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What single men should not do?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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we should not moan or whine or be negative about meets which is a big turn off on which I found out and to this day it still horns me when I not that type of person in real life. What thing would you and to the list that men should not do here?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mail with either over the top compliments, or, worse, opening lines of how graphically and explicit your desires are.
As well as the one word/one line/text speak messages.
God, I sound awful.....
Vamp x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keep remessaging after we have already told you sorry we arent interested"
Absolutely.
Usually with begging and whining to start, then insults when told to go away.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mail without reading profiles.
And today’s winner is.....  "
Preach sista!
To be fair this is something nobody should do, but many do anyway. Or, even worse in our opinion, message you saying "I've read your profile" and then make literally no reference to the contents, as if simply reading it was a tickbox for a reply.  
And even worse still; read it and message you despite them clearly not being what you're looking for. |
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By *rego69Man
over a year ago
Chelmsford |
A lady mailed me yesterday apologising for messing me about before deleting her account. She said the reason she wasn’t staying here was due to the pestering messages and the ones that then turned vile and nasty.
She had been away since Friday returning late BH Monday to a pile of whinging moaning emails and the newer they were the viler they got.
Seems to bear out statements above that failing to reply is a crime punishable by abuse in subsequent emails.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keep remessaging after we have already told you sorry we arent interested
Absolutely.
Usually with begging and whining to start, then insults when told to go away.
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Its when they "forget" they have already messaged as if they remessage and youve changed your mind |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
The comment made to me by a single woman, who is popular, was that most male profiles/messages and quite a few couples list what they are looking for and what their needs are without ever stating what they have to offer. Does your profile or message answer her unstated question "What's in it for me ?" or is it all about you ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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men should do as the please and want and not be turned into fab robots by not being themselves that way we can all make real decisions about wanting to meet or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Message someone saying you want to eat their tight arse and say in the same sentence I want to punch her in the face and leave her black and blue  "
Well...it takes all sorts.
Seriously, this guy needs to be removed from the site, for the safety of everyone...his especially!!
Report and block...but, I imagine that has already been done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Message someone saying you want to eat their tight arse and say in the same sentence I want to punch her in the face and leave her black and blue
Well...it takes all sorts.
Seriously, this guy needs to be removed from the site, for the safety of everyone...his especially!!
Report and block...but, I imagine that has already been done."
Yep hubby reported it straight away. Never had a message like that before. Didn't bother to engage further just block and report |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be impolite.
Have “hung” in their name when in possession of an average penis. (Which is fine FYI, just don’t kid yourself or anyone else).
Send “meet now” messages.
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By *c1989Woman
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Be impolite.
Have “hung” in their name when in possession of an average penis. (Which is fine FYI, just don’t kid yourself or anyone else).
Send “meet now” messages.
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I'm often asked what you lot are up to these days...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Simple really, we shouldn't lie. About situation, girth, stamina, likes, dislikes etc just to get a meet.
I have my likes and dislikes, same as any woman or couple here, and if I want to meet someone they have to be what I want as much as me what they want. Only way it works.
Oh, and be a decent human being. But that should go without saying! |
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"Expect messages to be opened......and if they are then expect messages to be ignored......and if they are replied to then expect a polite “no thanks”
Just me then?  "
Don’t forget that classic reply to your well thought-out message;
“Lol x”
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we should not moan or whine or be negative about meets which is a big turn off on which I found out and to this day it still horns me when I not that type of person in real life. What thing would you and to the list that men should not do here? "
haunts you Lol horn is what lead you here  |
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By *hangerMan
over a year ago
brighton |
Expect a reply to one word messages or a message with one very short sentance.
If the sender can't be bothered to write a proper message and better still, actually read my profile, then I won't waste my time replying! |
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By *agenta400Woman
over a year ago
All over the shop |
If a person been polite enough to say you’re not my cuppa tea/not my type/don’t float my boat after a face pic, then don’t interrogate the person as to why!!
We all know what’s attracts us instinctively but sometimes it’s difficult to put into words.
It’s about mutual attraction. It’s not compulsory to return the attraction if it’s not genuinely there.
Accept the rejection with grace and maturity.
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Message someone saying you want to eat their tight arse and say in the same sentence I want to punch her in the face and leave her black and blue
WTF "
Yup, had that one too, wasn't my arse though. And they wonder why they don't get to meet... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"men should do as the please and want and not be turned into fab robots by not being themselves that way we can all make real decisions about wanting to meet or not"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Singles.. young ..forget the we have lives outside of fab and cant always reply straight away ..ive fallen asleep b4 now still on line and they thought i was ignoring ..ooops! |
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"Singles.. young ..forget the we have lives outside of fab and cant always reply straight away ..ive fallen asleep b4 now still on line and they thought i was ignoring ..ooops!"
Yes... them young "whipper snappers" don't understand the need for nap time when you get old. Luckily I'm not that old yet 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is there really any point to posts like this?
Those that really need the advice don't read it,or fail to act upon it
And those that don't need it,are already way more successful than the rest of the crowd. |
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"we should not moan or whine or be negative about meets which is a big turn off on which I found out and to this day it still horns me when I not that type of person in real life. What thing would you and to the list that men should not do here? "
Post in forum without reading your text first! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Message someone saying you want to eat their tight arse and say in the same sentence I want to punch her in the face and leave her black and blue "
This happened to you guys? Omg! what happened to respect? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Message someone saying you want to eat their tight arse and say in the same sentence I want to punch her in the face and leave her black and blue "
This happened to you guys? Omg! what happened to respect? |
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Just because there MAY be someone for everyone, please don't persist to become a stalker, when you are sure that you have found yours.
Take lots of photos of yourself - then discard any with poor lighting, where someone else is the main person in the pic, they don't give a realistic representation of you, or your cock is shown in its millionth pose.
If you can get more and better sex elsewhere, please do so, you are clearly God's gift. Just don't expect applause when you post how inferior fab is.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just make sure I am polite and if it's a no then leave it at that there is not need to be vile or rude.
Manners maketh man and all that."
In total agreement in my book no means no. I like you are very respectful |
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