do we? Can't we all chat on here?
There have been a few threads saying similar but I have noticed that nobody actually communicates on them, they all say "I'm over 60" or "we're in" then that's it. Of course it might be that nobody on these threads wants to chat to us but I honestly think that if people want to chat they will contact you anyway  |
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over a year ago
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Would exclude my Mrs.given her age and might even exclude me at a mere 60 years old.
However, who are we to criticise?
Such a group might turn out to be a good thing. |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
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Given that I am one of the older males on this site I cannot see any benefits if of having an over 60s group,
I much prefer just doing my own thing, having the odd meets and staying under the radar |
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I like and get along with people of all ages, when I turned 50 the door was closed to many people on here with filters, having a group with filters just closes the gap again. Just my opinion |
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"I like and get along with people of all ages, when I turned 50 the door was closed to many people on here with filters, having a group with filters just closes the gap again. Just my opinion "
If a group is established for over 60s I'm guessing that the only people who would join are those interested in that she group specifically. I think if a thread was started on fab (inviting anyone to a group off fab is against forum rules) for people over 60 to get to know one another of might be useful but I suspect it would go the same way as this one, nobody really communicating with each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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True Nicecouple561
Even if there were such a group I still would like to socialise with the group at some point and we’re all over the country, do you find knowing someone in person enhances the online friendship another notch |
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"True Nicecouple561
Even if there were such a group I still would like to socialise with the group at some point and we’re all over the country, do you find knowing someone in person enhances the online friendship another notch "
Yes we do. As I've said on another thread we communicate quite regularly with some people we'll probably never meet and some people we have. It's rare that anybody is happy to just socialise though which is a shame |
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"It sure is, I wonder if why some people don’t show up, they “think” that they person they are meeting will want more there and then"
In our experience the majority of people understand that socials are just that, only three so far haven't. However we explain on our profile and in messages that our first meeting will be purely social and never meet anybody who asks for "a social, maybe more" the pressure is applied before we even arrive.
We would love to have a few friends we could meet for drinks etc. chat and laugh without worrying about talking openly. |
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"Are they local to you, i was born in Chatham but not been down that way in a long time ?"
Not really, quite a drive but there's nothing closer other than Bristol Gardens.
We'd like to establish something more intimate with people though |
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"We have a Eurekas up here which i intend going to. Went to my first club a couple of weeks back and quite enjoyed it  "
We enjoy it in the day swimming and walking around naked is so liberating as is having sex in public or private. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It sure is, I wonder if why some people don’t show up, they “think” that they person they are meeting will want more there and then
In our experience the majority of people understand that socials are just that, only three so far haven't. However we explain on our profile and in messages that our first meeting will be purely social and never meet anybody who asks for "a social, maybe more" the pressure is applied before we even arrive.
We would love to have a few friends we could meet for drinks etc. chat and laugh without worrying about talking openly."
Very true indeed |
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"We really need a senior group to chat meet and whatever  "
Im happy for non-specific age groups. If anything its better to focus on preference groups e.g. voyeurism or BDSM or daytime meets etc, rather than catagorise by age group. Besides, and I guess its more prevalent in clubs rather than meets, many older play with younger and vice versa where theres a common interest. |
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"We really need a senior group to chat meet and whatever
Im too young. God i never thought i would say that on here
I long for the days of being 54 "
Sadly they dont last for ever. Soon i will be 55  |
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By *icknHMan
over a year ago
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For guys like me aged 60 and not part of a couple, the site is difficult. No messages returned etc etc, and I’m a social kind of guy and easy to get along with. I find it much easier in clubs and get along fine with lots of people.
So on that basis, knowing that there’s a specific group of people to whom my age isn’t an issue would be handy....looks and general attractiveness are a different thing but at least you can not worry about the filtering out... |
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"We really need a senior group to chat meet and whatever
Im happy for non-specific age groups. If anything its better to focus on preference groups e.g. voyeurism or BDSM or daytime meets etc, rather than catagorise by age group. Besides, and I guess its more prevalent in clubs rather than meets, many older play with younger and vice versa where theres a common interest."
We agree.
Type of play be it kink. Bdsm. Group etc make sense. We like around our age. A little younger sometimes or a little older. But I played with an older lady the other week and we both had fun.
Himself came back and saw two tired but happy ladies.
So age isn’t a discriminator it’s likes and attitude. |
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