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What do you think you are missing? Did i assume females would be dropping their knickers at their feet! As a female i have a preference and there must be sexual chemistry and attraction! So your messaging and getting nothing! Those womem may not find u attractive or your profile isnt what they are after! Not every female will fancy u! |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"What do you think you are missing? Did i assume females would be dropping their knickers at their feet! As a female i have a preference and there must be sexual chemistry and attraction! So your messaging and getting nothing! Those womem may not find u attractive or your profile isnt what they are after! Not every female will fancy u! "
He is obscenely hot, I met him briefly at chams. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea well no fucker will meet me after 2 years. Obviously an ugly cunt"
Your pics are only going to appeal to men. Change them, lose the cock shots, focus on your abs, pecs and arms and you might get better results. You're ripped to fuck, make that your selling point. You clearly worked hard at it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you think you are missing? Did i assume females would be dropping their knickers at their feet! As a female i have a preference and there must be sexual chemistry and attraction! So your messaging and getting nothing! Those womem may not find u attractive or your profile isnt what they are after! Not every female will fancy u! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yea well no fucker will meet me after 2 years. Obviously an ugly cunt
Your pics are only going to appeal to men. Change them, lose the cock shots, focus on your abs, pecs and arms and you might get better results. You're ripped to fuck, make that your selling point. You clearly worked hard at it "
I only put the dick pics on public just now for another thread.but yea I've tried all that I filled my profile out all different ways. I get loads of interest but nothing ever actually happens or I'm not attracted. And I'm not desperate so I'm not gonna do it for the sake of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yea well no fucker will meet me after 2 years. Obviously an ugly cunt
Your pics are only going to appeal to men. Change them, lose the cock shots, focus on your abs, pecs and arms and you might get better results. You're ripped to fuck, make that your selling point. You clearly worked hard at it I only put the dick pics on public just now for another thread.but yea I've tried all that I filled my profile out all different ways. I get loads of interest but nothing ever actually happens or I'm not attracted. And I'm not desperate so I'm not gonna do it for the sake of it"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bro, you're doing fine, trust me. You're young, tall and fit. I agree with what someone else said, get rid of the cock pics as you'll only get guys checking you out. Women just want to see your face and that you're not a bum. I'm old and here without permission so I'm lucky if I get any interest. The grass isn't always greener my man.  |
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You're doing OK OP.
I message based on profile content, have tried all kinds of styles,i send a face pic of requested and often even if not, I try not to write generic one liners, I'm never ride but rarely even get a message read. Most are deleted and the odd one out of 30 is read but never a reply. I'd love some tips to at least get a chat started.(the veris I have are all ladies I first met through kik public groups, there's no way they'd have given me a glance on fab!)
Women say conversation and intellegence attracts them yet they don't even give my messages a glance. Would love to know what's so off-putting about my profile?? Brutal honesty would be appreciated.
I guess it could be the sheer volume of messages received means a 40 year old average looking guy just doesn't stand a chance on fab.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You're doing OK OP.
I message based on profile content, have tried all kinds of styles,i send a face pic of requested and often even if not, I try not to write generic one liners, I'm never ride but rarely even get a message read. Most are deleted and the odd one out of 30 is read but never a reply. I'd love some tips to at least get a chat started.(the veris I have are all ladies I first met through kik public groups, there's no way they'd have given me a glance on fab!)
Women say conversation and intellegence attracts them yet they don't even give my messages a glance. Would love to know what's so off-putting about my profile?? Brutal honesty would be appreciated.
I guess it could be the sheer volume of messages received means a 40 year old average looking guy just doesn't stand a chance on fab.
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For one don’t whine. People seem to make a shitload of assumption on here. Not all women are inundated with well written messages. If things aren’t working then make changes for eg chat in the forum. You said all your veris were women from kik groups so therefore apply the same logic here.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You're doing OK OP.
I message based on profile content, have tried all kinds of styles,i send a face pic of requested and often even if not, I try not to write generic one liners, I'm never ride but rarely even get a message read. Most are deleted and the odd one out of 30 is read but never a reply. I'd love some tips to at least get a chat started.(the veris I have are all ladies I first met through kik public groups, there's no way they'd have given me a glance on fab!)
