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By *aughtycouple1008 OP Couple over a year ago

west london

Why do men on here come on profiles as single females....why oh why oh why....this week alone we've wasted hours messaging a few and whenever it comes to shall we talk on the phone...there's always an excuse .....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just because someone would not speak on the phone does not necessarily mean they're not who they say they are. I am a foreigner and have some problems with hearing, therefore I am not a fan of phonecalls. Also, I personally would never give my phone number to strangers. I guess I am fake in your eyes, despite having verifications.

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By *uenevereWoman over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Why do men on here come on profiles as single females....why oh why oh why....this week alone we've wasted hours messaging a few and whenever it comes to shall we talk on the phone...there's always an excuse ....."

Maybe you need to be more robust in your selection.

Are you TOO keen?

To me the following are red flags:

1. All the photo are professional

2. They want to talk about sex

3. Want to share photos

4. Message late at night

5. Been on a long time but not verified

I would so suggest that you do a reverse image search on photos.

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By *oney to the beeWoman over a year ago

Manchester

Lets not forget the fake couples who aren't a couple at all there are loads of them too and fake single men who aren't single the list could go on and on.

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By *uenevereWoman over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Lets not forget the fake couples who aren't a couple at all there are loads of them too and fake single men who aren't single the list could go on and on.

I think the advice applies to all the above.

I have yet to come across a single lady pretending to be a bloke.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

Or the women who ARE single women and when you’re arranging a meet they conveniently drop in about their ‘boyfriend’ who’d like to watch

GET LOSSSTTTT

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Or the women who ARE single women and when you’re arranging a meet they conveniently drop in about their ‘boyfriend’ who’d like to watch

GET LOSSSTTTT"

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

I won't give my number out to people I haven't met, I also won't go on cam, if that makes you think I'm a guy, carry on. I'll just fuck people who don't think I'm a guy lol.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

As a side note. Heard of a local lad to me setting up a single fem profile as he didn’t believe that women got lots of messages a day. Couldn’t find it to report it but it still makes me mad thinking about it.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I won't give my number out to people I haven't met, I also won't go on cam, if that makes you think I'm a guy, carry on. I'll just fuck people who don't think I'm a guy lol. "

Yeah. I can understand being warier with a new profile, but at this point, if you think I'm fake, jog on.

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

I won't give my number out to people I haven't met, I also won't go on cam, if that makes you think I'm a guy, carry on. I'll just fuck people who don't think I'm a guy lol.

Yeah. I can understand being warier with a new profile, but at this point, if you think I'm fake, jog on. "

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By *uenevereWoman over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Or the women who ARE single women and when you’re arranging a meet they conveniently drop in about their ‘boyfriend’ who’d like to watch

GET LOSSSTTTT

Or the couples who message asking about meeting, despite the fact the profile clearly states I'm only meeting ladies.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe you need to be more robust in your selection.

Are you TOO keen?

To me the following are red flags:

1. All the photo are professional

2. They want to talk about sex

3. Want to share photos

4. Message late at night

5. Been on a long time but not verified

I would so suggest that you do a reverse image search on photos."

Great list

Also, verifications are dead end.

I get told I’m fake

I don’t call, text, or use like etc...

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By *aughty_but_n1ceWoman over a year ago

North London

I hate talking on the phone, especially with people I don’t know. So I probably wouldn’t do it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Chill out when you meet some one and click it will be worth it as no point getting stressed about things

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

I don’t talk on the phone to any meet ? I’m not a fake single female tho haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe you need to be more robust in your selection.

Are you TOO keen?

To me the following are red flags:

1. All the photo are professional

2. They want to talk about sex

3. Want to share photos

4. Message late at night

5. Been on a long time but not verified

I would so suggest that you do a reverse image search on photos."

