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Is it because I’m ginger
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Lots of people think their lack of success is down to a physical attribute of their age. On a site where first impressions are formed from photos and text it does seem likely that it's true. However lots of people in the forum say that looks are far less important than personality. I think that it's a mix of the two and it's down to us to make ourselves as appealing as possible.
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Put off by the phrase 'would like a bit of dark' - eeew"
Yeah, what is that even supposed to mean? I have a feeling I know but I'm hoping it isn't what I think it is. If it is, op, you might want to start taking better care of your hand since you'll be spending alot more time together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You did ok two years ago with a couple of verifications what are you doing differently now ?
Profile looks like not been changed since and hardly new now are you ??
Hair colour not one of my deal breakers attitude and profile to consider is |
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By *ycallMan
over a year ago
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Being ginger is the least of your worries.
I don’t mean to be rude but you look depressed, your cock looks bored and your profile is dull.
Use your imagination and you will have more success
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"Put off by the phrase 'would like a bit of dark' - eeew
Yeah, what is that even supposed to mean? I have a feeling I know but I'm hoping it isn't what I think it is. If it is, op, you might want to start taking better care of your hand since you'll be spending alot more time together. "
I assumed he meant cadburys bournville ( other chocolate is available) lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure how to say it without out just saying it but the end of your penis / foreskin doesn't look 100% healthy in your 2nd picture buddy.
If I'm wrong and that's how it is / just the light etc then massive apologies but I know it's something we pay close attention to so I'm guessing others do as well.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nowt wrong with Gingers! I’m fact, I find them quite sexy!
Might be the fact that your photos are two years old.... I avoid anyone without recent photos!
We all have camera phones, no excuse!
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Your profile is at least 2 years old and simply says "I'm new be gentle, I'd love a 3sum and I love to lick pussy and spend ages down there...."
So a profile you created over 2 years ago, nothing added since, and no description of what you have to offer, just a boring couple of lines about what you want. Am surprised you even managed to get 2 verifications, and being that you don't show them they obviously weren't very complimentary....I'm not surprised! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fuckinghell no one gives you chance.
People must be sexist against gingers"
We didn't join the site to "give chances" to anyone,ginger or otherwise.
We joined for our fun our pleasure |
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"Haven't looked at your profile, but yes, being ginger would be a deal breaker for me."
Each to their own, but I adore red heads, some of the best sex I've ever had has been with flame haired/ginger girls.
Not everyone is into bbw with big wobbly tums.... |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Haven't looked at your profile, but yes, being ginger would be a deal breaker for me.
Each to their own, but I adore red heads, some of the best sex I've ever had has been with flame haired/ginger girls.
Not everyone is into bbw with big wobbly tums.... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fuckinghell no one gives you chance.
People must be sexist against gingers"
Nope. Nothing against ginger.
Your profile us just plain shit, below average and you have almost zero chance of meeting anybody of this lovely freindly site.
That said.
You have verifications from 2years ago. So you aren't NEW anymore and should know the score.
So quit yer win gin...
Have a nice day.
Mistress Amelia |
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"Haven't looked at your profile, but yes, being ginger would be a deal breaker for me.
Each to their own, but I adore red heads, some of the best sex I've ever had has been with flame haired/ginger girls.
Not everyone is into bbw with big wobbly tums....
Was there any need for this comment? "
Was there any need for the comment I referred to?
Is everyone allowed their opinion on these forums, or are some allowed to post opinions and others not?
I am totally fine with bbw and big tums, but that user saying that gingers are a deal breaker for her, is the same as saying bbws aren't for everyone.
Correct me if I am wrong? |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Haven't looked at your profile, but yes, being ginger would be a deal breaker for me.
Each to their own, but I adore red heads, some of the best sex I've ever had has been with flame haired/ginger girls.
Not everyone is into bbw with big wobbly tums....
Was there any need for this comment?
Was there any need for the comment I referred to?
Is everyone allowed their opinion on these forums, or are some allowed to post opinions and others not?
I am totally fine with bbw and big tums, but that user saying that gingers are a deal breaker for her, is the same as saying bbws aren't for everyone.
Correct me if I am wrong? "
The op asked people if being ginger is an issue, she answered his question. You just had a dig at her for no reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fuckinghell no one gives you chance.
People must be sexist against gingers
Nope. Nothing against ginger.
Your profile us just plain shit, below average and you have almost zero chance of meeting anybody of this lovely freindly site.
That said.
You have verifications from 2years ago. So you aren't NEW anymore and should know the score.
So quit yer win gin...
Have a nice day.
