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Help please for 1st couple meet
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi fabbers! We are actively looking for our 1st couple meet. When we mention this, is it likely to put people off as other couples may be looking for more experienced people? Thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've met a few newbies, sometimes we knew beforehand, sometimes we didn't. A heads up to the people you intend to meet will definitely make things easier for you on the day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As with a lot of things in life communication is always key.
Let potential meets know,if it puts them off,then they weren’t the right people for you to be meeting to start with.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d meet a new couple, but I’d want a good chat about their expectations and boundaries first. I’ve spoken to a LOT of couples who really don’t seem to have thought through what they want and how it might make them feel. I don’t want to be stuck in the middle of an outbreak of insecurity or jealousy. |
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By *andR510Couple
over a year ago
St Neots/Wisbech |
We are happy to meet new people, our only stipulation is that they have the fab verified tick on their profile.
We found that club meets are far easier, as its neutral ground, and safe for everyone. |
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New couple? Fresh meat? Nomnom 
As others have said, most won’t have any issue, just make it clear what you’re into, boundaries, we’d aim to socialise down the pub first, have a flirt etc, have fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've been fortunate enough to be the first playtime for a few couples. So long as everyone knows where your boundaries are and to go slowly it should be fun.
But, make sure you're completely on the same page when you take that step, whether that's just some soft play first time or more.
M&Jxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You have 2 verification from meets "
hi guys! We do indeed have 2 veries. One was having a chat with a couple & the other Mrs had some fun with the other fem but no males involved. Mrs has had a few bi adventures!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Right understand the post now thanks for clearing that up
We will meet newbies but we know a lot on here won’t because of them being unsure about them being genuine |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
People quite rightly are sceptical on here due to so many fake profiles!!
I would say maybe go to a club and get meets under your belt.
Also if you've not played with couples before have a good long chat about your boundaries and what you will and wont be comfortable with. This bit is so important because theres nothing worse than couples who have no idea what they want and it makes the situation awkward.
We were newbies a year ago and went to a party. On the way there in the car we spoke about our rules. Which were basically in our case we didnt have any!! Just went with the flow and would mention anything we didnt like afterwards.
Turns out we don't have any rules and we're very comfortable swinging |
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