Maybe I'm the odd one out but I like sharing photos and am happy to talk about sex too. And I message at all hours (have trouble sleeping). I also wouldn't talk on the phone or cam. And sometimes I send FAF messages. I bet I tick all the "fake" boxes

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By *othicslaveCouple over a year ago

Norfolk

I think 90% of the profiles are fake on here

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I think 90% of the profiles are fake on here "

I don't think it's anywhere near that.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman over a year ago

Victoria, London

That desperate to get some action, which as a single woman I find a bit dangerous if I'm honest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or the women who ARE single women and when you’re arranging a meet they conveniently drop in about their ‘boyfriend’ who’d like to watch

GET LOSSSTTTT"

Like the ones who claim FFM is FF as he will only be watching

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF) over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Lots of fake accounts in many forms, just look at the verifications and if none be aware.

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By *udewhennudeMan over a year ago

newport

"I think 90% of the profiles are fake on here

I don't think it's anywhere near that. "

I think you’d be surprised how many are, especially if you break it down by gender.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I think 90% of the profiles are fake on here

I don't think it's anywhere near that.

I think you’d be surprised how many are, especially if you break it down by gender."

I think a lot of people are quick to cry fake and slower to investigate.

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By *aenMan over a year ago

Here and There

I wouldn’t necessarily speak to someone on the phone.

I’ll meet for a coffee. If you can’t bet arsed doing that then I’m not going to waste my time chatting on the phone.

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"I think 90% of the profiles are fake on here

I don't think it's anywhere near that.

I think you’d be surprised how many are, especially if you break it down by gender.

I think a lot of people are quick to cry fake and slower to investigate. "

People have called me fake for not wanting to meet them, the term gets thrown around much in the same way as timewaster, and in the same way it is often used incorrectly.

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By *udewhennudeMan over a year ago

newport

"I think 90% of the profiles are fake on here

I don't think it's anywhere near that.

I think you’d be surprised how many are, especially if you break it down by gender.

I think a lot of people are quick to cry fake and slower to investigate. "

What does that even mean, in the context of my post.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I think 90% of the profiles are fake on here

I don't think it's anywhere near that.

I think you’d be surprised how many are, especially if you break it down by gender.

I think a lot of people are quick to cry fake and slower to investigate.

What does that even mean, in the context of my post."

A lot of people call me fake when I reject them, rather than looking at the evidence. (this isn't to do with you) If you think the number is as high as 90%, maybe you're jumping to conclusions.

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"I think 90% of the profiles are fake on here

I don't think it's anywhere near that.

I think you’d be surprised how many are, especially if you break it down by gender.

I think a lot of people are quick to cry fake and slower to investigate.

What does that even mean, in the context of my post."

That people say others are fake without even trying to find out if that's true.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

got to love a trier it is not like any better deals are on here for females even the sex these days from guys who think they are good is lousy as fuck!

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

I have verifications showing from one of the socials but still get called fake as I won't talk on the phone!!

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple over a year ago

kent

Maybe you need to be more robust in your selection.

Are you TOO keen?

To me the following are red flags:

1. All the photo are professional

2. They want to talk about sex

3. Want to share photos

4. Message late at night

5. Been on a long time but not verified

I would so suggest that you do a reverse image search on photos."

May I ask, what’s a reverse image search?

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Maybe you need to be more robust in your selection.

Are you TOO keen?

To me the following are red flags:

1. All the photo are professional

2. They want to talk about sex

3. Want to share photos

4. Message late at night

5. Been on a long time but not verified

I would so suggest that you do a reverse image search on photos.

May I ask, what’s a reverse image search?"

There are ways to take an image and see if it appears elsewhere online.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

also could be married or attached

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I thought it was just us, so many single women we get talking to then say oh my boyfriend would like to join us, our profile couldnt be any clearer and yet it's happened a few times now. I understand women probably do get inundated and I appreciate as a women the safety issues but there are safety measures that can be taken but for now I think we will stick to the club you know what's on offer there and the spontaneity adds to the fun.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple over a year ago

kent

I hate talking on the phone, especially with people I don’t know. So I probably wouldn’t do it!"

