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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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got someone messaging my ver's then leaving the site, then rejoining under an different username etc... Ive never met them and they cant describe me or my accent.. luckily my ver's have figured that that she doesn't know me but now im getting about 15 txts a day, some saying shes gonna kill herself, some saying shes gonna kill someone else, some saying shes sorry and wants a meet.. never answers phone... (im single, nothing to hide and rarely give my number out) do i go to the police or just ignore? Ive posted a message from her as a pic on my profile.. any ideas? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to be honest, I have no idea what to do! I guess you can always go to the police and just ask for advice without being official. I'm sure they've come across this before.
I doubt you can stop her from contacting your veris if she continues opening new accounts?
As for the text messages you could get her number blocked or change your own! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the first think u need to do is notifiy admin as they can help state what is happening and then everytime she makes more contact and they will help u with it hope this helps xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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yeah thanks... i not gonna bother with the police, like u say, they wont be interested... ill grab admin but that wont stop them setting up new accounts.. im not really that fussed.. let them get on with it.. they said they were gonna tell my wife.. Ive had a couple of wives but never my own lol! probably kids or some sad little person... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yeah thanks... i not gonna bother with the police, like u say, they wont be interested... ill grab admin but that wont stop them setting up new accounts.. im not really that fussed.. let them get on with it.. they said they were gonna tell my wife.. Ive had a couple of wives but never my own lol! probably kids or some sad little person..."
 We keep a phone and sim purposely for swinging, it's switched on and off as and when we want it. If we do get nutters we have the final say cause we'd just swap to a new sim if they became too much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Report it to admin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel your pain .. had then same and even managed to get my landline !! answerfone constantly on now xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If thay are threatening to kill the self or others aka suicide or murder
Along with the erratic behaviour the police would be intrested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yeah thanks... i not gonna bother with the police, like u say, they wont be interested... ill grab admin but that wont stop them setting up new accounts.. im not really that fussed.. let them get on with it.. they said they were gonna tell my wife.. Ive had a couple of wives but never my own lol! probably kids or some sad little person..."
If they are contacting your veris then hide them. I dont show mine. They can be viewed on request
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Admin can probably block her from joining, they can keep an eye out for her IP address in future?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"got someone messaging my ver's then leaving the site, then rejoining under an different username etc... Ive never met them and they cant describe me or my accent.. luckily my ver's have figured that that she doesn't know me but now im getting about 15 txts a day, some saying shes gonna kill herself, some saying shes gonna kill someone else, some saying shes sorry and wants a meet.. never answers phone... (im single, nothing to hide and rarely give my number out) do i go to the police or just ignore? Ive posted a message from her as a pic on my profile.. any ideas?"
sounds like an attention seeker to me, next time you get a text saying shes going to kill herself offer to send her the tablets 
Personally id get her number blocked and just ignor it, cant be doing with drama queens myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Admin can probably block her from joining, they can keep an eye out for her IP address in future??"
i had a guy keep mailing me, sending abuse and every time i blocked him he just re joined on another name and carried on mailing me, when i blocked single guys from mailing me he opened a couples account and carried on mailing me, i was told there was nothing that couple be dont to stop people re joining under different usernames |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We keep a phone and sim purposely for swinging, it's switched on and off as and when we want it. If we do get nutters we have the final say cause we'd just swap to a new sim if they became too much. "
Same here, its my "fuck phone" cost me £10 from asda, its crap but does the job i need, means im able to accept pic messages and text, they get my number when ive met and comfortable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yeah thanks... i not gonna bother with the police, like u say, they wont be interested... ill grab admin but that wont stop them setting up new accounts.. im not really that fussed.. let them get on with it.. they said they were gonna tell my wife.. Ive had a couple of wives but never my own lol! probably kids or some sad little person..."
actually it will limit it as they can't set up for same ip address so it will make it harder for them honestly i know a bit about this kind of trouble go to admin they really help x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I understand the law is changing about stalking and harassment, Naughty nympho had a thread about it, her family member was being harassed... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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am guessing lots of people have 2-3 profiles on here for many reasons,all you cna do is report every time to admin and explain stalker ect, as for phone, block her or report her number to the company you use and they can block if you are on a contract, if you are PAYG they dont offer block which is totaly crap, had same problem and noe have a 'play phone' whioch cost nothing and PAYG, safer, also have a stalker and the poice have a new oder call ' soical harrasment order which is good and they enforce, google it and read info. good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ps sorry about the speling, new laptop and not used to key broad yet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had posted a link the the actual Law, via the Government legislation web site, but, it wasn't on the approved list of links.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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go to the police immediately.
If she is threatening to hurt someone else or herself she needs to be dealt with... the police have the right to section her under the mental health act and charge her with any criminal harassment offences if she is found to be of sound mind.. if not she will get the help she needs!
hope you get this sorted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"go to the police immediately.
If she is threatening to hurt someone else or herself she needs to be dealt with... the police have the right to section her under the mental health act and charge her with any criminal harassment offences if she is found to be of sound mind.. if not she will get the help she needs!
hope you get this sorted"
Bollox
most people who threaten it are attention seekers and will 99.9% not do it
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Dont give your number out so easily in future...its not about having anything to hide but preventing situations like this that so many of us dont.
Getting a cheap swing phone is another alternative.
Report to admin, and learn from the experience.
Hope she gets bored soon. |
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By *j_markCouple
over a year ago
Forum Mod Totteridge/Whetstone |
We're closing this thread because we think it has run far enough.
If you have problems on here, block and report. If the OP could report these problem profiles, it would help Admin.
Thanks
Admin x |
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