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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do men have luck in finding regular FWB sitations on FAB or through swinger events? I am female half of couple and already have a FWB situtaion and would like the same for my partner. Am I looking in the right place do you think or is it virtually impossible for guys on here?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not impossible.. but single men far outweigh the couples and females and they have to remember it's more than a sex site.. saying that I have had regular FWB before but fairly new to here so finding my feet . Getting good feedback and views tho. Happy Fabbing |
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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago
Ho Chi Minge City |
I think I’m quite lucky then. I found an upper class ridiculously wealthy and totally submissive redhead fwb that I’ve been seeing regularly for the last 4 years. I didn’t find her on here though but it’s interesting to note that it’s not as easy as I thought it was |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Glad to hear its not impossible  I was wondering if it would be an advantage that he has a long term partner already?
As a partnered person myself, I know if I was looking I would prefer a married/long term partner guy who had wife/partners full support, it would feel safer somehow with everyone being on the same page and knowlegable about non monogamy etiquettes etc rather than on a standard dating site were things I feel things could get more compilcated with people relatively unaware of non monogamy and not having done the processing necessary in order to give them a better chance of not getting hurt or hurting anyone else. I would also rather he was with someone like I have described above - it would make me more comfortable with it I think.
At the moment I feel like I have the holy grail in that my FWB is just with me at the moment - it could change at any time but I trust him to keep me abreast of any developments!  |
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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago
Ho Chi Minge City |
"Lasting pleasure - where did you find your FWB? xx"
I met her at a hotel in Hertfordshire. We got chatting and there was some initial attraction. I grew up in Zimbabwe and she worked in Ethiopia so the fact I was African totally swung her my way. Also my accent was most appealing to her. We may be from totally different worlds but are pretty much inseparable now. We communicate constantly and see each other several time’s a week but have the luxury of living alone (unless either of us are staying over which happens fairly frequently) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What are the married dating sites do you know? The only one I can think of is the ashley madison one but have the impression that is for affairs rather than out in the open, consensual non monogamy with partners consent? I may be totally wrong!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You could also try married-dating sites. Quite a few of the women on here also use them - they are maybe more suited to looking for a longer term fwb."
what are those sites?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My current meet is engaged, he and I originally met for a last minute social when they still had a couple's profile then it just went on from there, so a bit of a lucky accident 
They've met together and apart before but now only he meets at the moment. I think respect towards the other partner goes a long way in this situation though. I like to know that she's absolutely fine with him meeting me. |
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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago
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"What are the married dating sites do you know? The only one I can think of is the ashley madison one but have the impression that is for affairs rather than out in the open, consensual non monogamy with partners consent? I may be totally wrong!!! "
There's that one (I don't like it) and a few others. They market themselves as for affairs but they are used by singles, divorced, poly, as well as people looking for affairs. Quite a few people are on fab as well, alongside more kinky sites. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bloody greedy couples stealing all the single men for themselves  "
I liken it to when the salmon swim back to mate and all the bears just wait and pluck from the water. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met my FB on here (well I actually had met him before but didn’t remember until he reminded me) He was quite persistent, but obviously not annoying. I had shown interest but didn’t manage to meet at that time or whatever and he sent a pic with subsequent messages so I remembered who he was. And after that it comes down to whether you’d work as fuck buddies. I think the pic thing really helped cos so many guys on here are just faceless and not memorable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve found it impossible to find a decent one!!!
We are doomed me wench! "
Your telling me at the min I can’t find a single male, fwb, Fb, couple nothing. Even the postman turned me down this morning because he was busy |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I’ve found it impossible to find a decent one!!!
We are doomed me wench!
Your telling me at the min I can’t find a single male, fwb, Fb, couple nothing. Even the postman turned me down this morning because he was busy "
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
"I'm confused as to what guys want. No strings, yet regular, a friends with benefits, a fuck buddy, but no investment in the relationship, so basically a booty relationship.
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" If you want a friend you have to be a friend " .This saying has worked for me . |
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Well from my point of view, who is a single guy, trying to find a FWB or FB, that have the same interests / chemistry with.
Then I am finding it very hard. As I am very picky and have a few certain criteria’s that I am after LOL. Not to mention they have to like me as well LOL.
It is like looking for your ideal partner with bonus marshmallows on top. LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm confused as to what guys want. No strings, yet regular, a friends with benefits, a fuck buddy, but no investment in the relationship, so basically a booty relationship.
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I think this is the fab definition absolutely  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For a bloke its easier to thread a camel through the eye of a needle and turn base elements into gold"
No, I've had several over the years I've been on here. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"For a bloke its easier to thread a camel through the eye of a needle and turn base elements into gold
No, I've had several over the years I've been on here. "
And I'm going to be your next! |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"I'm confused as to what guys want. No strings, yet regular, a friends with benefits, a fuck buddy, but no investment in the relationship, so basically a booty relationship.
Got it in one! "
Tuffo?
