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Recently a girl and I were talking about a list of fetishes we found online and one of them was 'wearing jewellery (symbolic)'
I found it hard to imagine how this could be a fetish but she said she would wear something that implied ownership of her by me .. something like a collar that she would wear inside (but not in public).
so, I was wondering if anyone has any advice/suggestions about jewellery I could get for her that implied she was owned by me.
either for indoors/private times or something more subtle for wearing out in public. |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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At the end of the day the significance is in the presentation by you of the jewellery as a sign of ownership.
However if you want something that has a symbolic design there are craft sites that have ownership jewellery and can alsp make custom designs. The most famous one has a ton of stuff without getting too expensive. Ets.y
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"Recently a girl and I were talking about a list of fetishes we found online and one of them was 'wearing jewellery (symbolic)'
I found it hard to imagine how this could be a fetish but she said she would wear something that implied ownership of her by me .. something like a collar that she would wear inside (but not in public).
so, I was wondering if anyone has any advice/suggestions about jewellery I could get for her that implied she was owned by me.
either for indoors/private times or something more subtle for wearing out in public."
Can purchase pieces from etsy and such. Have a look online is your easiest bet.
Theres a lot of jewellers who make custom sub/slave jewellery. Even make sets master and sub etc
Collars, necklaces, bracelets, rings, anklets and even belly chains. Some even do keyrings. So plenty of choice and discrete and most won't even know what they mean unless they have BDSM symbols even then vanilla people won't notice it's just a symbol to them. |
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"At the end of the day the significance is in the presentation by you of the jewellery as a sign of ownership.
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Yeah, I thought that too. thinking "I could just get her any item of jewellery and say to her "when you wear this you are mine and mine alone."'
But I was wondering if there was something more specific I could aim for. |
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Collars, necklaces, bracelets, rings, anklets and even belly chains. Some even do keyrings. So plenty of choice and discrete and most won't even know what they mean unless they have BDSM symbols even then vanilla people won't notice it's just a symbol to them."
my initial thought was a bracelet with some chunky weight to it, maybe with something on it subtly saying "owned", but ever since she said a collar I cant get away from thinking that.
Anklet sounds good too. and the key ring is a good idea too (but I want it to be something she anly wears/uses when shes with me. she is her own person, and not owned by me, at other times. a keyring runs the risk of being 'once in use, constantly in use.'
some good suggestions though. thanks.
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Collars, necklaces, bracelets, rings, anklets and even belly chains. Some even do keyrings. So plenty of choice and discrete and most won't even know what they mean unless they have BDSM symbols even then vanilla people won't notice it's just a symbol to them.
my initial thought was a bracelet with some chunky weight to it, maybe with something on it subtly saying "owned", but ever since she said a collar I cant get away from thinking that.
Anklet sounds good too. and the key ring is a good idea too (but I want it to be something she anly wears/uses when shes with me. she is her own person, and not owned by me, at other times. a keyring runs the risk of being 'once in use, constantly in use.'
some good suggestions though. thanks.
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Collars doesn't have to be literally a collar. It's subjective some really nice ones out there
A thick chain with nice pendant or even decorative padlock can be a collar. Same with bracelets.
If you have a special name for her when she is being " owned" could get her a name necklace as a collar.
Think creatively and have fun choosing it together or you picking it for her I'm sure she will enjoy a surprise too. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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Google day collars you should find some very subtle pieces there that would be what you are looking for. There are also bracelets that can be locked on and you keep the Alan style key. Nobody else would know anything. |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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Collars, necklaces, bracelets, rings, anklets and even belly chains. Some even do keyrings. So plenty of choice and discrete and most won't even know what they mean unless they have BDSM symbols even then vanilla people won't notice it's just a symbol to them.
my initial thought was a bracelet with some chunky weight to it, maybe with something on it subtly saying "owned", but ever since she said a collar I cant get away from thinking that.
Anklet sounds good too. and the key ring is a good idea too (but I want it to be something she anly wears/uses when shes with me. she is her own person, and not owned by me, at other times. a keyring runs the risk of being 'once in use, constantly in use.'
some good suggestions though. thanks.
Collars doesn't have to be literally a collar. It's subjective some really nice ones out there
A thick chain with nice pendant or even decorative padlock can be a collar. Same with bracelets.
If you have a special name for her when she is being " owned" could get her a name necklace as a collar.
Think creatively and have fun choosing it together or you picking it for her I'm sure she will enjoy a surprise too."
When I had a sub I bought two sets of items which we arrived at by agreement. A thick leather collar with metal heart and pearl in the centre for events and play.
