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I have a meet arranged at a club on Tuesday, my first time at that club and first time at any club without my husband. I just got my period!!
Would you go anyway, and just soft play if I want to? Or cancel and go when I’m fully up to it/for it?! |
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I’m not sure the ibuprofen will work for me, I have a very heavy flow.I will try it though. I use a moon cup as it holds the most!!
I’ll tell the guy I’ve arranged to meet, I don’t expect him to stick by my side all the time either...or if you arrange to meet someone, are you supposed to only play with them?! Argh this was so much easier as a couple!!! |
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Explain to the guy if he decent he will understand. Still go to the club. You don't have to play. If it your first time there go to get the feel of the place chat to staff and clientele and enjoy the experience the club has to offer x. K |
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over a year ago
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"Take 3 ibuprofen about 6 hours before and it will be dried up by the evening. I have used this trick many times."
Never tried this. Will be popping these tomorrow 
P.s i would re arrange. Nikki x |
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"I’m not sure the ibuprofen will work for me, I have a very heavy flow.I will try it though. I use a moon cup as it holds the most!!
I’ll tell the guy I’ve arranged to meet, I don’t expect him to stick by my side all the time either...or if you arrange to meet someone, are you supposed to only play with them?! Argh this was so much easier as a couple!!! "
I have horrendous periods and it works for me. I did it accidentally the first time as I was dosing up through illness and I wondered why my period had stopped part way through. |
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I would go to the Dr and ask for Norethisterone.
Be careful about taking ibuprofen for stopping periods, not good if you have a blood disorder like I do and it can react with other medications |
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By *inkyNinjaWoman
over a year ago
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"I would go to the Dr and ask for Norethisterone.
Be careful about taking ibuprofen for stopping periods, not good if you have a blood disorder like I do and it can react with other medications"
You can buy this through online pharmacies now. But OP would need to start taking tomorrow to make sure the flow was stopped for Tuesday. |
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Beppy tampon! Basically a sponge you put up there that you can have sex with. Can be a bugger getting it out again though... These have been great for me when I've had a weekend away/party planned and my period's kicked in.
I guess you're not on the pill or you'd have said, but if you are you can just continue taking them and miss the break. |
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"I have a meet arranged at a club on Tuesday, my first time at that club and first time at any club without my husband. I just got my period!!
Would you go anyway, and just soft play if I want to? Or cancel and go when I’m fully up to it/for it?! "
If you're not on the pill, I would go on the mini pill. I'm on it and never have a period as you continually take it without a break. Then it's fun all the time!  x |
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Ladies, although it's lovely to be able to play all the time, have no pain & fewer swings, please be careful that you don't make yourself ill & do get a dexa scan done if your on long term contraceptives (6yrs plus) without a period because you can develop ostereoparosis through lack of calcium & hormones, especially if it's the jag form. |
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"I would go to the Dr and ask for Norethisterone.
Be careful about taking ibuprofen for stopping periods, not good if you have a blood disorder like I do and it can react with other medications
You can buy this through online pharmacies now. But OP would need to start taking tomorrow to make sure the flow was stopped for Tuesday. "
You need to take it three days before your periods due. It works well; no problems for me except feeling PMT after a week  |
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"I have a meet arranged at a club on Tuesday, my first time at that club and first time at any club without my husband. I just got my period!!
Would you go anyway, and just soft play if I want to? Or cancel and go when I’m fully up to it/for it?! "
Go anyway. It's just as much about the socialising fun too. I have before and just soft play too. Just be honest with the guy if it escalates. You can still please him or her  |
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"I have a meet arranged at a club on Tuesday, my first time at that club and first time at any club without my husband. I just got my period!!
Would you go anyway, and just soft play if I want to? Or cancel and go when I’m fully up to it/for it?! "
Or you can just take your date back to your room and have some messy play together and even more in the shower.  |
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If you are asking for opinions, I will give mine. NO! Just really, no. Periods have never stopped me having sex if I am WITH someone but for me, it seems strange to even consider it on a first meet? But that’s just my opinion. Your life, your choice. Do whatever makes you happy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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From a horny guys point of view...
Tell the guy (or girl) and let them decide if they are up for it.
I have enjoyed my face and tongue being used during periods many times and it just adds to the appeal. I might he weird though
I am sure I am not the only guy to lie underneath and pull the cord
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By *ob rodMan
over a year ago
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Tell him and it’s up to him
TBH there are that many time wasters on here he might presume u r one of them even though it’s genuine
Or offer to do a social somewhere else and don’t bother with club |
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"I have a meet arranged at a club on Tuesday, my first time at that club and first time at any club without my husband. I just got my period!!
Would you go anyway, and just soft play if I want to? Or cancel and go when I’m fully up to it/for it?! "
go for it its only blood  |
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By *inkyNinjaWoman
over a year ago
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"I would go to the Dr and ask for Norethisterone.
Be careful about taking ibuprofen for stopping periods, not good if you have a blood disorder like I do and it can react with other medications
You can buy this through online pharmacies now. But OP would need to start taking tomorrow to make sure the flow was stopped for Tuesday.
