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Why cant I get a meet?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help.."
No photos and a blank profile plus moaning in your status...
I mean, that’s sexy right there  |
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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago
Staffordshire |
Men are plentiful here.
Very simply if you don't have a decent profile with decent pictures you become part of a number. You won't appeal to everyone anyway. So focus on you. Write more than a few words for a first message and read profiles. Then you might get somewhere. |
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By *ussyLover OP Man
over a year ago
Crosshills (near Keighley) |
Agreed but I was advised by a very experienced couple to make my profile simple.I did have some pics on there plus a face pic as my main one but nothing happened at all.. I obviously dont look good in photos |
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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago
Staffordshire |
"..and I do read profiles and I do write decent messages.."
But you didn't take any profile advice from the last post you made.
Effort in = results out
And you've made 0 effort from what I can see. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help.."
. Single guys out number single ladies and couples by at least 20 to 1 so you have to look at more angles than just messaging.The fact that you can accommodate is good the fact that you haven’t adjusted the age range you are seeking is not good.You could do with adding more information on your profile by all means have a look at my profile will hopefully give you some idea on what to write and how to format it.Are there any socials or clubs near you if so go and show that you are polite , respectful and have social skills.Best of luck.
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
"..and I do read profiles and I do write decent messages..
But you didn't take any profile advice from the last post you made.
Effort in = results out
And you've made 0 effort from what I can see. "
And, quite frankly, your user name is rather juvenile for a middle-aged man..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is in no way me commenting on your profile or giving advice on it because we know that gets people a forum time out:
A profile, particularly a man's, needs to stand out from the thousands of others on here. It should ideally be more than two lines, and tell viewers a little about you; rather than being a short list of demands. Public pictures always go down well too, nobody wants to be chatting to a mystery person or find out after chatting that they aren't in fact attracted to the other.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The user name and oddly blank profile tell us nothing about you except you think a name like that attracts, we would decline. There’s a lot of men here and many people can be and are picky about who they share their body and intimacy with. Posts like this would put us off further as you come off as entitled and a bit pushy. Maybe that’s what you do in messages.
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
No photos, try putting up a few that show various sides of your character. You need to work on your profile as at present it is just two lines. No indication of what you want and what you can offer others. Look at your profile and ask if you would really want to meet yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always find these threads interesting. As others state; you’re outnumbered on here, competition is fierce; do you stand out from the crowd? Are you the guy who can walk into a bar and attract, engage and leave with someone attractive? if so you’ll do fine. If not, we’ll it’s survival of the fittest, no difference in fab life; to the victor, the spoils. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would put a little about yourself in your profile. The reader gains no understanding or flavour of who you are, other than you want your needs met. If people get an idea of who you are, they are more likely to reply, positive or negative. A little bit of personality goes a long way in my opinion. Good luck |
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help.."
Same advice you were given 26 weeks ago.
No reason to offer any new advice, nothings changed. |
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Just one question to the guys complaining. No, two.
The guys who are complaining that they cannot "get a meet". Do you really think this is the best place to find it?
Also, are you normally successful with women outside this site? |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
"Agreed but I was advised by a very experienced couple to make my profile simple.I did have some pics on there plus a face pic as my main one but nothing happened at all.. I obviously dont look good in photos "
Simple is as simple does.
Your profile is a replant |
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help.."
Do you meet, chat up and get dates in the real world away from fab ?
If you can't or don't then don't expect fab to be any different, in fact it's a dam site harder imo |
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Some experienced couple that you met told you to keep it simple. What about the other advice you received, from dozens of experienced people here, on your last post?
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/852633#last
People want to know about you. People want to see pics of how, to have any chance of assessing whether they are - or aren't - attracted to you. The assumption is that people aren't attracted, unless someone provides materials that change that position. |
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"Agreed but I was advised by a very experienced couple to make my profile simple.I did have some pics on there plus a face pic as my main one but nothing happened at all.. I obviously dont look good in photos "
Nothing to do with your photo. The profile says nothing other than shouting and moaning about it all is a really turn off.
Do a forum search for 'profile advice' and read the best bits 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profile name is unappealing. No pics no info. Says nothing about what you want or what you can offer. To be fair this is the perfect example of what not to do. Try reading the million other threads about how to improve your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would you check my profile and be honest of what you think? I might come off here altogether for at least 6 months to lose weight and tone up and in the process of quitting smoking but does my profile need work too? |
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"Would you check my profile and be honest of what you think? ....does my profile need work too?"