Mistress Amelia "
You tell him Amelia
By the way,how's the red hair working out for you?  |
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"Fuckinghell no one gives you chance.
People must be sexist against gingers
Nope. Nothing against ginger.
Your profile us just plain shit, below average and you have almost zero chance of meeting anybody of this lovely freindly site.
That said.
You have verifications from 2years ago. So you aren't NEW anymore and should know the score.
So quit yer win gin...
Have a nice day.
Mistress Amelia "
Don't sit on the fence now just give it to him straight. |
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If you scroll up the thread, you'll find I also posted some constructive criticism about the op's profile. I quite liked what I saw on your profile too Keeley.
If subjective comments are allowed by some but not others, how is that fair?? |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"If you scroll up the thread, you'll find I also posted some constructive criticism about the op's profile. I quite liked what I saw on your profile too Keeley.
If subjective comments are allowed by some but not others, how is that fair?? "
My issue is with your dig at someone for answering the op's question. There was no need for you to comment on her appearance. |
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"Haven't looked at your profile, but yes, being ginger would be a deal breaker for me.
Each to their own, but I adore red heads, some of the best sex I've ever had has been with flame haired/ginger girls.
Not everyone is into bbw with big wobbly tums....
Was there any need for this comment?
Was there any need for the comment I referred to?
Is everyone allowed their opinion on these forums, or are some allowed to post opinions and others not?
I am totally fine with bbw and big tums, but that user saying that gingers are a deal breaker for her, is the same as saying bbws aren't for everyone.
Correct me if I am wrong?
The op asked people if being ginger is an issue, she answered his question. You just had a dig at her for no reason. "
Its an "issue" for her and some others, not the whole female population. I didn't have a dig at her, I simply expressed that some people might not like that body shape. That is not my opinion, but as I said, each to their own. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Haven't looked at your profile, but yes, being ginger would be a deal breaker for me.
Each to their own, but I adore red heads, some of the best sex I've ever had has been with flame haired/ginger girls.
Not everyone is into bbw with big wobbly tums....
Was there any need for this comment?
Was there any need for the comment I referred to?
Is everyone allowed their opinion on these forums, or are some allowed to post opinions and others not?
I am totally fine with bbw and big tums, but that user saying that gingers are a deal breaker for her, is the same as saying bbws aren't for everyone.
Correct me if I am wrong?
The op asked people if being ginger is an issue, she answered his question. You just had a dig at her for no reason.
Its an "issue" for her and some others, not the whole female population. I didn't have a dig at her, I simply expressed that some people might not like that body shape. That is not my opinion, but as I said, each to their own. "
The op asked for feedback, that lady didn't and I find your comment to her rude and unnecessary, but hey, if you think that is OK then you carry on. |
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"If you scroll up the thread, you'll find I also posted some constructive criticism about the op's profile. I quite liked what I saw on your profile too Keeley.
If subjective comments are allowed by some but not others, how is that fair??
My issue is with your dig at someone for answering the op's question. There was no need for you to comment on her appearance."
And there was no need for her to dash his hopes completely by saying all gingers are a turn off....they may be to her, but not everyone has the same opinion. |
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"If you scroll up the thread, you'll find I also posted some constructive criticism about the op's profile. I quite liked what I saw on your profile too Keeley.
If subjective comments are allowed by some but not others, how is that fair?? "
The thing is he hasn't asked for profile advice so you shouldn't be giving it,or commenting on someone's body shape. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"If you scroll up the thread, you'll find I also posted some constructive criticism about the op's profile. I quite liked what I saw on your profile too Keeley.
If subjective comments are allowed by some but not others, how is that fair??
My issue is with your dig at someone for answering the op's question. There was no need for you to comment on her appearance.
And there was no need for her to dash his hopes completely by saying all gingers are a turn off....they may be to her, but not everyone has the same opinion. "
She said 'for me' not for everyone. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Haven't looked at your profile, but yes, being ginger would be a deal breaker for me."
And here's the quote, just in case you decide to actually read it instead of just assuming you know what it said. |
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"Haven't looked at your profile, but yes, being ginger would be a deal breaker for me.
Each to their own, but I adore red heads, some of the best sex I've ever had has been with flame haired/ginger girls.
Not everyone is into bbw with big wobbly tums....
Was there any need for this comment?
Was there any need for the comment I referred to?
Is everyone allowed their opinion on these forums, or are some allowed to post opinions and others not?
I am totally fine with bbw and big tums, but that user saying that gingers are a deal breaker for her, is the same as saying bbws aren't for everyone.
Correct me if I am wrong?