As the contributor above said, the jewellery does not have to be obvious I had made a chunky silver neck chain with a black stone heart with sprinkles with matching bracelet for day wear. We knew the significance of the chain and bracelet.
As others have said there is lot of D/S jewellery online.
I would also suggest running your suggestions by her, as she has to feel happy wearing it.
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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago
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When I was collared my Dom bought me a torque that was screwed together.
Only an issue once in four years and that was a water slide at a leisure centre, no one else ever mentioned it apart from compliments and the occasional knowing smile. |
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"Google day collars you should find some very subtle pieces there that would be what you are looking for. There are also bracelets that can be locked on and you keep the Alan style key. Nobody else would know anything."
I'm looking for one of these for a man but all the ones I've found online are expensive by the time you've added postage (Etsy). I love the idea of it being just a simple man bracelet but I've got the key to unlock it! Are there any more local providers or websites to search for? |
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"Recently a girl and I were talking about a list of fetishes we found online and one of them was 'wearing jewellery (symbolic)'
I found it hard to imagine how this could be a fetish but she said she would wear something that implied ownership of her by me .. something like a collar that she would wear inside (but not in public).
so, I was wondering if anyone has any advice/suggestions about jewellery I could get for her that implied she was owned by me.
either for indoors/private times or something more subtle for wearing out in public."
a gold bracelet "enscribed only one owner from new"  |
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"Recently a girl and I were talking about a list of fetishes we found online and one of them was 'wearing jewellery (symbolic)'
I found it hard to imagine how this could be a fetish but she said she would wear something that implied ownership of her by me .. something like a collar that she would wear inside (but not in public).
so, I was wondering if anyone has any advice/suggestions about jewellery I could get for her that implied she was owned by me.
either for indoors/private times or something more subtle for wearing out in public."
I have a beautiful padlock bracelet that showed i was owned i loved it and so did he esp in photos of me playing with other men |
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It also depends on her general aesthetic and style, you can get ch*kers with a padlock on them there more alternitve style.
i got Mrs a bracelets got a heart but it locks on her wrist can't be took off without the key, that's on my neckless but it can just pass as a nice peace of jewellery. |
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The actual item depends on the person that collars some go for hand made totally one offs some just from a online store, some gorgeous ones that are quite costly are out there, I’ve seen a lovely bracelet made for a male slave was made up of a mix of a flogger strap jute rope and chain everything was untwined and he wore that 24/7
All that really matters is the dedication both feel to be the owner and to be owned |
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This is sometime me and My Girl looked into. She had her collars from me, including a really nice narrow one for going out in. But not ideal for all every day situations. So I made her a chain link bracelet with back ribbon intertwined that locked together via padlock. Which to us was special because I had made it myself just for her and chain is a bit of a thing of ours. I could also subtly attach a lead to it while we where out in public, see my picture 18 Mar 18. However My Girl has a new piece special peice of jewlery now that both show that she is completely mine and my commitment to her for life, an engagement ring.
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There is lots of things you can buy and wear. Collars with owned or hot wife on. Some with property of. Many chains and bracelets/anklets. Can google them for ideas and get your own made. Some you just add your own letters to.  |
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"There is lots of things you can buy and wear. Collars with owned or hot wife on. Some with property of. Many chains and bracelets/anklets. Can google them for ideas and get your own made. Some you just add your own letters to. "
There is also some lovely more discreet jewellery out there ment for permanent wear. Stuff that's lovely and subtle that will have meaning and significance for both of you and possibly recognisable to only a few others in the know/on the scene. I'd just say if it's for permanent wear/to be locked on quality is everything. You need some thing that won't tarnish easily or degrade. |
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"There is lots of things you can buy and wear. Collars with owned or hot wife on. Some with property of. Many chains and bracelets/anklets. Can google them for ideas and get your own made. Some you just add your own letters to.
There is also some lovely more discreet jewellery out there ment for permanent wear. Stuff that's lovely and subtle that will have meaning and significance for both of you and possibly recognisable to only a few others in the know/on the scene. I'd just say if it's for permanent wear/to be locked on quality is everything. You need some thing that won't tarnish easily or degrade."
Yes I like the more discreet anklets. These things aren’t my thing. I was just mearly pointing out there is a big market in that kind of jewellery |
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"This is sometime me and My Girl looked into. She had her collars from me, including a really nice narrow one for going out in. But not ideal for all every day situations. So I made her a chain link bracelet with back ribbon intertwined that locked together via padlock. Which to us was special because I had made it myself just for her and chain is a bit of a thing of ours. I could also subtly attach a lead to it while we where out in public, see my picture 18 Mar 18. However My Girl has a new piece special peice of jewlery now that both show that she is completely mine and my commitment to her for life, an engagement ring.
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