We’re the same. Neither of us feel comfortable talking to people on the phone, or talking via skype. Just meet us in a cafe for a social. We’ll buy you a coffee or a tea and have a chat and see what happens.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF) over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Maybe you need to be more robust in your selection.

Are you TOO keen?

To me the following are red flags:

1. All the photo are professional

2. They want to talk about sex

3. Want to share photos

4. Message late at night

5. Been on a long time but not verified

I would so suggest that you do a reverse image search on photos.

May I ask, what’s a reverse image search?

There are ways to take an image and see if it appears elsewhere online. "

That's no guarantee its fake as we're on several sites as I guess some are.

The world doesn't revovle around Fab.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Maybe you need to be more robust in your selection.

Are you TOO keen?

To me the following are red flags:

1. All the photo are professional

2. They want to talk about sex

3. Want to share photos

4. Message late at night

5. Been on a long time but not verified

I would so suggest that you do a reverse image search on photos.

May I ask, what’s a reverse image search?

There are ways to take an image and see if it appears elsewhere online.

That's no guarantee its fake as we're on several sites as I guess some are.

The world doesn't revovle around Fab."

No. But if the images are on umpteen porn sites and comes back as say a Brazilian underwear model, it's probably fake. Like anything, it's a tool to use.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just go by if you don’t have photos & no verification then I won’t reply

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or the women who ARE single women and when you’re arranging a meet they conveniently drop in about their ‘boyfriend’ who’d like to watch

GET LOSSSTTTT"

Ohh this irritates me so much.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I won't give my number out to people I haven't met, I also won't go on cam, if that makes you think I'm a guy, carry on. I'll just fuck people who don't think I'm a guy lol. "

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are fakes on here in many guises which have been created for whatever reason. There is no sure method of ing through them as the formula used is falable. There could always be a genuine reason for a scenario.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If I'm meeting, I'll arrange it on here, not off site in anyway. If that makes me fake despite my veris saying otherwise, then their loss, not mine. I'll just stick to the people who believe I'm real lol. Agree about couples and womens profiles not being truthful as well. I always report them. I would suggest everyone does this.

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By *hrista BellendWoman over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I won't give my number out to people I haven't met, I also won't go on cam, if that makes you think I'm a guy, carry on. I'll just fuck people who don't think I'm a guy lol.

Same here.

Me too

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By *aughtycouple1008 OP Couple over a year ago

west london

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Go with your gut instinct...

If it doesn't feel right it normally isn't!

We are not fans of cam or phone calls with strangers either.

We sometimes ask for them to take picture of them holding a random household item.

Nothing is 100% on here!

To be fair one of our best meets was with a single lady with no pictures or verifications on her profile!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe you need to be more robust in your selection.

Are you TOO keen?

To me the following are red flags:

1. All the photo are professional

2. They want to talk about sex

3. Want to share photos

4. Message late at night

5. Been on a long time but not verified

I would so suggest that you do a reverse image search on photos.

Great list

Also, verifications are dead end.

I get told I’m fake

I don’t call, text, or use like etc... "

Am I just being stupid or something (wouldn't be the first time), but surely:

Sex is largely what this site if for - how can wanting to talk about sex be a red flag?

Likewise to some extent a desire to exchange photos. You need to see who you're talking to surely?

And a lot of people must have lives, including day jobs, so late night messaging can't be so unusual.

Getting verifications as a single male is not easy (depending a bit on location). In my situation there are no clubs or social events, just a handful of active females. So after almost a year on here (over a couple of times) no sniff of a meet and hence no verification. But I'm as genuine as anyone (but then a fake would say that, wouldn't he).

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Talking about sex quickly is often a man wanking, whereas women have different ways of operating.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Talking about sex quickly is often a man wanking, whereas women have different ways of operating. "

Some maybe. In the conversations (the few) that I have had here, it's been the female that led the conversation that way.

At least, they all seemed to be females

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Talking about sex quickly is often a man wanking, whereas women have different ways of operating.

