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Why do I attract the guys?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Fascinated to see the number of men checking my profile. Givem That my preferences show me as M looking for F, why are so many guys checking out my profile? |
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"Fascinated to see the number of men checking my profile. Givem That my preferences show me as M looking for F, why are so many guys checking out my profile? "
So you get attention! people check out people...! Congrats! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You are active on the forums that is why. I get all sorts looking at mine over the country so likely coming from my postings on forums..."
Good point thanks! |
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I only really get guys looking at my profile, messaging me and fabbing my pics. The odd couple too.
For profile views it could be that most women use the option to view profiles invisibly so there could be many looking at you but you don't see them. Guys don't bother with that lol |
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"Fascinated to see the number of men checking my profile. Givem That my preferences show me as M looking for F, why are so many guys checking out my profile? "
Probably because your pics say possible daddy/bear?  |
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"Fascinated to see the number of men checking my profile. Givem That my preferences show me as M looking for F, why are so many guys checking out my profile?
Probably because your pics say possible daddy/bear? "
Bear... Hmmm I need to explore that haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t sweat it mate. You probably get women checking you out too but the sneaky bastards are all in ninja mode  "
This is true as all the Fabs on my pics from women you do not see a profile visit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t sweat it mate. You probably get women checking you out too but the sneaky bastards are all in ninja mode
This is true as all the Fabs on my pics from women you do not see a profile visit."
Lol most for our views are from supposedly straight men. Yer right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's guys checking out the competition, looking for tips on writing profiles. Usually just once, then they're gone.
It's kind of creepy when they keep coming back.
Couples have a quick squint and scarper. If they say anything it's virtually a monosyllabic grunt.
If someone starts a conversation, I respond. If it turns unpleasant, blocko blokey. |
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By *adetMan
over a year ago
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"But nobody knows your preferences until they check your profile.
This most likely "
Definitely this 
Add to your tagline that you're a straight guy
Or just take it as a compliment I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plus this site is getting more bi/gay men on here of late.
Yayyy..whoop whoop!
Someone excited  "
It is natural guys are going to look as you are set up as an MM couple, rare it turns out it is two straight buddies. |
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A lot of struggling men are encouraged to look at other mens profiles, to get ideas for improvement and differentiation.
With thousands of men here, there'll be a huge volume of them who may have some sexual interest in men, whether as group session buds, bi curiosity etc.
Profiles are visible to everyone unless you hide yours. You can stop specific mixes of people from messaging you, if it's an issue.
Many men are surprised at the penetration of same gender sexual interest amongst our culture as it's not been that well accepted to be out, so people have stayed repressed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plus this site is getting more bi/gay men on here of late.
Yayyy..whoop whoop!
Someone excited
It is natural guys are going to look as you are set up as an MM couple, rare it turns out it is two straight buddies. "
Being a bit judgemental there mind. So two guy profile mean they must be gay ???
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plus this site is getting more bi/gay men on here of late.
Yayyy..whoop whoop!
Someone excited
It is natural guys are going to look as you are set up as an MM couple, rare it turns out it is two straight buddies.
Being a bit judgemental there mind. So two guy profile mean they must be gay ???
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How is it judgemental? Nearly all the MM couples I have come across are actual sexual couples |
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"Fascinated to see the number of men checking my profile. Givem That my preferences show me as M looking for F, why are so many guys checking out my profile? "
Are you actually attracting them though or are they just looking and then not messaging when they've checked you out ? |
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Must admit as a straight guy I do sometimes enjoy a nosey through a few male profile veris 
Surely there must be a term for bouncing from one profile to another through veris, a bit like a YouTube trail?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plus this site is getting more bi/gay men on here of late.
Yayyy..whoop whoop!
Someone excited
It is natural guys are going to look as you are set up as an MM couple, rare it turns out it is two straight buddies.
Being a bit judgemental there mind. So two guy profile mean they must be gay ???