Turn Up, Fuck, Fuck Off.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've has nothing but longterm FWBs for 26 years but never from fab, I wouldn't be interested from here as way too complicated under the disguise of being easy!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of the reasons we originally joined fabs was because the male half of this couple had his FWB move herself into an exclusive relationship...
We've found ourselves having lots of different fun though since being here, but if possible he would love to find another regular FWB but it looks like finding it on here will be very difficult to impossible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our exclusive fwb situation lasted with one man, who over the last three years, would regularly satisfy my wife every four to six weeks, when mutual availability allowed.
It involved social meets, hotel meets and as trust was established, he came to our home to enjoy my wife.
In the interim between meets, he would text and send flirty messages to keep my wife feeling appreciated. Sometimes he would update me on their adventures, keeping the cuckold dynamic exciting.
It was disappointing when the arrangement came to an end without any explanation or communication from him.
A good strategy would be to have a formal exit strategy agreed by all persons involved from the start.
What had been an enjoyable three years of no strings fun, with respect for each other's privacy, has finished on a rather sad note for my wife. The lack of closure makes it much harder for her, to move on and start another exclusive fwb arrangement. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"My partner seems to have found it easier than me. I don't know if maybe more women are looking for regular so he has more options or he's just better at finding it than me."
We found it difficult to find the equal attraction on all sides & had a few failures. Typically the one lady we just gelled with is the furthest away so we don’t see her as often as we’d like.
But neither side are exclusive so we are still looking about
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"My partner seems to have found it easier than me. I don't know if maybe more women are looking for regular so he has more options or he's just better at finding it than me.
We found it difficult to find the equal attraction on all sides & had a few failures. Typically the one lady we just gelled with is the furthest away so we don’t see her as often as we’d like.
But neither side are exclusive so we are still looking about
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I think you've misunderstood me. We aren't looking for a fwb for both of us. We meet separately. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"My partner seems to have found it easier than me. I don't know if maybe more women are looking for regular so he has more options or he's just better at finding it than me.
We found it difficult to find the equal attraction on all sides & had a few failures. Typically the one lady we just gelled with is the furthest away so we don’t see her as often as we’d like.
But neither side are exclusive so we are still looking about
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I think you've misunderstood me. We aren't looking for a fwb for both of us. We meet separately."
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"Do men have luck in finding regular FWB sitations on FAB or through swinger events? I am female half of couple and already have a FWB situtaion and would like the same for my partner. Am I looking in the right place do you think or is it virtually impossible for guys on here?
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Chance be a fine thing |
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I’ve had the good fortune to have two FWBs from Fab, consecutively, not concurrently.
They both met people in real life who they wished to settle down with. I had an amazing time with both of them. |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
Glasgow/London |
I find it hard to find a woman i click with.
Most decent women i get chatting to on here just end up disappearing, leaving the site, usually because they get inundated with messages from guys.
I live in hope that I'll find someone suitable some day.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm confused as to what guys want. No strings, yet regular, a friends with benefits, a fuck buddy, but no investment in the relationship, so basically a booty relationship.
I think this is the fab definition absolutely "
I am also getting this impression |
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Hmmmm I'm beginning to wonder if I've been looking in the wrong places. A married FWB will be a lot less likely to slide into the mindset of wanting me exclusively to herself.
However there would still be challenges, just different ones. Chill out time for movies and meals out may not be so easy and city breaks would almost certainly be a non starter. |
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"Hmmmm I'm beginning to wonder if I've been looking in the wrong places. A married FWB will be a lot less likely to slide into the mindset of wanting me exclusively to herself.
However there would still be challenges, just different ones. Chill out time for movies and meals out may not be so easy and city breaks would almost certainly be a non starter."
Depends. I'm not married but I'm in a relationship and chill out time, movies, meals, etc are easy. Both me and my partner have spent weekends with others so city breaks would be doable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not interested in a fab FB or BWF only done the non-fab FWB for the last 26 years really ... need to find another partner in crime for life's new adventures |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it's impossible, but the level of difficulty depends on who you are. A single bi woman would find it easiest, while a single straight man would find it most difficult. |
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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago
notts |
"Hmmmm I'm beginning to wonder if I've been looking in the wrong places. A married FWB will be a lot less likely to slide into the mindset of wanting me exclusively to herself.
However there would still be challenges, just different ones. Chill out time for movies and meals out may not be so easy and city breaks would almost certainly be a non starter."
Are you sure you just want a fwb? That sounds like it is tipping towards full blown relationship territory. Anyway, you can definitely find married women up for that (a lot are pretty neglected and have husbands who work away a lot) but the mindset might be more 'you are paying for the city break' |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"I don't think it's impossible, but the level of difficulty depends on who you are. A single bi woman would find it easiest, while a single straight man would find it most difficult."
I think a couple with young kids at home living up the Cambrian Mountains proved damn difficult tbh, but we see someone on occasion just not on occasion enough so we are open to another.
So anyone fitting our profile who fancies a no strings trial weekend in Wales is welcome to contact us, but bring your big woolly jumpers, jeans & walking boots
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