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If something seems too good to be true...

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

...Yeah, it probably is.

This isn't a rant. Just wanted to share a very recent experience.

Chatting to a young gay female couple who were looking for a Tgirl, for a week or so. Long, lengthy messages, all very civil, no pressure, just chatting about what we like, why we're on here, they begin to hint at perhaps meeting...

...And, blip! Profile deleted, no warning.

I was braced for it, hence the post title...

But without a courtesy "We're off" message, can only assume a fantasy had come to an end, and it couldn't be continued. A reminder that you'll never know reasons in some cases, and a reminder there are manipulative people out there.

Hey ho. Back to Square One!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wow! How could they do that as you're such a hottie (meant as a genuine compliment)!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Wow! How could they do that as you're such a hottie (meant as a genuine compliment)! "

I'll never know! I'm just glad I was prepared for it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Too long chatting, a week of long messages is far too much without arranging a meet, just fantasists, forget about it and move on xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Too long chatting, a week of long messages is far too much without arranging a meet, just fantasists, forget about it and move on xx"

I did have my suspicions, so was cautious. But yes, onwards and upwards

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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Chatting to a young gay female couple who were looking for a Tgirl, for a week or so. "

This should probably have been a good indication of how things would end up

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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Chatting to a young gay female couple who were looking for a Tgirl, for a week or so.

This should probably have been a good indication of how things would end up "

I felt the same. Took a chance.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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Chatting to a young gay female couple who were looking for a Tgirl, for a week or so.

This should probably have been a good indication of how things would end up

I felt the same. Took a chance."

Will you learn from it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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Chatting to a young gay female couple who were looking for a Tgirl, for a week or so.

This should probably have been a good indication of how things would end up

I felt the same. Took a chance.

Will you learn from it?"

This hasn't been the first time I've been ghosted/stung etc. As I said, I was prepared for it. The post was a reminder to myself and others that there are people like that.

In this case, nothing was lost.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"...

Chatting to a young gay female couple who were looking for a Tgirl, for a week or so.

This should probably have been a good indication of how things would end up

I felt the same. Took a chance.

Will you learn from it?"

But, yes. Another lesson reinforced.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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