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Not a new member but help please
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No pics as others have said, One veri over a year old. You say you want nsa, but then want someone to go dancing with you, mixed signals? Plus the saying " normal guy", what's a normal guy? Plus sentances run into one long no punctuation. Nothing makes you stick out from the crowd. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"Hi guys I'm jay and I'm wondering what I'm doing wrong with my profile and I'm not good at all this stuff someone please come and help me out with this please "
. I would change the age range unless you want to meet a 99 year old probably a oversight but can be viewed as lazy by some ( not me ) .If you can travel then look to attend socials and clubs leave a verification for anyone you meet and there is a good chance they will leave one back that way we people see you attend social and clubs shows you have social skills as well as the type of person you are.I would consider changing your profile into bullet point as I feel it stands out better.You are quite welcome to have a look at mine if you feel it would help.
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"See even you guys that are chatting with me don't want to know me Or have any fun with??"
We just don't meet single guys , hubby likes to play with another woman, so we only meet couples  |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
As suggested by someone else, you need to break your profile down into sections, ie, paragraphs.
Whilst most people start each one with, I, that can be off-putting to some, so try to avoid that.
Include what you can bring to a meet with others plus, what you'd like in return
It's all about being noticed, not just on a profile, so get involved with the Forums. Get out to Socials, which don't mean you'll strike lucky by any means, just the opposite will ring true. |
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Every one of these threads is a lesson in how you can please some of the people some of the time and not all the people all of the time.
"Don't post cock pics"
Some people like to see them.
"Would you really shag a 99 year old"
Probably not, but it could just mean the person is not hung up on age. Let's say your limit is 50, then you meet someone at a social and really click, then find out they are 52. Ok so you have a rethink, reset your age limit to 55. Guess what? That really hot woman you fancied on the train is 57! See where this is going? If you are prepared to judge someone on them, not just a number set it at 99. You'll then interact with people that think the way you do.
Be yourself, that way you will meet people that you have a connection with.
If you are yourself in your profile and still get no response then you need to consider if there is a better way forward. Hundreds of people swing without ever going near a site like this. |
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