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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi, just wondering about guys experiences with bi curiosity.
I’ve been curious for a long time and enjoy chatting pic/vid swaps and watching gay/bi/ts porn, which leaves me wanting to try the real thing but the few of times I’ve had meets I really struggled to get hard and couldn’t perform even though I wanted to. So now I’m very reluctant to even contemplate meets.
What are your experiences?
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By *hangerMan
over a year ago
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If you have given anal with women, then frankly there is no difference in the sensation between fucking a male or a female anally, so you could give it a try and not worry about getting hard.
If you worry, you probably will struggle!
Alternatively, why not really go for it and try receiving. Start with a guy with a fairly small cock and of course, plenty of lube as always for anal! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi, just wondering about guys experiences with bi curiosity.
I’ve been curious for a long time and enjoy chatting pic/vid swaps and watching gay/bi/ts porn, which leaves me wanting to try the real thing but the few of times I’ve had meets I really struggled to get hard and couldn’t perform even though I wanted to. So now I’m very reluctant to even contemplate meets.
What are your experiences?
DM me if you’d rather not talk in public
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Sounds like it’s the over thinking? If your nervous about it or really want to try it and never have, maybe it’s just about meeting the right guy, chilling and chatting for a while then playing? |
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By *hangerMan
over a year ago
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I should also have said, try some gay sites like the brother site Fabguys. You are likely to get much better response to a good profile there than on a swinger's site.
As has been said above, you are probably over thinking things, so try and go with the flow more.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When I first started trying sucking cock I didn't have any problem getting aroused by it. Probably helped that the first few times it was during a Bi mmf session"
Yeah I can see how that would work, if you’re already hard with the woman then switch attention to the guy |
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With me I have to be dressed for my bi side to come out, it’s a mindset. So when I dress my feminine side is enhanced and engaged which makes it easier and enjoyable to be with a guy.
That’s when my preferences come out for the sort of guys I fancy, muscular dominant types that make me feel more feminine in their company. However I do find younger feminine guys a turn on as well, which brings out a more dominant side to myself.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can relate to that. I found the prospect of being with a guy a turn-on, but the reality made me uncomfortable. Maybe best to start slow, just say what you are willing to do, then when you get comfortable with it try new things. You have to find what works for you. |
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By *corcherMan
over a year ago
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What others have said. Porn leads to unrealistic expectations. When you get there & actually get started, it's not like you've seen & maybe your brain starts over thinking.
Maybe you've not met people who've truly excited you enough? I don't find men as beautiful as women to look at, but I've had some great times with both |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for everyone’s input, it’s been very interesting and particularly the guys who DM’d me. It’s been good to chat to people who don’t just offer a bj or shag straight off the bat |
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I found was much more bottom/sub than I thought. Do enjoy Bi fun with the other guy taking charge. Enjoy mutual sucking but go soft when being fucked but like it that way. Haven’t done it loads and need to be on the mood. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm bi, but have no interest in fucking a guy, it might sound strange but I don't find guys attractive,and I don't kiss guys but I enjoy sucking a nice cock, I've had some nice meets over the yrs with guys. |
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Try a MMF with bi hubby ,as suggested thats what hubby and i are ,and we have had straight guys who are happy to suck etc ,but we dont do anal so that seems to help as most wont go that far ,no pressure on anyone and the best of both worlds for all concerned .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Try a MMF with bi hubby ,as suggested thats what hubby and i are ,and we have had straight guys who are happy to suck etc ,but we dont do anal so that seems to help as most wont go that far ,no pressure on anyone and the best of both worlds for all concerned .."
Sounds like a great experience... |
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I used to be straight but got chatting to a couple in a pub and they invited me back. Long story short is I decided NOT to push her off my face when I felt his mouth sucking my cock. The sensation was too intense to stop. I then joined fab to see if I was bi. After a few more mmf sessions I decided I was. |
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"I used to be straight but got chatting to a couple in a pub and they invited me back. Long story short is I decided NOT to push her off my face when I felt his mouth sucking my cock. The sensation was too intense to stop. I then joined fab to see if I was bi. After a few more mmf sessions I decided I was. "
Nice..... that sounds amazing.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am bi but find 98% of males unattractive or intimidating. I can happily play with a guy without getting hard but with the right person I am rock solid and I absolutely go for it. I love sucking cock but precum still makes me gag and cum is a big turn off. I'd say I'm more attracted to gay than bi guys and have had a better experience with a gay guy.
Hope that helps, it took me a while to understand there are so many different levels of bi sexuality |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am bi but find 98% of males unattractive or intimidating. I can happily play with a guy without getting hard but with the right person I am rock solid and I absolutely go for it. I love sucking cock but precum still makes me gag and cum is a big turn off. I'd say I'm more attracted to gay than bi guys and have had a better experience with a gay guy.
Yeah I know what you mean, I can’t stand my own cum never mind anyone else’s
Hope that helps, it took me a while to understand there are so many different levels of bi sexuality "
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agree with others, try a mmf.
also don't find guys attractive but do enjoy the feel of a nice hard cock in my mouth and if you get the chance to 69 a couple as they fuck go for it - best of both worlds |
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"I’ve been curious for a long time and enjoy chatting pic/vid swaps and watching gay/bi/ts porn, which leaves me wanting to try the real thing but the few of times I’ve had meets I really struggled to get hard and couldn’t perform even though I wanted to. So now I’m very reluctant to even contemplate meets.
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Why not try for a threesome with a cpl that have a bi/bi curious male, and try oral first.
Maybe baby steps are what you need? |
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