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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As the title says I live and work relatively close to a couple clubs. Every time I get ready to go to one I chicken out of it, as I'm scared I might bump into someone I know. Any advice??
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
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There`s no guarantee that going to a club further away will stop this! I`ve had it happen 150 miles away from where I live.
If you see someone you know, they`re there for the same thing as you. If you make eye contact, give a polite nod of the head and move on, unless you fancy each other of course! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We used to think the same, but we have never met anyone we know at our local club. Also we have come to the point were we are not bothered if we do meet anyone we know. After all we are all there for the same reason, to have fun.  |
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As a single man, what is it you fear about meeting someone you know?
A single man looking for sex is hardly newsworthy and doesn't carry the same social stigma as couples swinging or women having multiple partners. |
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I've run into a customer from work (retail) at a club, who asked me to please refrain from mentioning where we'd met if i saw him with his wife.
I asked him, in return, to please not announce to my coworkers the same thing.
As if (mine probably all guessed, anyway).
I find people at clubs to be quite discreet, and more interested in their own business than anyone else's.
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"More likely to be a problem if a non swinger friend neighbour co worker etc sees you entering or leaving said establishment"
I wonder what the problem would be here anyway. The OP is a single guy entering a club where sex happens. That's not really something to be ashamed of if you are spotted? In fact the non swinger would probably be very jealous  |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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OP go for it. I haven’t met anyone I know in a club. But they are there for the same reason as you. I know others have said it easier for a single man, but I believe it’s just as difficult. I was so nervous going into my first club. I would recommend going on a night an event is on and get yourself on the guest list. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just do it mate. We live super close to one and it’s the only one we go to... we have only seen someone we know once.. and let’s face it, your all there for the same thing. No point in travelling miles for something that’s just as good nearby |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If everyone thought along the lines of its better to travel further away, you’d probably meet more people that you know! Why anyone worries though as if they are in the club too, who they gonna tell?
We have 2 clubs within 15 minutes of us but frankly there are better clubs further afield when we have the desire to go. We wouldn’t care if we bumped into anyone we know |
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By *iraelWoman
over a year ago
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An work colleague found my fab profile using the “who’s near” feature on here, then promptly sent a message asking what Chams was like. They’d only ever been up to Cupid’s as too worried about bumping into someone at Chams.
They’re now an ex colleague, and we have a good gossip in the bar at Chams once a month or so |
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