How is it judgemental? Nearly all the MM couples I have come across are actual sexual couples"
Oh right so well all see the world through your gay eyes. Perhaps your looking for gay couple profile because your gay. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plus this site is getting more bi/gay men on here of late.
Yayyy..whoop whoop!
Someone excited
It is natural guys are going to look as you are set up as an MM couple, rare it turns out it is two straight buddies.
Being a bit judgemental there mind. So two guy profile mean they must be gay ???
How is it judgemental? Nearly all the MM couples I have come across are actual sexual couples
Oh right so well all see the world through your gay eyes. Perhaps your looking for gay couple profile because your gay. "
Are you really this moronic? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plus this site is getting more bi/gay men on here of late.
Yayyy..whoop whoop!
Someone excited
It is natural guys are going to look as you are set up as an MM couple, rare it turns out it is two straight buddies.
Being a bit judgemental there mind. So two guy profile mean they must be gay ???
How is it judgemental? Nearly all the MM couples I have come across are actual sexual couples
Oh right so well all see the world through your gay eyes. Perhaps your looking for gay couple profile because your gay. "
I said whoop whoop! Because I took what was said by the mm guys as positive!
I did check out their profile because they Checked mine first!
Bit confused because it says they're straight, but happy to play with bi couples... Slight mixed messages there, boys!
Back to the yaaaay whoop whoop!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you block single males then this won't be an issue
I am not sure the OP ever said it was an issue, simply asked why this might be.."
Exactly. Don't have a problem with it. Just curious as I thought filtering or profile would stop it. Having read the comments on the forum I now get it and understand that the site preferences/fters don't work that way. Thanks all! |
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"Fascinated to see the number of men checking my profile. Givem That my preferences show me as M looking for F, why are so many guys checking out my profile? "
Lmao amen to that.
I thought it was the lady’s checking me out tell I brought silver membership omg what a sausage party on my profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fascinated to see the number of men checking my profile. Givem That my preferences show me as M looking for F, why are so many guys checking out my profile?
Lmao amen to that.
I thought it was the lady’s checking me out tell I brought silver membership omg what a sausage party on my profile "
You have bicurious on your profile so probably coming up in searches.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fascinated to see the number of men checking my profile. Givem That my preferences show me as M looking for F, why are so many guys checking out my profile?
Lmao amen to that.
I thought it was the lady’s checking me out tell I brought silver membership omg what a sausage party on my profile
You have bicurious on your profile so probably coming up in searches...."
Where does it say bicurious on my profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fascinated to see the number of men checking my profile. Givem That my preferences show me as M looking for F, why are so many guys checking out my profile?
Lmao amen to that.
I thought it was the lady’s checking me out tell I brought silver membership omg what a sausage party on my profile
You have bicurious on your profile so probably coming up in searches....
Where does it say bicurious on my profile? "
That was not for you |
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"Fascinated to see the number of men checking my profile. Givem That my preferences show me as M looking for F, why are so many guys checking out my profile? "
Because more men are interested in Suzuki motorcycles? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men getting their knickers in a twist because another man glanced at their profile. Holy fuck I feel embarrassed to be male. Do women moan if another woman looks at her profile? |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"Fascinated to see the number of men checking my profile. Givem That my preferences show me as M looking for F, why are so many guys checking out my profile? "
Because you have nice nipples, and they are not straight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People are going to look st your profile regardless and since theres a large disparity in the number of guys on here in comparison to other genders makes sense that majority of views will come from guys even if you sre straight |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fascinated to see the number of men checking my profile. Givem That my preferences show me as M looking for F, why are so many guys checking out my profile?
Because you have nice nipples, and they are not straight "
Never noticed. Maybe one side gets twisted more than the other! ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because there are a lot of gay dudes on this website, set your filters and you won't see them. I changed my filter for one day to unblock single men and had about 40 views, and the classic message which I used to get a lot from guys that goes along the lines of "I have a fb that is looking for a threesome", if I get a pound for everytime a guy pretends about that I'd be rich. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because there are a lot of gay dudes on this website, set your filters and you won't see them. I changed my filter for one day to unblock single men and had about 40 views, and the classic message which I used to get a lot from guys that goes along the lines of "I have a fb that is looking for a threesome", if I get a pound for everytime a guy pretends about that I'd be rich."
