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This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....
If you've chatted about boundaries prior to sex with another couple there's no problem. If however you find yourself in an impromptu orgy in a club (can happen) and a womans getting in a rhythm sucking your cock, is a bit of warning expected? Don't want to spoil a groups fun just because we didn't know a long established unwritten swinging rule! Lol cheers xx |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....
If you've chatted about boundaries prior to sex with another couple there's no problem. If however you find yourself in an impromptu orgy in a club (can happen) and a womans getting in a rhythm sucking your cock, is a bit of warning expected? Don't want to spoil a groups fun just because we didn't know a long established unwritten swinging rule! Lol cheers xx"
Yes! Always let them know, it's so fecking rude to just cum in someone's mouth without warning. A guy once did it to me, I spat the cum on him and slapped his cock. Rude bastard! |
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"This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....
If you've chatted about boundaries prior to sex with another couple there's no problem. If however you find yourself in an impromptu orgy in a club (can happen) and a womans getting in a rhythm sucking your cock, is a bit of warning expected? Don't want to spoil a groups fun just because we didn't know a long established unwritten swinging rule! Lol cheers xx
Yes! Always let them know, it's so fecking rude to just cum in someone's mouth without warning. A guy once did it to me, I spat the cum on him and slapped his cock. Rude bastard!"
That's exactly the reaction I'd be devastated with! I'll stick with "that's too nice, I will cum if you carry on" it's the ladies choice then.x |
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"My one and only time, the only warning I got was a hand clamped on the back of my head forcing me onto his cock.
There was gagging, I swallowed the lot.
I had mixed feelings...
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All that hair grabbing and hands on back of head is just rude. If someone is there sucking I want them to be there bacause they want to be there not because they're in a headlock! Lol. X |
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"All that hair grabbing and hands on back of head is just rude. If someone is there sucking I want them to be there bacause they want to be there not because they're in a headlock! Lol. X"
It was technically very abusive.
He was going to cum and decided that I was going to swallow the lot. His cock hitting the back of my throat guaranteed there was no spitting and made me gag big time. |
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"All that hair grabbing and hands on back of head is just rude. If someone is there sucking I want them to be there bacause they want to be there not because they're in a headlock! Lol. X
It was technically very abusive.
He was going to cum and decided that I was going to swallow the lot. His cock hitting the back of my throat guaranteed there was no spitting and made me gag big time."
Next time.. bite. That will make him move x |
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"All that hair grabbing and hands on back of head is just rude. If someone is there sucking I want them to be there bacause they want to be there not because they're in a headlock! Lol. X
It was technically very abusive.
He was going to cum and decided that I was going to swallow the lot. His cock hitting the back of my throat guaranteed there was no spitting and made me gag big time.
Next time.. bite. That will make him move x"
 I would have done... no one forces me down... well okay one or two get away but they already know who they are.. but to the op... yeah a warning is nice though it is normally pretty obvious before a guy does. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....
If you've chatted about boundaries prior to sex with another couple there's no problem. If however you find yourself in an impromptu orgy in a club (can happen) and a womans getting in a rhythm sucking your cock, is a bit of warning expected? Don't want to spoil a groups fun just because we didn't know a long established unwritten swinging rule! Lol cheers xx
Yes! Always let them know, it's so fecking rude to just cum in someone's mouth without warning. A guy once did it to me, I spat the cum on him and slapped his cock. Rude bastard!
That's exactly the reaction I'd be devastated with! I'll stick with "that's too nice, I will cum if you carry on" it's the ladies choice then.x "
YOU'D be devastated? I was traumatised!  |
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"I think you've got three options
A, deny it was you
B, say oops sorry
C, blame the receiver of the cum for being to good so it's her fault
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D, It was dark in the room, I thought you were my wife?!?! LOL |
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"I think you've got three options
A, deny it was you
B, say oops sorry
C, blame the receiver of the cum for being to good so it's her fault
D, It was dark in the room, I thought you were my wife?!?! LOL"
Exactly  lol
E, I thought it was your vagina although that might make it worse ! |
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If you have not worked it out before just give a warning that you’re going to spunk in her /his mouth it’s then up to them if they take it or not.
I personally tell them up front that I will be spunking in their mouth before we even start as it’s my favourite place to cum.