It’s not good mate, it really needs a lot of work, if you’re going to stand a chance. Forgot toning up, this is what’s going to do you the most harm. |
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help.."
Your profile is crap. Your user name is a massive turn off. I would be amazed if you got a meet tbh. |
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"That's not exactly feedback though.i am asking for help."
Nobody has replied to you. My post was to the OP. If you want profile advice best start your own thread instead of hijacking somebody elses. |
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You need to add more to your profile,, as in what you can do? What you offer? Add a few more artful profile pictures, have your verifications open for people to read, re-think your profile name , all just to start, make your profile appealing . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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MR HERE
It dose not matter if you have been to socials or clubs or had a chat with pepole theres never a guarante of ever getting a meet, every one has there own attractions I don't know anyone women or couples on the scene that just goes for anyone they all have there own tastes.
If chat has just stopped out of no where I can be as simple as you said something big turn of for them.
I know you said a couple you know said keep it simple but there's simple and then nothing. |
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help.."
It's generally understood on the internet that ALL CAPS is shouting.
And all you are offering is a room, not a reason to join you in it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help.."
Simple answer.. your profile is shit!!!
It is well below average for a typical male profile.
Yet you are verified by two people. That's more than the average male!!
So your patter must be reasonable. But your profile is still shit...
Put the effort in you will get the rewards.
But you won't like all the rest and you"ll grump like you are alresdy doing likd all the rest..
Perhaps attend a social or swinging club and network because real-life tends to work better...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"..and I do read profiles and I do write decent messages..
But you didn't take any profile advice from the last post you made.
Effort in = results out
And you've made 0 effort from what I can see. "
another moaning male... nothing is more of a turn off than a whining male moaning he cant get a shag. Iv been here as single bi fem and I found it hard too. but I don't moan about it. sorry to say though smokers put a few folks off to.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A profile name like _ussylover would make me run for the hills..sorry but cant be bothered to even click on his profile to critique it after all im here for the ladies. |
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It's these stupid user names that put us off . We are pussy lovers we have 3 plus a dog and 5 goldfish. The profile is blank its lazy it won't get noticed try again from scratch and take in all the advice the good folk that have replied to you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help.."
Your profile is two lines, which says lack of effort to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help.."
no pics won't help but it's mostly down to the way you send messages and your profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s no need for love here. It’s about fulfilling fantasies. The lads that get meets are because they put effort in. Into their profiles, messages and their appearance. For guys it’s easier to blame others, than to admit their own faults to themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There’s no need for love here. It’s about fulfilling fantasies. The lads that get meets are because they put effort in. Into their profiles, messages and their appearance. For guys it’s easier to blame others, than to admit their own faults to themselves. "
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
Cheshire/Staffs |
"There’s no need for love here. It’s about fulfilling fantasies. The lads that get meets are because they put effort in. Into their profiles, messages and their appearance. For guys it’s easier to blame others, than to admit their own faults to themselves. "
How super |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
Clearly the same reasons in your post 28 weeks ago. Obvious that you didn't take the advice that people had given up their spare time to give you OP. Whose the timewaster? Plenty of advice on that thread and existing ones. If you won't help yourself then no one else can. We can't rewrite your profile for you, If it reflects who you really are, don't change a thing. There's advice on mine should you wish to use it. |
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"..and I do read profiles and I do write decent messages..
But you didn't take any profile advice from the last post you made.
Effort in = results out
And you've made 0 effort from what I can see.
And, quite frankly, your user name is rather juvenile for a middle-aged man.. "
Lol we agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help.."
Truth is there are so many fantasists n fakes here added to the supply n demand where absolute munters can be very Choosey which guys they meet makes it very difficult for us genuine guys ,,,,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s no magic way to get a meet, even amending your profile doesn’t guarantee one.
People either want to meet you, or they don’t. You have to choose whether you’re patient enough to wait it out, change your profile up a bit and put a good amount of effort in, to see if you get any results, or try somewhere else. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Truth is there are so many fantasists n fakes here added to the supply n demand where absolute munters can be very Choosey which guys they meet makes it very difficult for us genuine guys ,,,,
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It's not the fault of others. |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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I treat fab as a two way street.. we all can choose who we meet or communicate with..
I suggest to any who ask the same thoughts.
Your profile should inform the reader of your wants and desires, it should attract and entice the reader with your words and pictures. After that its up to the readrr.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people not get this!!!?
Go to a club"
Going to clubs takes time, effort, and financial outlay.
