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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello all, I'm a guy that enjoys giving oral to woman and not encountered any problems before. However recently I found myself in a bit of a predicament. During my latest endeavour to please someone there was a very unpleasant taste. As a considerate person I continued what I was doing because I didn't want to make her uncomfortable or feel embarrassed.
My question is... What would you have done and is there a polite way about confronting this?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your response depends on how well you know the lady, hopefully it bacteial vaginosis can cause a disturbance in PH balance.
I am sure she would appreciate a gentle heads up, you don't have to say she tasted bad, maybe say something didn't taste right. At least you will of brought it to her attention.
Good luck, I am sure you will know what to do as you are being so considerate |
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there's no way to tell a woman she tastes unpleasant without her feeling at least embarrassed.
I've never been in this situation being a straight woman but I'm inclined to think that if I was I'd say nothing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Finger her and then put your fanny juice covered fingers in her mouth.
When she starts gagging and retching, she’ll know she has a problem and you won’t have to tell her   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe, in future, use your fingers to 'start things off' and subtly sniff before committing your tongue  "
I normally start with my hands but there was no bad odour so it caught me off guard  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"when you say "unpleasant taste" what do you mean? Acidic? "
Tangy/Bitter very hard to describe. It was quite potent and like a said odorless so maybe she used a product or lotion of some kind? I'm not sure |
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"when you say "unpleasant taste" what do you mean? Acidic?
Tangy/Bitter very hard to describe. It was quite potent and like a said odorless so maybe she used a product or lotion of some kind? I'm not sure"
could have. Did she use lube at any point? Woman do taste different at certain points in their cycle too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"when you say "unpleasant taste" what do you mean? Acidic?
Tangy/Bitter very hard to describe. It was quite potent and like a said odorless so maybe she used a product or lotion of some kind? I'm not sure
could have. Did she use lube at any point? Woman do taste different at certain points in their cycle too. "
No, we didn't use any lube during our time together |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just stopped and said you had jaw ache. Or if there was flavoured lube suggest that."
Thanks for the suggestion, would be a nice way carry on without lowering the mood |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It might have just been her natural taste or she may have eaten some bad food the day before.
I wouldn't mention it personally because if it doesn't smell then it's unlikely to be an infection/bv or because shes unclean and all you stand to do is make her feel self conscious about it |
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"Finger her and then put your fanny juice covered fingers in her mouth.
When she starts gagging and retching, she’ll know she has a problem and you won’t have to tell her "
Lol that made me laugh.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Poor woman..hope she doesnt read this
Poor guy, said he continued you know  "
no one forced him, that was his choice. But i just hope the woman isnt on here |
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"Its all about mutual pleasure OP if you are not enjoying it and its unpleasant for you then you should stop and if asked why be honest but tactful its better to speak to them one on one about it. "
Agreed |
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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago
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Suck on a "Tunes", it will mask the taste and it also tingles the woman pleasurably.
Scene at chemist, you "Some condoms and some Tunes please".
Assistant; "Ah it's oral with a new woman tonight then" ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its all about mutual pleasure OP if you are not enjoying it and its unpleasant for you then you should stop and if asked why be honest but tactful its better to speak to them one on one about it. "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Poor woman..hope she doesnt read this
Poor guy, said he continued you know
no one forced him, that was his choice. But i just hope the woman isnt on here"
I wonder what your comment would be if it was a woman making a similar. Moment about a man. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Poor woman..hope she doesnt read this
Poor guy, said he continued you know
no one forced him, that was his choice. But i just hope the woman isnt on here"
No she wasn't from this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Finger her and then put your fanny juice covered fingers in her mouth.
When she starts gagging and retching, she’ll know she has a problem and you won’t have to tell her "
Best comment ever!! Lol... |
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"when you say "unpleasant taste" what do you mean? Acidic?
Tangy/Bitter very hard to describe. It was quite potent and like a said odorless so maybe she used a product or lotion of some kind? I'm not sure"
a bit like licking a battery ? |
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"Poor woman..hope she doesnt read this
Poor guy, said he continued you know
no one forced him, that was his choice. But i just hope the woman isnt on here
I wonder what your comment would be if it was a woman making a similar. Moment about a man. "
Would assume it would be the same... |
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"when you say "unpleasant taste" what do you mean? Acidic?
Tangy/Bitter very hard to describe. It was quite potent and like a said odorless so maybe she used a product or lotion of some kind? I'm not sure"
Along the lines of a heavier tasting IPA? Could be a slight pH imbalance, more acidic than usual...nothing serious though.
A coppery, metallic taste would suggest she was very close to having her period.
All perfectly normal, the pH balances and tastes change naturally through a woman's cycle.
If you don't like the taste, but there's no smell, it suggests theres nothing wrong persay, like BV, so I would think bringing it up with her wouldn't be necessary...just change it up ans switch to fingers next time, if you don't want to continue! |
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All woman taste different, bit luke seaman that's all different according to what has been eaten previous day, curry lovers are particular strong and gross, this could be the same, strawberry activa yoghurt is a godsend for eating of course |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello all, I'm a guy that enjoys giving oral to woman and not encountered any problems before. However recently I found myself in a bit of a predicament. During my latest endeavour to please someone there was a very unpleasant taste. As a considerate person I continued what I was doing because I didn't want to make her uncomfortable or feel embarrassed.
My question is... What would you have done and is there a polite way about confronting this?
Cheers"
i would have just moved onto something else unless of course shes a regular meet then in a very diplomatic way tell her she needs to eat pineapples    |
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"Hello all, I'm a guy that enjoys giving oral to woman and not encountered any problems before. However recently I found myself in a bit of a predicament. During my latest endeavour to please someone there was a very unpleasant taste. As a considerate person I continued what I was doing because I didn't want to make her uncomfortable or feel embarrassed.
My question is... What would you have done and is there a polite way about confronting this?
Cheers"
I wonder if she is on Fab and reading this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello all, I'm a guy that enjoys giving oral to woman and not encountered any problems before. However recently I found myself in a bit of a predicament. During my latest endeavour to please someone there was a very unpleasant taste. As a considerate person I continued what I was doing because I didn't want to make her uncomfortable or feel embarrassed.
My question is... What would you have done and is there a polite way about confronting this?
Cheers
I wonder if she is on Fab and reading this? "
i am............ i can't believe he didn't like it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was a dyke I only went down on women I was really really into. Most just didn't taste or smell nice. It was predominantly for safe sex reasons. One excuse I made was that I was allergic to cunty secretions!
I fisted and used my strap on a lot. Excuse yourself, have a drink/swirl in the bathroom then do something else.
Thankfully I've never had that issue with cocks. Again though, I stopped sucking bare cock this year.
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