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Thinking of finding a single Male who is interested is clubs socials and parties with strictly NSA or ownership lol...
The above is a bit from my profile and had the weirdest message ... so just wondering how I have worded it how does it come across to you ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thinking of finding a single Male who is interested is clubs socials and parties with strictly NSA or ownership lol...
The above is a bit from my profile and had the weirdest message ... so just wondering how I have worded it how does it come across to you ?? "
In all honesty OP the first 4 paragraphs are very direct and maybe stating in caps that you 'will out' attached guys comes across as harsh. The first thought I had was 'to what lengths will this lady go?'. Then the last para is much softer and includes a 'lol'... so in my (her) opinion its could confuse people or on the other hand they know exactly where they stand with you.
Just my thoughts as you did ask for feedback
C |
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No I don't think it says you're submissive at all. You're clearly looking for NSA fun.
I just felt your opening paragraph stated you weren't looking to meet and then the final paragraph suggests otherwise that's all.
Good luck in your search
Mrs x |
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"Thinking of finding a single Male who is interested is clubs socials and parties with strictly NSA or ownership lol...
The above is a bit from my profile and had the weirdest message ... so just wondering how I have worded it how does it come across to you ??
In all honesty OP the first 4 paragraphs are very direct and maybe stating in caps that you 'will out' attached guys comes across as harsh. The first thought I had was 'to what lengths will this lady go?'. Then the last para is much softer and includes a 'lol'... so in my (her) opinion its could confuse people or on the other hand they know exactly where they stand with you.
Just my thoughts as you did ask for feedback
C"
Thank you honesty is appreciated however harsh lol  |
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"No I don't think it says you're submissive at all. You're clearly looking for NSA fun.
I just felt your opening paragraph stated you weren't looking to meet and then the final paragraph suggests otherwise that's all.
Good luck in your search
Mrs x"
Ahhh yes lol I will be looking but not until I am happy with profile and pics seems men on here only read what they want to see and try to make me think otherwise x |
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"I think that statement is clear and states what you're looking for. However it does contradict your opening paragraph?
How ? And do you think it says I'm submissive? "
You say strictly NSA or ownership so you could be saying you want to be owned or the other way around so could be domme or sub....the reader will see what they want to see. |
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over a year ago
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First line of your profile says you aren't meeting at the moment,so I can't see why anyone would contact to meet you .
Personally I wouldn't read any further( if I was looking to meet) and would move on to the next profile |
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"First line of your profile says you aren't meeting at the moment,so I can't see why anyone would contact to meet you .
Personally I wouldn't read any further( if I was looking to meet) and would move on to the next profile"
Wish the men would do this so when I'm online I can actually complete my profile instead of trying to answer stupid questions lol guess the delete button will be coming into play a lot more. |
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"Thinking of finding a single Male who is interested is clubs socials and parties with strictly NSA or ownership lol...
The above is a bit from my profile and had the weirdest message ... so just wondering how I have worded it how does it come across to you ?? "
it says you just want a no strings fuck buddy for attending sexual events....... nothing else strictly the business of sex   |
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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago
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I'd read that part as you wanted one of two things
Nsa fuck buddy for clubs
Or
A fuck buddy for clubs where you role play ownership - either with you owning him or him owning you - to be decided |
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"I'd read that part as you wanted one of two things
Nsa fuck buddy for clubs
Or
A fuck buddy for clubs where you role play ownership - either with you owning him or him owning you - to be decided"
No I dont want anyone thinking I'm theirs x that's what I was trying to get across and as for outing a cheat ... yes I will and there is every need for it if they can't be honest with me and give me the opportunity to say no thanks and i get dragged into a mess ( it has happened before ) then why shouldn't I defend myself as the innocent party ? |
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