Some maybe. In the conversations (the few) that I have had here, it's been the female that led the conversation that way.

At least, they all seemed to be females

As with all things, it's an indicator, not anything definite.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

Got a wink today, early hours, single fem, no public pics, 1 friends only, well vetoed. So tail the series..

Most no public pics, single guys, a couple & a couple of guys with few veries..

From all over the UK..

Do we think they are real? Do we bo.... Are they real? Maybe.. Can we be bothered to find out? No.

Biggest red flag.. They didn't read the profile! We are not meeting....In our experience guys don't, women do & couples do most of the time.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Maybe you need to be more robust in your selection.

Are you TOO keen?

To me the following are red flags:

1. All the photo are professional

2. They want to talk about sex

3. Want to share photos

4. Message late at night

5. Been on a long time but not verified

I would so suggest that you do a reverse image search on photos.

Great list

Also, verifications are dead end.

I get told I’m fake

I don’t call, text, or use like etc...

Am I just being stupid or something (wouldn't be the first time), but surely:

Sex is largely what this site if for - how can wanting to talk about sex be a red flag?

Likewise to some extent a desire to exchange photos. You need to see who you're talking to surely?

And a lot of people must have lives, including day jobs, so late night messaging can't be so unusual.

If it's not very active in your area, why not start your own socials?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The couples profiles showing only pics of the male half are always dodgy.

Also the couples profile that claims the wife is shy and needs convincing, or she’s not playing at the mo...hmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe you need to be more robust in your selection.

Are you TOO keen?

To me the following are red flags:

1. All the photo are professional

2. They want to talk about sex

3. Want to share photos

4. Message late at night

5. Been on a long time but not verified

I would so suggest that you do a reverse image search on photos.

Great list

Also, verifications are dead end.

I get told I’m fake

I don’t call, text, or use like etc...

Am I just being stupid or something (wouldn't be the first time), but surely:

Sex is largely what this site if for - how can wanting to talk about sex be a red flag?

Likewise to some extent a desire to exchange photos. You need to see who you're talking to surely?

And a lot of people must have lives, including day jobs, so late night messaging can't be so unusual.

If it's not very active in your area, why not start your own socials? "

Elsewhere that could work; thanks for the idea. Too small a community here by far tho. Also home circumstances not conducive. I'm doomed and just need to come to terms with it

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By *pitfiremk10Man over a year ago

Gloucester

Oh you totally have my sympathy!!! In last 2 weeks I've had several like that. So pointless isn't it?

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

"Talking about sex quickly is often a man wanking, whereas women have different ways of operating. "

Not always ... I very often talk about sex quickly

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By *ravellerukMan over a year ago

Visting Belfast

I quickly set my message filter to block unverified profiles, I also do the same whenever I do a search

Just saves time

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

I have stopped all newbies from messaging me

Not saying it’s eliminating fake female ones entirely but it has helped a bit

There are serial offenders on here that continuously set up new fake accounts before getting found out and kicked off so it does stop those types messaging

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Maybe you need to be more robust in your selection.

Are you TOO keen?

To me the following are red flags:

1. All the photo are professional

2. They want to talk about sex

3. Want to share photos

4. Message late at night

5. Been on a long time but not verified

I would so suggest that you do a reverse image search on photos.

Great list

Also, verifications are dead end.

I get told I’m fake

I don’t call, text, or use like etc...

Am I just being stupid or something (wouldn't be the first time), but surely:

Sex is largely what this site if for - how can wanting to talk about sex be a red flag?

Likewise to some extent a desire to exchange photos. You need to see who you're talking to surely?

And a lot of people must have lives, including day jobs, so late night messaging can't be so unusual.

If it's not very active in your area, why not start your own socials?

Elsewhere that could work; thanks for the idea. Too small a community here by far tho. Also home circumstances not conducive. I'm doomed and just need to come to terms with it

You could just do a few drinks at a pub, that's how I started

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