So, why bother? Lol
Easier to ask why, and get people to actually view the profile.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help.."
Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here. This site is a waste of time. It for men pretending to be couples and women who need their ego massaging. |
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" Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here. This site is a waste of time. It for men pretending to be couples and women who need their ego massaging. "
Here, I’ve Fixed that for you....
Don’t you realise nobody meets me on here? My profile is a waste of time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here. This site is a waste of time. It for men pretending to be couples and women who need their ego massaging. "
Is this sarcasm?
If it’s not, why are you here then?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here. This site is a waste of time. It for men pretending to be couples and women who need their ego massaging.
Here, I’ve Fixed that for you....
Don’t you realise nobody meets me on here? My profile is a waste of time."
I know that. Shame the other 90% don’t.
The thing is that I’ve lost interest. But you keep deluding yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Truth is there are so many fantasists n fakes here added to the supply n demand where absolute munters can be very Choosey which guys they meet makes it very difficult for us genuine guys ,,,,
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I think your nasty attitude is what does that, eh?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here. This site is a waste of time. It for men pretending to be couples and women who need their ego massaging.
Is this sarcasm?
If it’s not, why are you here then?
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What else am going to do at 3 in the morning when I’m spangled? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here. This site is a waste of time. It for men pretending to be couples and women who need their ego massaging.
Is this sarcasm?
If it’s not, why are you here then?
What else am going to do at 3 in the morning when I’m spangled?"
Watch Netflix?
Hire an escort?
Use Tinder? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here. This site is a waste of time. It for men pretending to be couples and women who need their ego massaging.
Is this sarcasm?
If it’s not, why are you here then?
What else am going to do at 3 in the morning when I’m spangled?"
So you prefer rejection from munters to nothing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here. This site is a waste of time. It for men pretending to be couples and women who need their ego massaging.
Is this sarcasm?
If it’s not, why are you here then?
What else am going to do at 3 in the morning when I’m spangled?
Watch Netflix?
Hire an escort?
Use Tinder?"
Netflix boring
Escort I’m too tight. Plus it’s not really my thing
Tinder is worse than here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here. This site is a waste of time. It for men pretending to be couples and women who need their ego massaging.
Is this sarcasm?
If it’s not, why are you here then?
What else am going to do at 3 in the morning when I’m spangled?
Watch Netflix?
Hire an escort?
Use Tinder?
Netflix boring
Escort I’m too tight. Plus it’s not really my thing
Tinder is worse than here. "
Have a wank then.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here. This site is a waste of time. It for men pretending to be couples and women who need their ego massaging.
Is this sarcasm?
If it’s not, why are you here then?
What else am going to do at 3 in the morning when I’m spangled?
Watch Netflix?
Hire an escort?
Use Tinder?
Netflix boring
Escort I’m too tight. Plus it’s not really my thing
Tinder is worse than here.
Have a wank then.
Thank you. I’ll try that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here..... But you keep deluding yourself.
So my bank holiday meet this afternoon is a delusion?"
Well done. I apologise. All the best. |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
Cheshire/Staffs |
" Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here..... But you keep deluding yourself.
So my bank holiday meet this afternoon is a delusion?
Well done. I apologise. All the best. "
I’m striking a medal for him as we type |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here..... But you keep deluding yourself.
So my bank holiday meet this afternoon is a delusion?
Well done. I apologise. All the best.
I’m striking a medal for him as we type "
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here. This site is a waste of time. It for men pretending to be couples and women who need their ego massaging.
Is this sarcasm?
If it’s not, why are you here then?
What else am going to do at 3 in the morning when I’m spangled?
Watch Netflix?
Hire an escort?
Use Tinder?
Netflix boring
Escort I’m too tight. Plus it’s not really my thing
Tinder is worse than here. "
And the common denominator is?... |
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here. This site is a waste of time. It for men pretending to be couples and women who need their ego massaging. "
Of course not. People meet off here. Much nicer.  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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I meet. Lots. With good friends through whom I've made other friends through socials etc. Perhaps all the bitter people on here being sarcastic and nasty to others on the forums about not getting meets should try this. It really does work when you take the massive chip(s) of your shoulder. Make an effort and good things happen. Be negative and they wont. Regarding this, there's plenty of advice on my profile for newbies and for meeting. Feel free to use it. |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
Cheshire/Staffs |
"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here. This site is a waste of time. It for men pretending to be couples and women who need their ego massaging.
Is this sarcasm?
If it’s not, why are you here then?
