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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I’ve been on this site for a while now coming back and forth but I’ve never ever met anyone, I’d like to but I’m worried about a premature ejaculation problem.

As soon as I enter a lady I explode I just can not stop myself with the excitement I’ve tried delay creams and masturbating first but that just spoilts it for my friends that enjoy cum.

I’m looking for tips and advice - is it normal? Or I should say common?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think your best bet is going to a doctor. I'm not sure if you're looking for help but with the right person I'm sure it's not the end of the world.

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By *adetMan over a year ago

South of Ipswich

It sounds like you've been worrying about it so much you've convinced yourself it's always going to happen

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By *adetMan over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Do you cum quickly from a bj? Or just when you penetrate?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just during intercourse oral I can last for 30mins +

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Your probably right but this probably isn’t the right forum to find that person

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By *actileGent69Man over a year ago

East Cheshire

"I’ve been on this site for a while now coming back and forth but I’ve never ever met anyone, I’d like to but I’m worried about a premature ejaculation problem.

As soon as I enter a lady I explode I just can not stop myself with the excitement I’ve tried delay creams and masturbating first but that just spoilts it for my friends that enjoy cum.

I’m looking for tips and advice - is it normal? Or I should say common?"

Difficult not to cum quickly on a first meet lol... You might find you last longer on successive meets ?

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By *rgasmo87Man over a year ago

Ballynahinch Area

Warn them before hand. No harm in getting a second wind just as long as your prepared to keep going in between

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By *ollymollWoman over a year ago

Stockport

Not everybody minds!

If you make sure your partner knows before hand that it’s a possibility then it’s not going to be so much of a worry for you, or surprise for them.

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By *opite_xWoman over a year ago

Birmingham

I worry when someone takes too long to cum, it makes me think they’re not enjoying themselves! It puts me off when I see on profiles that they can last for hours

1) I don’t have the stamina

2) As I said I think I’m doing it wrong

It has been pointed out to me that endurance can be learnt by guys who have had lots of meets and that’s just the way they are though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I went through a phase worrying about how long I lasted, worrying just made it worse. I’m very lucky I can talk to my wife, we did and we found some positions where I lasted longer and it restored my confidence.

I worried about being a good lover.

Me cumming quickly really turns her on though too because she loves how I lose control with her so it was a double edged sword.

People worry too much and don’t talk enough.

We all like different things at different times, the key is being able to talk and listening to your partners body.

For us, great sex is much a mental thing as a physical one.

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By *aseMan over a year ago

Gourock

Get some ugly fecker it may help,lol

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