Hey all as the title states we are looking for advice on going full swap. we have already had a few ff experiences but have been toying with the idea of full swap.any tips or any advice you could all share with us xx |
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Choose the correct couple and setting and make sure you are all 100% up for it. If not then there is no point. Enjoy it and relax and have fun! Also don’t get too d*unk or it’s shit for everyone. Hope you have a good one x |
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Choose a couple you like, have a social and just make sure you feel comfortable.
In all fairness though our first time was in a club and it just happened naturally with another couple. It was great too. |
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Choose a couple that would be happy to soft swap, check out the profiles initially avoid couples with “full swap only, can’t see the point of soft swap” etc written in the text, that way you’ll feel less pressure when it actually comes to the play x |
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Never ever thought that I would enjoy seeing my Wife take another cock.
Initially with my 2nd wife I was a bit selfish and wanted to attend a swingers club just to experience the environment. No intent for either of us to play whatsoever!
To cut a very long story short, one night driving home she said "I could see his cock while he was chatting", I said "so what?" and she replied "It looked quite nice".
I can not explain it, but I got an instant hardon! The next visit with the same man, he gave her a massage, next visit she gave him a hand job. Next visit she gave him Oral and the next visit she put his cock in.
Best thing that ever happened to us and adore it now - nothing better as she inserts another cock whilst looking back at me with a look of lust.
But in answer to the original question, if there are any doubts whatsoever, Do NOT do it!!!!!!! |
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Just do it when you are ready. We played soft for our first few club visits as R needed time to take that big step. Then on one occasion we were swapped and soft-swinging with a couple and I saw my Mrs rolling a condom on the other man then climbing on top. She said afterwards that it just felt right! Onece we'd got over that hurdle, we played full-swap from then on
One point though - you'll never know how you'll feel watching your usual partner fucking someone else until it actually happens. We both love the sight but know others who have been insanely jealous. Good luck! |
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Before you meet anyone, talk to each other A LOT (and very honestly) about how you feel about the idea - particularly the idea of watching each other fuck other people. We both expected it to turn us both on hugely, and it did - but you might be different.
If one or both is not sure (beyond the nerves which always come whenever you fuck someone new), keep checking in with each other as things get hotter at the meet. When the time is right maybe ask the other "do you want to see me fuck him/ her now?". If you're like us, the answer will be a resounding "yes - and I want to watch!" But you need to discuss in advance the possibility that it will be a "no/ not yet".
You also need to talk about what happens if one wants to do hard swap and the other doesn't - or if one wants the other not to.
Taking about this in advance can be really horny. If you can't do it with 100% honesty, though, you're probably not ready for it. |
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