You need to take it three days before your periods due. It works well; no problems for me except feeling PMT after a week "
You can take it once the bleeding has started too (although as you say instructions say 3 days before period is due). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I took Norethisterone to stop my periods on a holiday. Spent the whole time feeling sick from the tablets instead."
Oh God. I took them for a week before my period was due and we were going to our monthly club event so I wanted to be able to play etc.....I thought I was going mad! Mood swings. Hot flushes. Acne. The works! Never taken any kind of contraception so I think my body was just like, 'NOPE!'
I've never tried the Ibuprofen thing before but will now. BDCAW Xx |
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"I have a meet arranged at a club on Tuesday, my first time at that club and first time at any club without my husband. I just got my period!!
Would you go anyway, and just soft play if I want to? Or cancel and go when I’m fully up to it/for it?! "
The most important question is what do you want?
If your head is not into it, then even soft play may feel like more of a chore than a thing you are doing for your own enjoyment.
Clubs will always be there another night as will willing and sexy men.
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"I would go to the Dr and ask for Norethisterone.
Be careful about taking ibuprofen for stopping periods, not good if you have a blood disorder like I do and it can react with other medications
You can buy this through online pharmacies now. But OP would need to start taking tomorrow to make sure the flow was stopped for Tuesday.
You need to take it three days before your periods due. It works well; no problems for me except feeling PMT after a week
You can take it once the bleeding has started too (although as you say instructions say 3 days before period is due). "
Does it work? How long does it take? |
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Thanks everyone! I’ve told him the situation and he seems ok with it, I’d like to go if I’m still in the mood!! But if my cramps are bad or flow really heavy I won’t be comfortable so I’ll make a decision on Monday. And yes, anal is certainly a great option!! |
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"Certainly let the guy know... and tell him it'll need to be anal only 
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That’s if she wants anal......goodness what an option  "
I was kidding, but then the OP is wearing a strapon in one of her pics |
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By *inkyNinjaWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere over the rainbow... |
"I would go to the Dr and ask for Norethisterone.
Be careful about taking ibuprofen for stopping periods, not good if you have a blood disorder like I do and it can react with other medications
You can buy this through online pharmacies now. But OP would need to start taking tomorrow to make sure the flow was stopped for Tuesday.
You need to take it three days before your periods due. It works well; no problems for me except feeling PMT after a week
You can take it once the bleeding has started too (although as you say instructions say 3 days before period is due).
Does it work? How long does it take? "
Takes 3/4 days for me but I have really heavy flow. Some people it can stop it in 2 days. |
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"I would go to the Dr and ask for Norethisterone.
Be careful about taking ibuprofen for stopping periods, not good if you have a blood disorder like I do and it can react with other medications
You can buy this through online pharmacies now. But OP would need to start taking tomorrow to make sure the flow was stopped for Tuesday.
You need to take it three days before your periods due. It works well; no problems for me except feeling PMT after a week
You can take it once the bleeding has started too (although as you say instructions say 3 days before period is due).
Does it work? How long does it take?
Takes 3/4 days for me but I have really heavy flow. Some people it can stop it in 2 days. "
Be careful using ibuprofen as a period stopper, it can cause harm.....let nature take its course...... |
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By *inkyNinjaWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere over the rainbow... |
"I would go to the Dr and ask for Norethisterone.
Be careful about taking ibuprofen for stopping periods, not good if you have a blood disorder like I do and it can react with other medications
You can buy this through online pharmacies now. But OP would need to start taking tomorrow to make sure the flow was stopped for Tuesday.
You need to take it three days before your periods due. It works well; no problems for me except feeling PMT after a week
You can take it once the bleeding has started too (although as you say instructions say 3 days before period is due).
Does it work? How long does it take?
Takes 3/4 days for me but I have really heavy flow. Some people it can stop it in 2 days.
Be careful using ibuprofen as a period stopper, it can cause harm.....let nature take its course......"
I was talking about Norethisterone. I can’t see how ibuprofen would work tbh. But people say it does. |
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"I would go to the Dr and ask for Norethisterone.
Be careful about taking ibuprofen for stopping periods, not good if you have a blood disorder like I do and it can react with other medications
You can buy this through online pharmacies now. But OP would need to start taking tomorrow to make sure the flow was stopped for Tuesday.
You need to take it three days before your periods due. It works well; no problems for me except feeling PMT after a week
You can take it once the bleeding has started too (although as you say instructions say 3 days before period is due).
Does it work? How long does it take?
Takes 3/4 days for me but I have really heavy flow. Some people it can stop it in 2 days.
Be careful using ibuprofen as a period stopper, it can cause harm.....let nature take its course......
I was talking about Norethisterone. I can’t see how ibuprofen would work tbh. But people say it does. "
Apologies I read it wrong. Yes Norethistetone if taken in enough time does work. It caused me thick facial hair though lol which was annoying.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can use bebby sponges they are for women that still want sex if you have your monthly’s I don’t play when I’m on but there are products out there if some choose to |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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I've been to clubs while bleeding before, I didn't really have a choice as I was almost permanently on my period back then, I didn't play often and then it was basically just giving blowjobs lol. Ask the guy you're meeting how he feels about it or if he'd like to rearrange, it's still your choice obviously but then you have more info to base your decision on. |
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