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"Enjoyed cuckold relationship in the past, My advice is to find an experienced guy with good verifications, chat and explain what your looking for including the do and donts. there are lots of so called bulls out there who haven't a clue and arnt reall interested in anything but a wam bam thank you mam fuck and have no interest in your wants, met many of them over the years and a lot from "here" don't get me wrong there are plenty of genuine ones on here who understand the world of cuckold and are there for both your pleasure as well as his and will ensure you have a good time, but for every 1 of the good there is 10 or more fakes. please feel free to pm me if you have anything you wish to ask, I can also offer advice on cages if you need to ask lol, either way, hope you enjoy your venture/journey into the cuckold world, "Thanks for the advice why do most so called bulls think cuckold means humilation its driving me mad  | |||
"Enjoyed cuckold relationship in the past, My advice is to find an experienced guy with good verifications, chat and explain what your looking for including the do and donts. there are lots of so called bulls out there who haven't a clue and arnt reall interested in anything but a wam bam thank you mam fuck and have no interest in your wants, met many of them over the years and a lot from "here" don't get me wrong there are plenty of genuine ones on here who understand the world of cuckold and are there for both your pleasure as well as his and will ensure you have a good time, but for every 1 of the good there is 10 or more fakes. please feel free to pm me if you have anything you wish to ask, I can also offer advice on cages if you need to ask lol, either way, hope you enjoy your venture/journey into the cuckold world,
Thanks for the advice why do most so called bulls think cuckold means humilation its driving me mad "Because they have seen some porn and think that is all being a 'bull' entails perhaps? Cuckoldry is a massive scene with vastly different tastes, kinks and lifestyles all included in it. Best advice for anyone wishing to participate is to communicate thoroughly about your expectations and wishes beforehand to ensure everyone is of the same understanding when ay starts. | |||
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"Thanks for the advice why do most so called bulls think cuckold means humilation its driving me mad "Because many so called bulls aren't looking to actually enter a cuckold relationship or have a cuckold meet, they're looking to fuck a woman. The husband is at best ancillary. Anyway, the above advice is best advice: Before you even think about going into the bedroom, make sure you have at least one social meet with the prospective bull where the rules are laid out, your expectations are made clear, and he is in no doubt about what his part of the bargain is and what he will be expected to do for both of you. A real bull/cuckold relationship is really quite erotic, and can even be quite personal and emotional, but you have to make sure you've screened out any potential fakers who are just looking to fuck the Mrs and won't give the husband a second thought. | |||
"Thanks for the advice why do most so called bulls think cuckold means humilation its driving me mad
Because many so called bulls aren't looking to actually enter a cuckold relationship or have a cuckold meet, they're looking to fuck a woman. The husband is at best ancillary.
Anyway, the above advice is best advice: Before you even think about going into the bedroom, make sure you have at least one social meet with the prospective bull where the rules are laid out, your expectations are made clear, and he is in no doubt about what his part of the bargain is and what he will be expected to do for both of you.
A real bull/cuckold relationship is really quite erotic, and can even be quite personal and emotional, but you have to make sure you've screened out any potential fakers who are just looking to fuck the Mrs and won't give the husband a second thought. "The above advice is extremely sensible. You need to talk with each other about what you both want, rules, boundaries etc. Take your time to meet socially first, over a drink in a comfortable pub to help you relax and establish if the right mutual chemistry is there. Take things at your own pace. The right guy will understand and be patient. I have written about our cuckold experience in the story forum. Rufus and Penelope a Cuckold Journey. Some poetic licence but reflects our early experiences. Good luck. | |||
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"Enjoyed cuckold relationship in the past, My advice is to find an experienced guy with good verifications, chat and explain what your looking for including the do and donts. there are lots of so called bulls out there who haven't a clue and arnt reall interested in anything but a wam bam thank you mam fuck and have no interest in your wants, met many of them over the years and a lot from "here" don't get me wrong there are plenty of genuine ones on here who understand the world of cuckold and are there for both your pleasure as well as his and will ensure you have a good time, but for every 1 of the good there is 10 or more fakes. please feel free to pm me if you have anything you wish to ask, I can also offer advice on cages if you need to ask lol, either way, hope you enjoy your venture/journey into the cuckold world,
Thanks for the advice why do most so called bulls think cuckold means humilation its driving me mad "Because most "bulls" have seen a bit of porn and included a bit of mild bdsm in sex and think they're the worlds master dom bull and in reality actually have not the faintest idea of how bdsm or cuckold relationships work. Its important that you speak to your partner first and figure out exactly what you want before you even start looking for another guy. It could also be easier to find a guy whps relatively new to cuckold as you can discover and learn each other as the relationship grows to give everyone involved the best possible experience. | |||
"Hi eveyone we are toying with the idea of cuckhold it gets hubby turned on that wifey is in charge not in to any humiliation tho. The idea is he is caged and can only join in when told too Our question is how is the best way to started as we are quite shy