Some of them may have been telling the truth though haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fascinated to see the number of men checking my profile. Givem That my preferences show me as M looking for F, why are so many guys checking out my profile? "
People can view us all
More guys here to ratio of females |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fascinated to see the number of men checking my profile. Givem That my preferences show me as M looking for F, why are so many guys checking out my profile?
Lmao amen to that.
I thought it was the lady’s checking me out tell I brought silver membership omg what a sausage party on my profile "
Lots of cocks... I appreciate them they are body art and here you will find many cocks.
Us females have too many too at times |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"Fascinated to see the number of men checking my profile. Givem That my preferences show me as M looking for F, why are so many guys checking out my profile? "
. My preference is also for single ladies or couples but I haven’t adjusted my filters with regards to guys as sometimes I have received messages from guys where they are looking for more guys with regards to a lady or couple looking for a gang bang.I do get frustrated when I receive messages from guys or tv / ts asking if I would be interested in meeting up as they think I maybe what is known as fab straight normally a polite no thanks I am straight does the trick.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plus this site is getting more bi/gay men on here of late."
This I don't understand tbf as if they're mainly hunting men, you'd think Fabguys would be the more frequented site by them?
B |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plus this site is getting more bi/gay men on here of late.
This I don't understand tbf as if they're mainly hunting men, you'd think Fabguys would be the more frequented site by them?
B"
Gay app Grindr has been flooded by aggressive straight men hunting trans. Cuts both ways I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fascinated to see the number of men checking my profile. Givem That my preferences show me as M looking for F, why are so many guys checking out my profile? . My preference is also for single ladies or couples but I haven’t adjusted my filters with regards to guys as sometimes I have received messages from guys where they are looking for more guys with regards to a lady or couple looking for a gang bang.I do get frustrated when I receive messages from guys or tv / ts asking if I would be interested in meeting up as they think I maybe what is known as fab straight normally a polite no thanks I am straight does the trick."
In your who's viewed anyone can view you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had the most views per day, yesterday and today. Of all the things!
Like is anyone going to trek out now on Xmas Eve on a stranger punt?"
No.
Nothing to get anywhere with except treble fares taxi
No |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
"I've had the most views per day, yesterday and today. Of all the things!
Like is anyone going to trek out now on Xmas Eve on a stranger punt?
No.
Nothing to get anywhere with except treble fares taxi
No "
I control 3 independent taxi fleets from 1 spot, can't Express how chuffed I am at not working tonight with the "what the fuck do you mean your on time and half fare" gob fulls "well love we are sober driving you around on christmas day, get over it" never goes down that well  |
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"Plus this site is getting more bi/gay men on here of late.
Yayyy..whoop whoop!
Someone excited
It is natural guys are going to look as you are set up as an MM couple, rare it turns out it is two straight buddies.
Being a bit judgemental there mind. So two guy profile mean they must be gay ???
How is it judgemental? Nearly all the MM couples I have come across are actual sexual couples
Oh right so well all see the world through your gay eyes. Perhaps your looking for gay couple profile because your gay. "
I've come across quite a few gay male couple profiles , does that make me a gay man too? Or just observing facts? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had the most views per day, yesterday and today. Of all the things!
Like is anyone going to trek out now on Xmas Eve on a stranger punt?
No.
Nothing to get anywhere with except treble fares taxi
No
I control 3 independent taxi fleets from 1 spot, can't Express how chuffed I am at not working tonight with the "what the fuck do you mean your on time and half fare" gob fulls "well love we are sober driving you around on christmas day, get over it" never goes down that well "
Not your love
It was not a poke at drivers
My job does not pay me treble
I did once get a taxi... My fare was my wages over Christmas to go to care for the sick
Don't call me love |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Plus this site is getting more bi/gay men on here of late.
