Talking to newbies I aways think you have to be gentle with them
There is need to talk to them and give them a full picture of what gos on
Talk to them about the myths and how it take time to find what your looking for
Tell them it don't happen over night
Tell them their about the fact there are folk on the swinging since who don't swing
Respect has to be given at all times
and the main point is that if your talking to someone you dont have to have sex with them
thats the advice i give them
so guys what do you think oif what i tell folk who are new to this
Tell them there are folk on the swinging since who are just living thier life styles
Tell them you cant assume anything
Yes the idea is about having sex with diffrent folk but folk are not sex workers
Yes I tell them you got to find folk you conect with but your time scales have to match
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"Talking to newbies I aways think you have to be gentle with them
There is need to talk to them and give them a full picture of what gos on
Talk to them about the myths and how it take time to find what your looking for
Tell them it don't happen over night
Tell them their about the fact there are folk on the swinging since who don't swing
Respect has to be given at all times
and the main point is that if your talking to someone you dont have to have sex with them
thats the advice i give them
so guys what do you think oif what i tell folk who are new to this
Tell them there are folk on the swinging since who are just living thier life styles
Tell them you cant assume anything
Yes the idea is about having sex with diffrent folk but folk are not sex workers
Yes I tell them you got to find folk you conect with but your time scales have to match
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It can be a hard time for single guys who join. Very few messages ever get responses. I’ve spoken to a couple of guys who have found it a real knock to their confidence.
As a couple we get more replies and women reaching out. But I’m under no illusions if I was a single guy I’d probably get no responses. Not because I can’t write a bio or take a good pic and not because I’m not polite and not pushy.
It must be soul destroying knowing your a decent guy and have a lot to offer but never getting a chance.
My advice to a single guy is don’t be on fab. Go out and meet women face to face. Join a club connected to something you’re into and you will meet people.
Fab is not a place for single guys imo |
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I think a lot of single guys come on here just to get a quickie or two. They see it as a sex hook up site and aren't interested in the swinging/social side of it. Now that's fine, but they then can't understand why women/couples who are swingers dont want to dash round instantly to meet them. |
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