
Why don’t you take hubby along as a social meet first then see how you get on ? |
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"Thanks for the reply, how does this get me to meetings though, I have plenty of offers, i'm just scared to do it for some reason, although I really do want to."
Make guys spend a long time getting to know you online and thus you also spend time getting to know them.
Take things at your pace not theirs. |
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