What else am going to do at 3 in the morning when I’m spangled?
Watch Netflix?
Hire an escort?
Use Tinder?
Netflix boring
Escort I’m too tight. Plus it’s not really my thing
Tinder is worse than here.
And the common denominator is?... "
Ooo I see what you did there |
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Truth is there are so many fantasists n fakes here added to the supply n demand where absolute munters can be very Choosey which guys they meet makes it very difficult for us genuine guys ,,,,
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How very genuine to be offensive to every woman who does not pass your strict beauty test. |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
Cheshire/Staffs |
"I meet. Lots. With good friends through whom I've made other friends through socials etc. Perhaps all the bitter people on here being sarcastic and nasty to others on the forums about not getting meets should try this. It really does work when you take the massive chip(s) of your shoulder. Make an effort and good things happen. Be negative and they wont. Regarding this, there's plenty of advice on my profile for newbies and for meeting. Feel free to use it. "
I can’t read it as I’m a nasty negative bitter person - oh well, I’m sure I can guess the contents |
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here. This site is a waste of time. It for men pretending to be couples and women who need their ego massaging.
Is this sarcasm?
If it’s not, why are you here then?
What else am going to do at 3 in the morning when I’m spangled?
Watch Netflix?
Hire an escort?
Use Tinder?
Netflix boring
Escort I’m too tight. Plus it’s not really my thing
Tinder is worse than here.
And the common denominator is?...
Ooo I see what you did there "
Oh yes. That thing. |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
Cheshire/Staffs |
"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here. This site is a waste of time. It for men pretending to be couples and women who need their ego massaging.
Is this sarcasm?
If it’s not, why are you here then?
What else am going to do at 3 in the morning when I’m spangled?
Watch Netflix?
Hire an escort?
Use Tinder?
Netflix boring
Escort I’m too tight. Plus it’s not really my thing
Tinder is worse than here.
And the common denominator is?...
Ooo I see what you did there
Oh yes. That thing."
Yes it was very good |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I meet. Lots. With good friends through whom I've made other friends through socials etc. Perhaps all the bitter people on here being sarcastic and nasty to others on the forums about not getting meets should try this. It really does work when you take the massive chip(s) of your shoulder. Make an effort and good things happen. Be negative and they wont. Regarding this, there's plenty of advice on my profile for newbies and for meeting. Feel free to use it.
I can’t read it as I’m a nasty negative bitter person - oh well, I’m sure I can guess the contents "
Never mind then. You'll just have to use common sense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here. This site is a waste of time. It for men pretending to be couples and women who need their ego massaging.
Is this sarcasm?
If it’s not, why are you here then?
What else am going to do at 3 in the morning when I’m spangled?
Watch Netflix?
Hire an escort?
Use Tinder?
Netflix boring
Escort I’m too tight. Plus it’s not really my thing
Tinder is worse than here.
And the common denominator is?... "
People like you?
No sorry, that’s not very nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here. This site is a waste of time. It for men pretending to be couples and women who need their ego massaging.
Is this sarcasm?
If it’s not, why are you here then?
What else am going to do at 3 in the morning when I’m spangled?
Watch Netflix?
Hire an escort?
Use Tinder?
Netflix boring
Escort I’m too tight. Plus it’s not really my thing
Tinder is worse than here.
And the common denominator is?... "
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
Cheshire/Staffs |
"I meet. Lots. With good friends through whom I've made other friends through socials etc. Perhaps all the bitter people on here being sarcastic and nasty to others on the forums about not getting meets should try this. It really does work when you take the massive chip(s) of your shoulder. Make an effort and good things happen. Be negative and they wont. Regarding this, there's plenty of advice on my profile for newbies and for meeting. Feel free to use it.
I can’t read it as I’m a nasty negative bitter person - oh well, I’m sure I can guess the contents
Never mind then. You'll just have to use common sense. "
That’s what I normally do and I get by just fine |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
" Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here..... But you keep deluding yourself.
So my bank holiday meet this afternoon is a delusion?"
. Meets do happen on Fabs but as single guys we have to put the work in on our profiles and pictures and my personal circumstance it’s best via clubs , socials not impossible to get a meet by just messaging but from my personal experience harder especially as I can’t accommodate.Mr Jake enjoy your meet |
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here. This site is a waste of time. It for men pretending to be couples and women who need their ego massaging.
Is this sarcasm?
If it’s not, why are you here then?
What else am going to do at 3 in the morning when I’m spangled?
Watch Netflix?
Hire an escort?