The op asked people if being ginger is an issue, she answered his question. You just had a dig at her for no reason.
Its an "issue" for her and some others, not the whole female population. I didn't have a dig at her, I simply expressed that some people might not like that body shape. That is not my opinion, but as I said, each to their own.
The op asked for feedback, that lady didn't and I find your comment to her rude and unnecessary, but hey, if you think that is OK then you carry on. "
I found her comment quite rude also, which is why I came to his defence somewhat... I won't lose any sleep over you finding my comment rude. Feel free to report me to site admin if you choose. If one person is allowed to voice their opinion on a forum and another is not, then that isn't fair at all.
As I said I don't have any problem with bbw and big tums personally, and I also stated I quite liked what I saw on your profile, and some of my meets have been with bbw which I have thoroughly enjoyed... But if you want to blow this all out of proportion then be my guest. Enjoy the rest of your day and the forums.
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Haven't looked at your profile, but yes, being ginger would be a deal breaker for me.
Each to their own, but I adore red heads, some of the best sex I've ever had has been with flame haired/ginger girls.
Not everyone is into bbw with big wobbly tums....
Was there any need for this comment?
Was there any need for the comment I referred to?
Is everyone allowed their opinion on these forums, or are some allowed to post opinions and others not?
I am totally fine with bbw and big tums, but that user saying that gingers are a deal breaker for her, is the same as saying bbws aren't for everyone.
Correct me if I am wrong?
The op asked people if being ginger is an issue, she answered his question. You just had a dig at her for no reason.
Its an "issue" for her and some others, not the whole female population. I didn't have a dig at her, I simply expressed that some people might not like that body shape. That is not my opinion, but as I said, each to their own.
The op asked for feedback, that lady didn't and I find your comment to her rude and unnecessary, but hey, if you think that is OK then you carry on.
I found her comment quite rude also, which is why I came to his defence somewhat... I won't lose any sleep over you finding my comment rude. Feel free to report me to site admin if you choose. If one person is allowed to voice their opinion on a forum and another is not, then that isn't fair at all.
As I said I don't have any problem with bbw and big tums personally, and I also stated I quite liked what I saw on your profile, and some of my meets have been with bbw which I have thoroughly enjoyed... But if you want to blow this all out of proportion then be my guest. Enjoy the rest of your day and the forums.
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He asked for opinions, she didn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haven't looked at your profile, but yes, being ginger would be a deal breaker for me.
Each to their own, but I adore red heads, some of the best sex I've ever had has been with flame haired/ginger girls.
Not everyone is into bbw with big wobbly tums.... "
Wow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. It's because you're ginger. Search for a thread called "Never had a good sexual experience with a Carrot top" if you require further proof of this.
And in other news, speed cameras officially aren't seen as a gold mine and Fred West was actually innocent.
B
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep it's the ginger thing... Everyone is warned off us soul stealing freckled folk. It's a bit like having leprosy, people cross the road just not to catch the ginge. Heartbreaking I know, but true. You have my sympathies.
It's obviously nothing to do with your profile and everything to do with the colour of your hair.
Maybe you could try some just for men hair dye and you'll be overwhelmed with offers?
Or if that fails perhaps read the advice that's been given?? Just a suggestion.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haven't looked at your profile, but yes, being ginger would be a deal breaker for me.
Each to their own, but I adore red heads, some of the best sex I've ever had has been with flame haired/ginger girls.
Not everyone is into bbw with big wobbly tums....
Was there any need for this comment?
Was there any need for the comment I referred to?
Is everyone allowed their opinion on these forums, or are some allowed to post opinions and others not?
I am totally fine with bbw and big tums, but that user saying that gingers are a deal breaker for her, is the same as saying bbws aren't for everyone.
Correct me if I am wrong?
The op asked people if being ginger is an issue, she answered his question. You just had a dig at her for no reason.
Its an "issue" for her and some others, not the whole female population. I didn't have a dig at her, I simply expressed that some people might not like that body shape. That is not my opinion, but as I said, each to their own.
The op asked for feedback, that lady didn't and I find your comment to her rude and unnecessary, but hey, if you think that is OK then you carry on.
I found her comment quite rude also, which is why I came to his defence somewhat... I won't lose any sleep over you finding my comment rude. Feel free to report me to site admin if you choose. If one person is allowed to voice their opinion on a forum and another is not, then that isn't fair at all.
As I said I don't have any problem with bbw and big tums personally, and I also stated I quite liked what I saw on your profile, and some of my meets have been with bbw which I have thoroughly enjoyed... But if you want to blow this all out of proportion then be my guest. Enjoy the rest of your day and the forums.
