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soft vs full swap, what do you do?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have had soft swap with couples, and mfm encounters and a soft swap that overlapped with that. We have not experienced full swap with another couple yet. It feels very separate to us and our relationship versus the soft swap foursome kind of fun or threesome fun.
Wondering if other couples also aren’t yet there with comfort with full swap while happily engaging in threesomes or group soft swinging?
I know every couple sets their own rules and boundaries and we have been very protective of our relationship and have been cautious and great at communicating with one another. |
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"We just go with the flow, and enjoy being watched, full swap and everything in between.
Nita"
When we do "swap" it does tend to be in the same room though and usually close enough to touch & kiss 
Cal |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We just go with the flow, and enjoy being watched, full swap and everything in between.
Nita
When we do "swap" it does tend to be in the same room though and usually close enough to touch & kiss
Cal"
I’m positive that we will get there, and have had a go with it plan and gone with what felt right at the start of each encounter. We usually say something to each other about it in our own little way. It’s only been a few months and we both really enjoy everything we have done so far but not rushed seeking or pushing to tick off everything we’d like to try 
We’ve not encountered any jealousy and only gotten closer.
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We are a soft swap couple - we currently have no plans to go full swap.
For us soft swap is: everything is allowed (including kissing) except full sex with the other people. We do enjoy having sex in front of others at the end though.
We have had some great fun with singles, couples and groups with this simple boundary. |
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We started out as soft swap and then progressed to full swap, we are happy to meet couples who soft swap and find them generally very adventurous, sometimes full swappers just ain’t adventurous enough and literally just want to swap, the point, don’t ever let anyone tell that soft swap is frustrating, boring etc those people are probably boring anyway....
Oh and avoid the no kissers..... |
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