With all due respect swinging is not really for kids. Most of us have kids older than you. Get yourself to uni and sow your seed. Come back in another 10 years, in a relationship and you'll get the very most from this lifestyle. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"Hi all,
I was wondering what are people's opinions on young guys, and what they can do to have more success on this site. Thanks "
. You are quite young that you may struggle to get into a club or spa , you can’t accommodate , and as someone else has already stated you maybe younger than some of the ladies kids on this site which for most maybe off putting.Having said all that you may have some success as there maybe young ladies nearer your age on this site or a older / mature lady looking for a younger guy.I think at your age uni with all the wild weekends maybe good for you as someone else has already stated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With all due respect swinging is not really for kids. Most of us have kids older than you. Get yourself to uni and sow your seed. Come back in another 10 years, in a relationship and you'll get the very most from this lifestyle."
I think I’m started to realise this. Genuinely interested in the lifestyle not just here for easy sex but still very difficult but I get it |
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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago
Coventry |
"Hi all,
I was wondering what are people's opinions on young guys, and what they can do to have more success on this site. Thanks "
I think u should try clubs to meet folk there. Its about the person in here to succeed in the site as u put it. Invest time in reading profiles before messaging it makes a chance of a respond higher |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What about 27 then? I know I’ve been on here for a short time, ok, I’m limited with where I’m living but hoping that won’t be forever.. is it just us ‘young’ guys turn people off that we won’t have enough experience? I myself have so many fantasies that I want to do and this site could fulfil those, I just need to find the person who will meet up.. and I have messages people, they just seem to not reply even though I’ve looked at their profile and made it interesting and unique to them..
But I would agree, being 18 is probably a little too young for this site.. |
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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago
Staffordshire |
"Theres no need to be insecure about age its whatever"
It's not "whatever" for alot of people on here. I'm closer to your age than alot of the ladies who have commented and I wouldnt fuck an 18 year old again. As slowcum said, I remember the shit sex, no thank you  |
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We really love young guys but some of them can't seem to appreciate what swinging is all about, are crap at msging and them not turning up for meets is also a problem we have. We still find some good ones though...yum  |
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By *hezuMan
over a year ago
London |
"Theres no need to be insecure about age its whatever
It's not "whatever" for alot of people on here. I'm closer to your age than alot of the ladies who have commented and I wouldnt fuck an 18 year old again. As slowcum said, I remember the shit sex, no thank you "
You wouldn't fuck a younger guy it's whatever someone else will  |
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Here’s my two pence worth:
I got into this lifestyle when I was in my early twenties (15+ years ago now) and I appreciate your issue. I used to struggle to get meets when I was younger because pretty much everyone on these sites was older.
In my time on these sites over the years I’ve noticed that there now seem to be much more (relatively speaking) younger people who are into the lifestyle. The other thing I would say is that there are some people out there who actively seek out younger people (I also appreciate that there are probably many more who don’t!).
I guess all I can say is keep persevering - you’ll either find other people if a similar young age, people who are specifically looking for younger, or you’ll get older and find people who are now your older age!
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here’s my two pence worth:
I got into this lifestyle when I was in my early twenties (15+ years ago now) and I appreciate your issue. I used to struggle to get meets when I was younger because pretty much everyone on these sites was older.
In my time on these sites over the years I’ve noticed that there now seem to be much more (relatively speaking) younger people who are into the lifestyle. The other thing I would say is that there are some people out there who actively seek out younger people (I also appreciate that there are probably many more who don’t!).
I guess all I can say is keep persevering - you’ll either find other people if a similar young age, people who are specifically looking for younger, or you’ll get older and find people who are now your older age!
Good luck "
Many young guys here just want a fix. Swinging is not a fix but it can be okay to just fuck any woman right and call it swinging? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here’s my two pence worth:
I got into this lifestyle when I was in my early twenties (15+ years ago now) and I appreciate your issue. I used to struggle to get meets when I was younger because pretty much everyone on these sites was older.
In my time on these sites over the years I’ve noticed that there now seem to be much more (relatively speaking) younger people who are into the lifestyle. The other thing I would say is that there are some people out there who actively seek out younger people (I also appreciate that there are probably many more who don’t!).
I guess all I can say is keep persevering - you’ll either find other people if a similar young age, people who are specifically looking for younger, or you’ll get older and find people who are now your older age!
Good luck "
Many young guys here just want a fix. Swinging is not a fix but it can be okay to just fuck any woman right and call it swinging?
What's the 21st century take on single guys or women in regards to swinging?
Is it purely for couples or? |
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"What about 27 then? I know I’ve been on here for a short time, ok, I’m limited with where I’m living but hoping that won’t be forever.. is it just us ‘young’ guys turn people off that we won’t have enough experience? I myself have so many fantasies that I want to do and this site could fulfil those, I just need to find the person who will meet up.. and I have messages people, they just seem to not reply even though I’ve looked at their profile and made it interesting and unique to them..
But I would agree, being 18 is probably a little too young for this site.."
Your words are ‘...I myself have so many fantasies that I want to do and this site could fulfil those, I just need to find the person who will meet up.. ‘. Why would someone meet you in order to help you fulfill your fantasies? Unless you’re offering something you are unlikely to get a meet, regardless of age. If your profile is similarly self interested you might find that changing it does the trick and gets you meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Need to be about 20 years older for me to even consider. I remember when I was 18, and the poor sex of an 18yo, wouldn't go back"
Thats such a generalisation lol.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What about 27 then? I know I’ve been on here for a short time, ok, I’m limited with where I’m living but hoping that won’t be forever.. is it just us ‘young’ guys turn people off that we won’t have enough experience? I myself have so many fantasies that I want to do and this site could fulfil those, I just need to find the person who will meet up.. and I have messages people, they just seem to not reply even though I’ve looked at their profile and made it interesting and unique to them..
But I would agree, being 18 is probably a little too young for this site..
Your words are ‘...I myself have so many fantasies that I want to do and this site could fulfil those, I just need to find the person who will meet up.. ‘. Why would someone meet you in order to help you fulfill your fantasies? Unless you’re offering something you are unlikely to get a meet, regardless of age. If your profile is similarly self interested you might find that changing it does the trick and gets you meets. "
Yeh you do have a good point, I want to be able to help others fulfill their fantasies too and explore new experiences too with like minded people! |
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"Hi all,
I was wondering what are people's opinions on young guys, and what they can do to have more success on this site. Thanks "
There is nothing you can do. One of the biggest factors that people decide to meet on is age and if people aren't looking for your age range then nothing you do is likely to change their minds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Unfortunatley young men seen to be tarred in a onner (and quite rightly so there is always going to be stereotypes of x type of person in a place like this) and the usual stereotype of us young guys has already been described above, its just about persevering until that first meet and a verification saying 'actually this guy might be young but he's a gent and can articulate his fantasies and will help you realise yours' or something of that ilk, I'm still trying for that first bit of getting a meet, but be tenacious and you'll get there!  |
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By *adam07Man
over a year ago
london |
I am a strong believer of going out there and meeting people. More chances of you getting to 'Swing your willy'.
Look out for clubs local to you and visit them. As a single Straight male you wasting time trying to get laid... |
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