Sometimes hi how are you works! Especially when all the other messages I've been fielding are either one word or obscene.
Say something that makes it clear you've read and paid attention to the profile you're responding to. If you nearly but not quite meet their criteria then say so - cheeky but able to accept a no can make friendships, goodwill is important on a site like this, you have no idea who knows each other.
Try to take rejection well. It's not personal, you're not a minger, it might be as simple as you wearing white undies and she likes her men in black ones... We are and will continue to be fickle and picky. We might turn a guy down today who we might have met yesterday.
Keep your initial message light, courteous and not too long. Say the kind of thing you'd say in a bar. If it's to a couple address them both. Including s face pic in your first or second message will cut out a lot of hassle.
Don't ever get tempted to get nasty, you never know.who you'll get talking to at s club or party, or indeed why you never get party invites...
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