We would like to hear from people and how they started "Surely wearing a cock cage and not being allowed to play IS humiliating? | |||
" Thanks for the advice why do most so called bulls think cuckold means humilation its driving me mad "Because ultimately it does lol | |||
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"Enjoyed cuckold relationship in the past, My advice is to find an experienced guy with good verifications, chat and explain what your looking for including the do and donts. there are lots of so called bulls out there who haven't a clue and arnt reall interested in anything but a wam bam thank you mam fuck and have no interest in your wants, met many of them over the years and a lot from "here" don't get me wrong there are plenty of genuine ones on here who understand the world of cuckold and are there for both your pleasure as well as his and will ensure you have a good time, but for every 1 of the good there is 10 or more fakes. please feel free to pm me if you have anything you wish to ask, I can also offer advice on cages if you need to ask lol, either way, hope you enjoy your venture/journey into the cuckold world,
Thanks for the advice why do most so called bulls think cuckold means humilation its driving me mad "Humiliation can be part of cuckold fun, its all about what all parties are comfortable with, "ground rules all the way" however humiliation needs experience and agreement whats good and bad all round. for instance does the cuckold want humiliation from the bull, the hotwife or both? there are many different scenarios and careful discussion needs to take place first between the couple, then find a suitable bull that will listen and understand the couples wants and desires, at the end of the day its about everyone enjoying the experience, the hotwife, the cuckold partner and the bull | |||
"Hi eveyone we are toying with the idea of cuckhold it gets hubby turned on that wifey is in charge not in to any humiliation tho. The idea is he is caged and can only join in when told too Our question is how is the best way to started as we are quite shy
We would like to hear from people and how they started
Surely wearing a cock cage and not being allowed to play IS humiliating?"yes the wearing of the cage in front of your partner and her bull/lover is a form of humiliation. when in a former cuck relationship and I would reveal myself in front of partner and her bull/lover the humiliation starts for me, its the start of the mindfuck eroticism that a true cuckold will understand, although no physical stimulation of the cuck is taking place the mind is working overtime in the arousal department, really hard to explain but i'm sure experienced cucks reading this can relate and understand | |||
"Been in the game for a few years now. Avoid bulls. Let the fem be in charge of both hub, and extra cock. Look for long standing, trusted playmates. " played out that scenario and thoroughly enjoyed as a twist | |||
"Try Hubby just being allowed to listen, from next door, or a busy pub scenario where he comes back from bar or toilet to find you kissing perhaps. Their is tons you can do, weve had a few experiences, been through the being jealous,,,etc, but the lure keeps dragging us back. Msg anytime" again different scenarios, all about what folks want to try. one experience I had in the past was meeting a bull with my partner at a hotel, he took complete charge when we arrived in the room but a respectful charge at that, he was dressed in biker leathers, told partner to undress and ready herself and at the same time told her to watch him instruct me. I was told to remove his leather boots and leather strides then work his cock to get him hard, all the while talking to my partner with humiliating comments about me and what I was doing, once ready I was told to undress and sit in a chair while they got comfortable with each other, I watched as he brought her to the brink of orgasm several times before backing off and not completely giving her a full orgasm, eventually he pulled a bag from the side of the bed which contained chains/padlock, a blindfold and ear defenders, the type that completely cover the ear, the chair was then positioned at the foot of the bed and I was told to straddle the chair (kind of like the famous Christine Keeler pose for those that are familiar) once in that position I was bound to the chair with chains and padlock with only one hand free, partner was told to face me on the bed on her knees doggy style and told to reach her hand out to meet my free hand, I was then blindfolded and the ear defenders were put over my ears, so I could hear almost nothing and see nothing and restrained in the chair with only one hand contact with my partner. my senses then picked up (from her hand hold slightly rocking back and forth) that the bull was now fucking her doggystyle, again through slight tightening and relaxing of her hand grip on mine I sensed he was edging her again (which was confirmed after the event) eventually after 10-15 minutes her hand grip started to get really tight and I could only just make out moans from her the grip got really tight and I realised she was probably having a massive orgasm, again confirmed after the event, the rhythmic rocking back and forth subsided and stopped and the chains removed ear defenders came off and eventually the blindfold, I was greeted by my partners face in front of me on all fours with a very flushed face, eyes glazed over and a huge grin on her face, the fun then continued with me watching him pleasure her in all manner of ways giving her several orgasms before he finally came himself. now although this all sounds a bit BDSM ish and I suppose it was, it was still cuckold fun and something we have never tried before, and though I still prefer to watch a partner with eye contact especially when the orgasm is building I did enjoy the experience and she did too. thanks for reading I know its long but just wanted to give another aspect of the fun that can be had in the realms of cuckold to reiterate cuckold has many different facets | |||
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