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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That Its considered ok for woman on woman sex, but if the man wants to have sex with the woman, it's not?
I mean all things being equal, if I as a man, don't want to have sex with other men, then if she as a woman, wants to have sex with other women, I should be able to as well?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely that is something that you should discuss before joining a site like this. In a ideal world it should all be equal but feelings and unsecurrities get in the way and can make this impossible. Me and hubby are both free to meet and play with who we want, I have told him he can play with other women he doesn't want to which I am fine with as long as he is happy.
If your not happy with the dynamics of your set up with your partner you should really discuss it with them and not with the rest of fab. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"That Its considered ok for woman on woman sex, but if the man wants to have sex with the woman, it's not?
I mean all things being equal, if I as a man, don't want to have sex with other men, then if she as a woman, wants to have sex with other women, I should be able to as well?
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Is your partner allowed to have sex with other men? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Living the dream eh. I should just be as nice and patient as you possibly possibly can and let her grow. I suspect you may have to wait along time or maybe even never. Probably best advice is to suck it up. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Because she has no interest in other men. So she gets everything she wants, and I get nothing I want. That doesn't sound fair does it?"
It sounds like you're stamping your feet, if you don't like it, stop swinging. Simples. If you're both not getting what you want out of it, it, either needs to change or stop. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It sounds like you need to have a chat with your partner instead of complaining on here. Me and Smile had numerous chats before joining and even after so we were clear on what we would like to gain from this experience and what is a no go.
I think for any of this to work you both have to agree and be happy with whatever you agree to. If one or both aren't happy now I can only see more problems arising.
I hope you get this figured out OP and you both start having the fun you both signed up for.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well if you don't like tell her and both stop swinging simples. Or accept it and have fun with what you have got. I doubt she would be happy with you whinging on here about how unfair it is. |
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"Because she has no interest in other men. So she gets everything she wants, and I get nothing I want. That doesn't sound fair does it?"
It's your relationship, so it isn't for anyone else to decided what is fair for each of you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That Its considered ok for woman on woman sex, but if the man wants to have sex with the woman, it's not?
I mean all things being equal, if I as a man, don't want to have sex with other men, then if she as a woman, wants to have sex with other women, I should be able to as well?
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Lol Most guys fantasise about their partner having sex with another women. I am little possessive as well were my partner is concerned I don't like sharing but I enjoy with other women. We have a fantastic relationship and don't feel the need to go outside of that unless it is couple meeting but that's a different context (bi female) - I feel there are deeper issues there - feel a little left out? My ex couldn't handle it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because she has no interest in other men. So she gets everything she wants, and I get nothing I want. That doesn't sound fair does it?"
Does she have equal access to your fab account where she can read this thread?  |
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If you feel the dynamic isn't working for you, you should probably discuss that with your partner. 