Use Tinder?
Netflix boring
Escort I’m too tight. Plus it’s not really my thing
Tinder is worse than here.
And the common denominator is?...
People like you?
No sorry, that’s not very nice "
Yes, people like me are running Netflix and Tinder and not meeting people like you. Terrible.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here. This site is a waste of time. It for men pretending to be couples and women who need their ego massaging.
Is this sarcasm?
If it’s not, why are you here then?
What else am going to do at 3 in the morning when I’m spangled?
Watch Netflix?
Hire an escort?
Use Tinder?
Netflix boring
Escort I’m too tight. Plus it’s not really my thing
Tinder is worse than here.
And the common denominator is?...
People like you?
No sorry, that’s not very nice
Yes, people like me are running Netflix and Tinder and not meeting people like you. Terrible. "
Come on now. If you’re running tinder and Netflix I will have to supine myself to your overwhelming and complete wisdom and vast experience of all matters.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here..... But you keep deluding yourself.
So my bank holiday meet this afternoon is a delusion?. Meets do happen on Fabs but as single guys we have to put the work in on our profiles and pictures and my personal circumstance it’s best via clubs , socials not impossible to get a meet by just messaging but from my personal experience harder especially as I can’t accommodate.Mr Jake enjoy your meet"
This is too sensible. Maybe I was being a bit harsh. But there is no need for verisimilitude on fab
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
Cheshire/Staffs |
" Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here..... But you keep deluding yourself.
So my bank holiday meet this afternoon is a delusion?. Meets do happen on Fabs but as single guys we have to put the work in on our profiles and pictures and my personal circumstance it’s best via clubs , socials not impossible to get a meet by just messaging but from my personal experience harder especially as I can’t accommodate.Mr Jake enjoy your meet
This is too sensible. Maybe I was being a bit harsh. But there is no need for verisimilitude on fab
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What a great word |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Don’t you realise nobody meets anyone on here..... But you keep deluding yourself.
So my bank holiday meet this afternoon is a delusion?. Meets do happen on Fabs but as single guys we have to put the work in on our profiles and pictures and my personal circumstance it’s best via clubs , socials not impossible to get a meet by just messaging but from my personal experience harder especially as I can’t accommodate.Mr Jake enjoy your meet
This is too sensible. Maybe I was being a bit harsh. But there is no need for verisimilitude on fab
What a great word "
Nobody likes a smart arse. |
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help.."
I find a lot of guys complain of time wasters and fakes when they just don't "get fab" and don't realise that not chatting back after a couple of limpid exchanges
on a one pic badly written profile is our way of saying no. And ignoring messages is a polite no.
We don't owe you chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help.."
Have a look at bottom of my bio. There's some great advice for single guys on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
I find a lot of guys complain of time wasters and fakes when they just don't "get fab" and don't realise that not chatting back after a couple of limpid exchanges
on a one pic badly written profile is our way of saying no. And ignoring messages is a polite no.
We don't owe you chat. "
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"This is in no way me commenting on your profile or giving advice on it because we know that gets people a forum time out:
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It doesn't if the person has asked for profile help or it is relevant to the OP
Here are the rules if anyone wants to read them
https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Truth is there are so many fantasists n fakes here added to the supply n demand where absolute munters can be very Choosey which guys they meet makes it very difficult for us genuine guys ,,,,
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This absolute munter is having loads of fun fucking very hot men! But guess who is smiling? And getting laid? And not bitching on the forums about not getting laid? Yep, it's those munters. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"OK can the people who can't be civil ignore these type of threads please
We were all new once and sometimes need advice
He isn't new and he isn't taking advice. "
He doesn't have to take the advice, he might not agree with it
Either way, people should leave the threads for the people who want to give polite advice |
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"OK can the people who can't be civil ignore these type of threads please
We were all new once and sometimes need advice
He isn't new and he isn't taking advice.
He doesn't have to take the advice, he might not agree with it
Either way, people should leave the threads for the people who want to give polite advice"
He received loads of advice 6 months ago when he asked the same question and ignored it all |
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Simple answer.. your profile is shit!!!
It is well below average for a typical male profile.
Yet you are verified by two people. That's more than the average male!!
So your patter must be reasonable. But your profile is still shit...
Put the effort in you will get the rewards.
But you won't like all the rest and you"ll grump like you are alresdy doing likd all the rest..
Perhaps attend a social or swinging club and network because real-life tends to work better...
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help.."