This I don't understand tbf as if they're mainly hunting men, you'd think Fabguys would be the more frequented site by them?
Seriously? Wow, that's awful!
B
Gay app Grindr has been flooded by aggressive straight men hunting trans. Cuts both ways I guess "
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
"I've had the most views per day, yesterday and today. Of all the things!
Like is anyone going to trek out now on Xmas Eve on a stranger punt?
No.
Nothing to get anywhere with except treble fares taxi
No
I control 3 independent taxi fleets from 1 spot, can't Express how chuffed I am at not working tonight with the "what the fuck do you mean your on time and half fare" gob fulls "well love we are sober driving you around on christmas day, get over it" never goes down that well
Not your love
It was not a poke at drivers
My job does not pay me treble
I did once get a taxi... My fare was my wages over Christmas to go to care for the sick
Don't call me love "
Pet names make me shudder hahahaha, we call each other drives, had a good day drives, on all night drives, been out long drives....I dont drive
In the snow etc my boss transports all the care workers, hospital staff etc for free in his truck, we dont get it often mind but when it hits all roads get shut (nothing but badass hills etc round here) but people still need moving regardless! Theres a lot of care workers etc we personally choose to exempt from the festive chargers as well.
Not even I get taxis christmas day or boxing day with the cost (not that I get charged but it's the 1 time I'll end up with a newbie  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And I bet half of them say they are straight ....fab straight ....its a bit like spaghetti straight till its wet "
All staright and have a fb up for a threesome but you cant meet them until later |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And I bet half of them say they are straight ....fab straight ....its a bit like spaghetti straight till its wet "
There are an unbelievable number of men lying on this site about their sexualities. Even ones that block single men, ‘look’ totally straight and have lots of veris from women and MF couples have winked or messaged me or fabbed my gay blowjob pic.
I have seen loads of the same type of profile that have fucked gay crossdressers or been to those manky gay/ bi gloryhole profiles. Never in my life seen so many closet cases as on here.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People only will know your preferences if they see your profile . Don't see nothing wrong in see profiles "
Pretty much this. I also check out guys occasionally to see what I’m competing with  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fascinated to see the number of men checking my profile. Givem That my preferences show me as M looking for F, why are so many guys checking out my profile? "
because you're a sexy mofo
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fascinated to see the number of men checking my profile. Givem That my preferences show me as M looking for F, why are so many guys checking out my profile? because you're a sexy mofo"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And I bet half of them say they are straight ....fab straight ....its a bit like spaghetti straight till its wet "
It doesn’t start out straight, you know! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thing is though why are so many homosexuals on here?
There a Fab site for gay and bi's."
Why are so many straight men on gay app Grindr looking for trans? They are rude and homophobic to men on what was supposed to be a gay app. There are sites for trans and their hunters. So it cuts both ways |
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"Fascinated to see the number of men checking my profile. Givem That my preferences show me as M looking for F, why are so many guys checking out my profile? "
It's because you look so feminine.
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"Fascinated to see the number of men checking my profile. Givem That my preferences show me as M looking for F, why are so many guys checking out my profile?
It's because you look so feminine.
Cal"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fascinated to see the number of men checking my profile. Givem That my preferences show me as M looking for F, why are so many guys checking out my profile?
It's because you look so feminine.
Cal"
Don’t hold back hey lol |
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"People only will know your preferences if they see your profile . Don't see nothing wrong in see profiles
Pretty much this. I also check out guys occasionally to see what I’m competing with "
Must be a very tough competition |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fascinated to see the number of men checking my profile. Givem That my preferences show me as M looking for F, why are so many guys checking out my profile? "
your answer is this
everyone can view you in the viewed part of our profiles
if you set filters for just women then you should only get them
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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago
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Checking out a profile isn't nec a sign of attraction.....human curiosity gets the better of most people. U say attract, does that mean they only view yr profile or do they actually respond to it and yr inundated with offers? |
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