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"If you have not worked it out before just give a warning that you’re going to spunk in her /his mouth it’s then up to them if they take it or not.
I personally tell them up front that I will be spunking in their mouth before we even start as it’s my favourite place to cum.
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Lol you TELL them you WILL be spunking in their mouth? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to admit to being guilty to that once.
There I was, lying on a bed getting expertly sucked when along comes my wife and sits on my face.
Not much I could say to give a warning ? |
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"If you have not worked it out before just give a warning that you’re going to spunk in her /his mouth it’s then up to them if they take it or not.
I personally tell them up front that I will be spunking in their mouth before we even start as it’s my favourite place to cum.
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I think you’ll find you mean, “I ask if I can come in their mouth” |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"If you have not worked it out before just give a warning that you’re going to spunk in her /his mouth it’s then up to them if they take it or not.
I personally tell them up front that I will be spunking in their mouth before we even start as it’s my favourite place to cum.
I think you’ll find you mean, “I ask if I can come in their mouth”"
I actually think he really means what he said, I'd love a guy to say that to me, he'd go home with his dick in a bag. |
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"If you have not worked it out before just give a warning that you’re going to spunk in her /his mouth it’s then up to them if they take it or not.
I personally tell them up front that I will be spunking in their mouth before we even start as it’s my favourite place to cum.
I think you’ll find you mean, “I ask if I can come in their mouth”
I actually think he really means what he said, I'd love a guy to say that to me, he'd go home with his dick in a bag. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always ask where they would like it before I come .It's nice to see what turns them on and where they want me to .from all over their tits to in their face ..I aim to please..ha .If they say in my mouth I say don't be greedy and share some back with me ..I love horny moments like that  |
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"All that hair grabbing and hands on back of head is just rude. If someone is there sucking I want them to be there bacause they want to be there not because they're in a headlock! Lol. X
It was technically very abusive.
He was going to cum and decided that I was going to swallow the lot. His cock hitting the back of my throat guaranteed there was no spitting and made me gag big time."
I would have bitten it, inconsiderate dickhead |
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By *c1989Woman
over a year ago
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"This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....
If you've chatted about boundaries prior to sex with another couple there's no problem. If however you find yourself in an impromptu orgy in a club (can happen) and a womans getting in a rhythm sucking your cock, is a bit of warning expected? Don't want to spoil a groups fun just because we didn't know a long established unwritten swinging rule! Lol cheers xx
Yes! Always let them know, it's so fecking rude to just cum in someone's mouth without warning. A guy once did it to me, I spat the cum on him and slapped his cock. Rude bastard!"
I only been to clubs a handful of times. And so far this is why I put off giving bjs during group situations.
If cum lands on my tongue. There is a high possibility I will throw up on you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I appreciate a small heads up - just something like, 'I'm going to come' or 'I'm close'.
Generally I am a swallower, but I still like a bit of warning so I can prepare myself... particularly if the guy produces quite a load. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Out of sheer respect & manners, I always advise my playmate that if she continues to do that I will cum & that gives them the option to continue & enjoy or not to get a unexpected & unwanted surprise... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you have not worked it out before just give a warning that you’re going to spunk in her /his mouth it’s then up to them if they take it or not.
I personally tell them up front that I will be spunking in their mouth before we even start as it’s my favourite place to cum.
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You tell them? |
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By *eith28Man
over a year ago
uxbridge |
I always ask where the person giving the bj would like me to cum. I learned as a late teenager to ask or give warning when I received an incredible blow Job round the back of the Glasgow Arts School late one Saturday night. She was deliciously sexy, and dirty and deep thruster me I came ferociously it hit the back of her throat and she promptly threw up all over my really nice shoes. Red wine and semen is murder to get out of suede.
So. Boys if you like your shoes ask where you should cum!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always give warning.
It's never happened to me but I wouldn't react very well if someone came in my mouth under any circumstances especially if they didn't give warning they were about to cum |
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Quite frankly, I'm usually so delighted that I'm reaching the point of no return that I shout 'I'm cumming' because why the hell shouldn't I be proud of that?!
The lady in question is pretty sure of where I am but I do like to discuss before a meet where possible |
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"This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....