Oh, these fakes, eh? People who ignore or don’t want to meet....”fakes”. How I’d love to be able to tell how one is a fake. Can you let us all in on the secret? How do you spot a fake? |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Oh, these fakes, eh? People who ignore or don’t want to meet....”fakes”. How I’d love to be able to tell how one is a fake. Can you let us all in on the secret? How do you spot a fake?"
Steve...you're a fake, because you won't shag me  |
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Oh, these fakes, eh? People who ignore or don’t want to meet....”fakes”. How I’d love to be able to tell how one is a fake. Can you let us all in on the secret? How do you spot a fake?
Steve...you're a fake, because you won't shag me "
I’m playing hard to get. Anyway, I do but it’s just circumstances and opportunity and nothing to do with the total failure of my penile enlargement operation for which I was assured the pills would work wonders. |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Oh, these fakes, eh? People who ignore or don’t want to meet....”fakes”. How I’d love to be able to tell how one is a fake. Can you let us all in on the secret? How do you spot a fake?
Steve...you're a fake, because you won't shag me I’m playing hard to get. Anyway, I do but it’s just circumstances and opportunity and nothing to do with the total failure of my penile enlargement operation for which I was assured the pills would work wonders. "
You never told me you had a micro-penis.
Less hard to get, and more hard to find. |
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Oh, these fakes, eh? People who ignore or don’t want to meet....”fakes”. How I’d love to be able to tell how one is a fake. Can you let us all in on the secret? How do you spot a fake?
Steve...you're a fake, because you won't shag me I’m playing hard to get. Anyway, I do but it’s just circumstances and opportunity and nothing to do with the total failure of my penile enlargement operation for which I was assured the pills would work wonders.
You never told me you had a micro-penis.
Less hard to get, and more hard to find."
Oh, it was super-duper big anyway, but all men know that the bigger the cock, the more ladies are likely to fall over it or something. Be assured ‘love missile weapon 8 thruster’ is fully loaded....  |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help..
Oh, these fakes, eh? People who ignore or don’t want to meet....”fakes”. How I’d love to be able to tell how one is a fake. Can you let us all in on the secret? How do you spot a fake?
Steve...you're a fake, because you won't shag me I’m playing hard to get. Anyway, I do but it’s just circumstances and opportunity and nothing to do with the total failure of my penile enlargement operation for which I was assured the pills would work wonders.
You never told me you had a micro-penis.
Less hard to get, and more hard to find.
Oh, it was super-duper big anyway, but all men know that the bigger the cock, the more ladies are likely to fall over it or something. Be assured ‘love missile weapon 8 thruster’ is fully loaded.... "
More meat for your meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, you've had a couple if meets ...
Try sprucing up your profile a bit ... it's very thin and quite secretive ... Tell people who you are and add a few public pics. |
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"Can anyone tell me how the hell to get a meet?..im just finding fakes and timewasters,if I do get a reply from genuine people chats end very abruptly..please help.."
Why are people who don't want to fuck you fakes and time wasters ?
If the conversation ends abruptly I'd say you need to work on your charm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would personally change your name to something more fun and creative. Before I met my lovely Mr I was on here as a female and any usernames like that put me right off. Swinging isn't just about meeting for secure about building good relationships with people and your username doesn't portray that.
Also, pictures and a little about yourself. And be positive! We all like confidence |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why cant I get 'a meet'.
A meet is a person. A person with whom you have to have some mutual attraction too. You have to have something to be mutually attracted too. And respect.
All the usual laws of attraction apply to this mythical meet, it cannot just be conjured up because you have a profile. I've used the word attraction a lot. It is important.
Why can't I get a meet is really why cant I get people to fancy me. So tell us what do we have to fancy about you? show us pictures, use words. Just being here isnt enough Im afraid to have people throw themselves at you.
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"Why do people not get this!!!?
Go to a club
Maybe they don't want to "
Maybe they heard how single men can be treated at clubs.
I get why people suggest a club.
I also get why they're not the answer for everyone. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Why cant I get 'a meet'.
A meet is a person. A person with whom you have to have some mutual attraction too. You have to have something to be mutually attracted too. And respect.
All the usual laws of attraction apply to this mythical meet, it cannot just be conjured up because you have a profile. I've used the word attraction a lot. It is important.
Why can't I get a meet is really why cant I get people to fancy me. So tell us what do we have to fancy about you? show us pictures, use words. Just being here isnt enough Im afraid to have people throw themselves at you.
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Yup agreed, I thinkost of us don't like being seen as 'meat' |
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