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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Have been on here a couple of weeks now, had one meet ( not her type ) and I respect that, we all like different things and different looks, but I seem to send messages and never get a reply, so I respect that I’m not for them, But iam starting to worry if I’m that ugly that no woman on here want to meet me?

So just wanted some honest advice as to weather it is my picture/profile that’s the problem, or I just need to dig my grave now lol

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I can’t honestly see anything wrong just stick with it .... takes time

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By *ymo80Man  over a year ago

grimsby

To be honest if you’ve had a meet within a few weeks of joining your doing well

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By *tephTV67TV/TS  over a year ago

Cheshire

First paragraph will annoy some, see FAQ about politeness on here, especially about not replying to messages or winks.

Pictures are fine, you're not ugly but women get inundated with messages so the photos and text in your profile has to be better than average. So more pictures, suited and booted maybe and the text in your profile, more about what you can offer in a meeting. As you're interested in meeting a couple what are you bringing to a meet with them ? for example.

The cannot accommodate can indicate a partner at home, so maybe be open about why.

The guys on this site have to really put in the effort, you can be on here for months and not get a reply. But for those who do put in the effort they will get meets, so contribute to the forums or even attend socials in your area. Do what you can to make yourself stand out from the rest of the guys in here.

Good luck Op

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman  over a year ago

Victoria, London

'a sex and swinger site'

so everything after would then come over as being insincere.

No 'interests' indicated

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Profile comes across as quite blunt and unfriendly.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hi OP, you’re a nice looking guy but tbh your profile txt makes it sound like you’re on a dating site. It’s rather vanilla. You need to vamp it up a bit.

Enjoy Fab

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS  over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

First paragraph comes across as quite aggressive.

The bit about the possibility of a relationship will put a lot of people off I guess.

Probably also worth explaining why you can't accom.

Other than that, nothing wrong with the way you look, you'll appeal to some and not to others. Just like real life.

Good luck

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’ve always found flowers work rather well.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Save up a couple schillings , then start going to Clubs and socials....

The same women who don’t answer your messages online , will be the same women that will talk to you at a social....

That is because your “ Hi , how are you doing tonight “ is not some copy and paste message sent to these women daily.....

It’s actually an appropriate introduction ...

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