If you've chatted about boundaries prior to sex with another couple there's no problem. If however you find yourself in an impromptu orgy in a club (can happen) and a womans getting in a rhythm sucking your cock, is a bit of warning expected? Don't want to spoil a groups fun just because we didn't know a long established unwritten swinging rule! Lol cheers xx"
"Where d'you want it?" usually 30 seconds prior to blowing my load usually covers it.
Easy enough to delay matters by gripping the base of the cock between thumb and index finger and you can dump it whereever the lady wants it. |
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over a year ago
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Personally, I prefer no warning and like the surprise! If you have decided to blow a guy and know what you're doing then surely you must expect him to cum. In my experience, you can tell by his body language anyway. |
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"This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....
If you've chatted about boundaries prior to sex with another couple there's no problem. If however you find yourself in an impromptu orgy in a club (can happen) and a womans getting in a rhythm sucking your cock, is a bit of warning expected? Don't want to spoil a groups fun just because we didn't know a long established unwritten swinging rule! Lol cheers xx
Yes! Always let them know, it's so fecking rude to just cum in someone's mouth without warning. A guy once did it to me, I spat the cum on him and slapped his cock. Rude bastard!
That's exactly the reaction I'd be devastated with! I'll stick with "that's too nice, I will cum if you carry on" it's the ladies choice then.x "
That’s exactly the right thing to do and say in my opinion! |
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"Personally, I prefer no warning and like the surprise! If you have decided to blow a guy and know what you're doing then surely you must expect him to cum. In my experience, you can tell by his body language anyway."
I'm the same as you hunny, if I'm giving a bj to a guy I know what the end result is going to be. If anything I'll let him know the finish is his choice and how he wants it to be. For me I love the hand on the back of the head.
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Met a guy at club the other week, we hadn’t discussed anything before we started play. He said ‘I’m going to cum, where would you like it?’
Sometimes I’ll give them the choice and will say ‘you decide’ with a cheeky smile, other times I’ll tell them where I’d like it. 
Ms x |
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When playing and receiving oral, I (Mr) will always try and let whoever I am playing with, know exactly how it feels. As I start to build up towards cumming, I will give clear warning in case she would like to change position or swap to different play. I would never cum in a lady’s mouth unless she makes it obvious that she is happy to continue.
When playing with other couples, I will also warn the male NOT to cum in MrsL’s mouth. They have always respected this. Xx |
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I don't always get much warning when I cum, so when a woman begins giving me oral at a club i always ask early on "where would you like me to cum?".
With one friend a few years ago I pulled out of her mouth as I realised I was about to cum, and she didn't want it in her mouth. I came all over the top she was wearing. Thankfully she liked the idea of the train home with cum stains her top. |
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By *urse234Woman
over a year ago
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I HATE cum. So prewarn the person im sucking not to cum in my mouth.
Only had this happen once on a 1:1 session. I was up within seconds vomiting into the hotel toilet. He apologised haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....
If you've chatted about boundaries prior to sex with another couple there's no problem. If however you find yourself in an impromptu orgy in a club (can happen) and a womans getting in a rhythm sucking your cock, is a bit of warning expected? Don't want to spoil a groups fun just because we didn't know a long established unwritten swinging rule! Lol cheers xx
Yes! Always let them know, it's so fecking rude to just cum in someone's mouth without warning. A guy once did it to me, I spat the cum on him and slapped his cock. Rude bastard!"
That made me giggle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you have not worked it out before just give a warning that you’re going to spunk in her /his mouth it’s then up to them if they take it or not.
I personally tell them up front that I will be spunking in their mouth before we even start as it’s my favourite place to cum.
I think you’ll find you mean, “I ask if I can come in their mouth”
I actually think he really means what he said, I'd love a guy to say that to me, he'd go home with his dick in a bag. "
Well as I would probably not meet someone line you it would never be a problem  |
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"If you have not worked it out before just give a warning that you’re going to spunk in her /his mouth it’s then up to them if they take it or not.
I personally tell them up front that I will be spunking in their mouth before we even start as it’s my favourite place to cum.
You tell them?"