Women say conversation and intellegence attracts them yet they don't even give my messages a glance. Would love to know what's so off-putting about my profile?? Brutal honesty would be appreciated.
I guess it could be the sheer volume of messages received means a 40 year old average looking guy just doesn't stand a chance on fab.
For one don’t whine. People seem to make a shitload of assumption on here. Not all women are inundated with well written messages. If things aren’t working then make changes for eg chat in the forum. You said all your veris were women from kik groups so therefore apply the same logic here.
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Crocodiling made me chuckle |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You're doing OK OP.
I message based on profile content, have tried all kinds of styles,i send a face pic of requested and often even if not, I try not to write generic one liners, I'm never ride but rarely even get a message read. Most are deleted and the odd one out of 30 is read but never a reply. I'd love some tips to at least get a chat started.(the veris I have are all ladies I first met through kik public groups, there's no way they'd have given me a glance on fab!)
Women say conversation and intellegence attracts them yet they don't even give my messages a glance. Would love to know what's so off-putting about my profile?? Brutal honesty would be appreciated.
I guess it could be the sheer volume of messages received means a 40 year old average looking guy just doesn't stand a chance on fab.
For one don’t whine. People seem to make a shitload of assumption on here. Not all women are inundated with well written messages. If things aren’t working then make changes for eg chat in the forum. You said all your veris were women from kik groups so therefore apply the same logic here.
Crocodiling made me chuckle "
Why thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You're doing OK OP.
I message based on profile content, have tried all kinds of styles,i send a face pic of requested and often even if not, I try not to write generic one liners, I'm never ride but rarely even get a message read. Most are deleted and the odd one out of 30 is read but never a reply. I'd love some tips to at least get a chat started.(the veris I have are all ladies I first met through kik public groups, there's no way they'd have given me a glance on fab!)
Women say conversation and intellegence attracts them yet they don't even give my messages a glance. Would love to know what's so off-putting about my profile?? Brutal honesty would be appreciated.
I guess it could be the sheer volume of messages received means a 40 year old average looking guy just doesn't stand a chance on fab.
For one don’t whine. People seem to make a shitload of assumption on here. Not all women are inundated with well written messages. If things aren’t working then make changes for eg chat in the forum. You said all your veris were women from kik groups so therefore apply the same logic here.
Crocodiling made me chuckle
Why thanks "
Could go for a bit of crocodiling just now  |
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"You're doing OK OP.
I message based on profile content, have tried all kinds of styles,i send a face pic of requested and often even if not, I try not to write generic one liners, I'm never ride but rarely even get a message read. Most are deleted and the odd one out of 30 is read but never a reply. I'd love some tips to at least get a chat started.(the veris I have are all ladies I first met through kik public groups, there's no way they'd have given me a glance on fab!)
Women say conversation and intellegence attracts them yet they don't even give my messages a glance. Would love to know what's so off-putting about my profile?? Brutal honesty would be appreciated.
I guess it could be the sheer volume of messages received means a 40 year old average looking guy just doesn't stand a chance on fab.
For one don’t whine. People seem to make a shitload of assumption on here. Not all women are inundated with well written messages. If things aren’t working then make changes for eg chat in the forum. You said all your veris were women from kik groups so therefore apply the same logic here.
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Don't mean to come across as whining, just trying to get to the bottom of it. I feel like there's something off putting about me that I may be missing and could avoid.
Good advice about forums, I may focus more on that from now, reaching out by messaging clearly isn't the right way for me lol |
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over a year ago
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"I’m finding getting verified is my problem! No one wants to meet for a social if you have no veris, yet can’t get one till I’ve met lol "
ooooo i know it so frustrating just meet people who dont care about veris....... simples  |
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"I’m finding getting verified is my problem! No one wants to meet for a social if you have no veris, yet can’t get one till I’ve met lol ooooo i know it so frustrating just meet people who dont care about veris....... simples "
if only it was simple |
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