He asked for opinions, she didn't. "
Thank you for your comments both. However if I was sensitive about being a BBW with a big wobbly tum, I wouldn't have commented on the thread in the first place.
As previously said , each to their own  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Haven't looked at your profile, but yes, being ginger would be a deal breaker for me.
Each to their own, but I adore red heads, some of the best sex I've ever had has been with flame haired/ginger girls.
Not everyone is into bbw with big wobbly tums....
Was there any need for this comment?
Was there any need for the comment I referred to?
Is everyone allowed their opinion on these forums, or are some allowed to post opinions and others not?
I am totally fine with bbw and big tums, but that user saying that gingers are a deal breaker for her, is the same as saying bbws aren't for everyone.
Correct me if I am wrong?
The op asked people if being ginger is an issue, she answered his question. You just had a dig at her for no reason.
Its an "issue" for her and some others, not the whole female population. I didn't have a dig at her, I simply expressed that some people might not like that body shape. That is not my opinion, but as I said, each to their own.
The op asked for feedback, that lady didn't and I find your comment to her rude and unnecessary, but hey, if you think that is OK then you carry on.
I found her comment quite rude also, which is why I came to his defence somewhat... I won't lose any sleep over you finding my comment rude. Feel free to report me to site admin if you choose. If one person is allowed to voice their opinion on a forum and another is not, then that isn't fair at all.
As I said I don't have any problem with bbw and big tums personally, and I also stated I quite liked what I saw on your profile, and some of my meets have been with bbw which I have thoroughly enjoyed... But if you want to blow this all out of proportion then be my guest. Enjoy the rest of your day and the forums.
He asked for opinions, she didn't.
Thank you for your comments both. However if I was sensitive about being a BBW with a big wobbly tum, I wouldn't have commented on the thread in the first place.
As previously said , each to their own "
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He asked for opinions, she didn't.
Thank you for your comments both. However if I was sensitive about being a BBW with a big wobbly tum, I wouldn't have commented on the thread in the first place.
As previously said , each to their own "
MySecret, thank you for seeing the sensible side of this, some sensitive types do like to create an issue when there isn't one! |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
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He asked for opinions, she didn't.
Thank you for your comments both. However if I was sensitive about being a BBW with a big wobbly tum, I wouldn't have commented on the thread in the first place.
As previously said , each to their own
MySecret, thank you for seeing the sensible side of this, some sensitive types do like to create an issue when there isn't one!"
Please don't pretend you know anything about me, especially enough to call me a 'sensitive type'. I will call you out if you make rude comments about people, that doesn't make me sensitive, it makes me human. |
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He asked for opinions, she didn't.
Thank you for your comments both. However if I was sensitive about being a BBW with a big wobbly tum, I wouldn't have commented on the thread in the first place.
As previously said , each to their own
MySecret, thank you for seeing the sensible side of this, some sensitive types do like to create an issue when there isn't one!
Please don't pretend you know anything about me, especially enough to call me a 'sensitive type'. I will call you out if you make rude comments about people, that doesn't make me sensitive, it makes me human."
Get over yourself!!! This is a public forum, if one posys an opinion, they they accept to be bound by other peoples opinions.... If snowflakes like you feel the need to fight others corners for them then so be it... |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
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He asked for opinions, she didn't.
Thank you for your comments both. However if I was sensitive about being a BBW with a big wobbly tum, I wouldn't have commented on the thread in the first place.
As previously said , each to their own
MySecret, thank you for seeing the sensible side of this, some sensitive types do like to create an issue when there isn't one!
Please don't pretend you know anything about me, especially enough to call me a 'sensitive type'. I will call you out if you make rude comments about people, that doesn't make me sensitive, it makes me human.
Get over yourself!!! This is a public forum, if one posys an opinion, they they accept to be bound by other peoples opinions.... If snowflakes like you feel the need to fight others corners for them then so be it... "
Ah, the old snowflake 'insult'. You still don't understand how you were rude and that's OK, maybe one day you will learn. |
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And maybe one day you will learn not to stick your oar in where its not required, and not to create an issue where there isn't one! You strike me as the sort of person who would argue over anything juat for the sake of it....
Am done wasting my time reading your comments, and I fully expect another.... Maybe surprise me by not posting?? |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"And maybe one day you will learn not to stick your oar in where its not required, and not to create an issue where there isn't one! You strike me as the sort of person who would argue over anything juat for the sake of it....
Am done wasting my time reading your comments, and I fully expect another.... Maybe surprise me by not posting?? "
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