Yes because that’s the kind of female I would be meeting anyways |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Younger days I made the mistake of face fucking and cumming down their throat making them gag
Until I had a guy do it to me although hot I’d see a woman’s choice now |
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Surely you give a warning!! I was once giving oral to a girlfriend and with no warning she squirted powerfully into my throat, I couldn’t breath....choking! I still see her now and then when I go back home.....always have a little laugh and smile together about that night! |
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Yes! Always let them know, it's so fecking rude to just cum in someone's mouth without warning. A guy once did it to me, I spat the cum on him and slapped his cock. Rude bastard!/quote]
Ha ha ha happened me once as he held my head, I held it in my mouth and stood up to kiss him and spat it all back his throat, he went apeshit when I told him never do it again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always say I am about to cum puts the ball in their court think it would be wrong to assume my experience is that unless you know someone well it’s most likely she will not want you to unload in her mouth |
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"All that hair grabbing and hands on back of head is just rude. If someone is there sucking I want them to be there bacause they want to be there not because they're in a headlock! Lol. X
It was technically very abusive.
He was going to cum and decided that I was going to swallow the lot. His cock hitting the back of my throat guaranteed there was no spitting and made me gag big time."
That wasn't technically abusive. It was abusive, full stop. You should have bitten it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely it's only courteous to give a little notice, I'd always try and have the conversation of do you like kinda thing but would always warn and ask if it's OK xxxx
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
If you are happy to put in your mouth and suck it then accept you may end up with a facial or gagging on a shed load of cum
Same applies to guys. If you don’t like it , don't put it in your mouth. In my experience girls and guys absolutely love cum in thier mouth and on thier face so I wouldn’t over analyse it |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I think I'm the odd one out here (Mr). Hands on the back of my head as he cums in my mouth! Yes please and I'd savour and swallow every drop mmmmmmm. Just being honest."
No you’re normal ...... hands on back of head.... . sexy as fuck ... |
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"I think I'm the odd one out here (Mr). Hands on the back of my head as he cums in my mouth! Yes please and I'd savour and swallow every drop mmmmmmm. Just being honest.
No you’re normal ...... hands on back of head.... . sexy as fuck ... "
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i think the gent enjoys it more if the sucker is ready to greedily swallow the load... and it's not hard to make it pretty clear your close so they can be ready
So, giving a good sign helps all parties |
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By *ullpa72Man
over a year ago
Isle of Arran |
"If you are happy to put in your mouth and suck it then accept you may end up with a facial or gagging on a shed load of cum
Same applies to guys. If you don’t like it , don't put it in your mouth. In my experience girls and guys absolutely love cum in thier mouth and on thier face so I wouldn’t over analyse it "
agree with this but would still give warning . only polite thing to do ! (personally I love it in my mouth ,but hay that's just me lol) |
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"If you are happy to put in your mouth and suck it then accept you may end up with a facial or gagging on a shed load of cum
Same applies to guys. If you don’t like it , don't put it in your mouth. In my experience girls and guys absolutely love cum in thier mouth and on thier face so I wouldn’t over analyse it "
I'm happy to give a blowjob on a first meet as part of the play but won't take the load in my mouth. Not on a first meet, not till I know the person better and only if I'm in the mood for it then. So if a man would cum in my mouth without warning or asking - he'd be very sorry for doing so.
Just because I put it in my mouth I don't have to and won't accept ending up with his load where I don't want it. |
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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago
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"If you are happy to put in your mouth and suck it then accept you may end up with a facial or gagging on a shed load of cum
Same applies to guys. If you don’t like it , don't put it in your mouth. In my experience girls and guys absolutely love cum in thier mouth and on thier face so I wouldn’t over analyse it
I'm happy to give a blowjob on a first meet as part of the play but won't take the load in my mouth. Not on a first meet, not till I know the person better and only if I'm in the mood for it then. So if a man would cum in my mouth without warning or asking - he'd be very sorry for doing so.
Just because I put it in my mouth I don't have to and won't accept ending up with his load where I don't want it."
I agree with you on "Just because I put it in my mouth I don't have to and won't accept ending up with his load where I don't want it" and also "only if I'm in the mood".
But what does "knowing a person better" have to do with where the cum goes after performing the most intimate act possible between 2 people ? |
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Ideally you'd have the convo beforehand but if its like an orgy scenario this is what I'd do: I'd say "you're going to make me cum like that" if she stops then that indicates she doesn't want your cum or if the carries on or even ups her BJ game then i would assume she wants me to cum and I'd let her do whatever she wants with it when the time came! (Excuse the pun!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must admit I always felt a bit daft asking a women where she preferred I cum during a meet, but after reading this I’m glad I do!
