I’ve got the following on my profile, how would you interpret the hotel bit?
‘I don’t accommodate (lodging temporarily with family) so unless you do, don’t message. I may consider an hotel meet but only in exceptional circumstances, they are last on my list.’ |
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You can't come to mine, we'll have to go to yours. If all else fails
and I "really, really" want to meet you I will consider an hotel. This does not mean I will have sex in the cab of your truck, in the back of your car, on a mattress in the back of a transit or a dark corner of a car park. |
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I can't accommodate for the same reason as the OP mentions. To me, that means the onus is on me to arrange a hotel if the lady or couple can't accommodate.
Stands to reason really.
Imagine getting turned down because you weren't 'exceptional' enough to warrant a Premier Inn room charge. |
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"You can't come to mine, we'll have to go to yours. If all else fails
and I "really, really" want to meet you I will consider an hotel. This does not mean I will have sex in the cab of your truck, in the back of your car, on a mattress in the back of a transit or a dark corner of a car park."
You crack me up! |
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"I may have misunderstood the question here. What you wrote was fine, and as a non-accommodater I would probably not bother you.
My self-esteem is way too low to beg for the inevitable rejection. "
It is isn’t it. The circumstances have to be exceptional, nowhere do I state that the person I meet has to be. |
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