I always presumed most men just did it where they wanted to and I was just being overly polite |
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"I must admit I always felt a bit daft asking a women where she preferred I cum during a meet, but after reading this I’m glad I do!
I always presumed most men just did it where they wanted to and I was just being overly polite "
I hate being asked where, just being told it's imminent is enough then i can direct it myself where i want it to go |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"I HATE cum. So prewarn the person im sucking not to cum in my mouth.
Only had this happen once on a 1:1 session. I was up within seconds vomiting into the hotel toilet. He apologised haha "
Omg I'm so glad I'm not the only one!! It's never been a dealbreaker in pre-meet discussions, but I feel bad that I don't!!
I have an awful gag reflex & just can't let anyone cum in my mouth..not even the man I was married to for 20 years!! |
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I would never risk the chance of not getting another lol - I love receiving them. She will always get plenty of warning as well as being told how amazing it feels.
Just like I’d never stick my cock in a lady’s arse without asking either |
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"This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....
If you've chatted about boundaries prior to sex with another couple there's no problem. If however you find yourself in an impromptu orgy in a club (can happen) and a womans getting in a rhythm sucking your cock, is a bit of warning expected? Don't want to spoil a groups fun just because we didn't know a long established unwritten swinging rule! Lol cheers xx
Yes! Always let them know, it's so fecking rude to just cum in someone's mouth without warning. A guy once did it to me, I spat the cum on him and slapped his cock. Rude bastard!"
Oh, I usual extra for the cock slap ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although I'm happy to give a blowjob I won't take cum in my mouth unless I've met the person multiple times as it's the next level of intimacy for me. I expect to be warned or asked where I want it at some point.
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....
If you've chatted about boundaries prior to sex with another couple there's no problem. If however you find yourself in an impromptu orgy in a club (can happen) and a womans getting in a rhythm sucking your cock, is a bit of warning expected? Don't want to spoil a groups fun just because we didn't know a long established unwritten swinging rule! Lol cheers xx
Yes! Always let them know, it's so fecking rude to just cum in someone's mouth without warning. A guy once did it to me, I spat the cum on him and slapped his cock. Rude bastard!
That's exactly the reaction I'd be devastated with! I'll stick with "that's too nice, I will cum if you carry on" it's the ladies choice then.x "
That's exactly what I say.. |
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"I would always warn the lady as she was getting close, so she can decide. Quite often if playing with a couple we’ll discuss before we start"
I can’t see me having the discussion beforehand unless she initiated it - I’d feel it was a bit presumptuous to be expecting a BJ.
A sufficient “Oh my God, you’re going to make me cum” should be enough warning if you have enough control. |
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"Mrs was sucking a guy we met said he was about to cum she pulled my head down and got me to take his load I like her style! Did you swallow?  was only polite to swallow"
Aannndddd... now I’m rock hard again |
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"I appreciate a small heads up - just something like, 'I'm going to come' or 'I'm close'.
Generally I am a swallower, but I still like a bit of warning so I can prepare myself... particularly if the guy produces quite a load. "
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"This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....
If you've chatted about boundaries prior to sex with another couple there's no problem. If however you find yourself in an impromptu orgy in a club (can happen) and a womans getting in a rhythm sucking your cock, is a bit of warning expected? Don't want to spoil a groups fun just because we didn't know a long established unwritten swinging rule! Lol cheers xx
Yes! Always let them know, it's so fecking rude to just cum in someone's mouth without warning. A guy once did it to me, I spat the cum on him and slapped his cock. Rude bastard!
That's exactly the reaction I'd be devastated with! I'll stick with "that's too nice, I will cum if you carry on" it's the ladies choice then.x "
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"This is light hearted and presume 'communicate' is the general answer....
If you've chatted about boundaries prior to sex with another couple there's no problem. If however you find yourself in an impromptu orgy in a club (can happen) and a womans getting in a rhythm sucking your cock, is a bit of warning expected? Don't want to spoil a groups fun just because we didn't know a long established unwritten swinging rule! Lol cheers xx
Yes! Always let them know, it's so fecking rude to just cum in someone's mouth without warning. A guy once did it to me, I spat the cum on him and slapped his cock. Rude bastard!"
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Haha .
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