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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all so I was wondering how did u all feel watching your partners fuck other women I'm really unsure how I'd feel he's fine with me playing with other guys and I feel selfish saying I don't want him to play what rules did u put in to place |
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You need to remember sex is not love. He let's you fuck other guys and you don't love them and he is aware of that. Same if he fucks another woman he isn't doing it as he loves them he is doing it for sex only. Sex is anamalistic and is something we need to do. Person we spend our lives with is our choice. That's how I see it anyway. I love watching Jon slide his cock in another woman's pussy it's very horny
You could try couple next to each other on bed and watch each other I think you would enjoy it
Jayne x |
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We enjoy sharing each other....that's all part of the fun for us....it's sex....erotica....porn....experimentation...all rolled into one but what we have together is special and nothing is going to take that away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It does nothing for me. If anything, I find it a bit cringe. Now we meet separately so he still gets to have his fun and I get to go and have mine. Our marriage is very happy and we know that we love each other and our relationship and family is our priority. It might be a strange set up for some but I thought I'd give an opposing view to the majority of "I love watching him fuck someone else". |
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"It does nothing for me. If anything, I find it a bit cringe. Now we meet separately so he still gets to have his fun and I get to go and have mine. Our marriage is very happy and we know that we love each other and our relationship and family is our priority. It might be a strange set up for some but I thought I'd give an opposing view to the majority of "I love watching him fuck someone else". "
Sounds fair to me. Always two sides to every opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all so I was wondering how did u all feel watching your partners fuck other women I'm really unsure how I'd feel he's fine with me playing with other guys and I feel selfish saying I don't want him to play what rules did u put in to place "
I can’t speak for all, but I’m having fun with men’s wives, obviously all parties are aware of the facts.... most guys are happy to see their misses getting proper fucked
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You need to remember sex is not love. He let's you fuck other guys and you don't love them and he is aware of that. Same if he fucks another woman he isn't doing it as he loves them he is doing it for sex only. Sex is anamalistic and is something we need to do. Person we spend our lives with is our choice. That's how I see it anyway. I love watching Jon slide his cock in another woman's pussy it's very horny
You could try couple next to each other on bed and watch each other I think you would enjoy it
Jayne x"
Completely agree I love the idea of my man screwing someone else and vice versa |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always loved seeing my ex play, it was some of the most erotic sights I have ever seen! We always loved the talk after as well, discussing what we liked, did not like....the intense feeling of looking at each other while we played.
Can only hope to rekindle that with my next partner! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It does nothing for me. If anything, I find it a bit cringe. Now we meet separately so he still gets to have his fun and I get to go and have mine. Our marriage is very happy and we know that we love each other and our relationship and family is our priority. It might be a strange set up for some but I thought I'd give an opposing view to the majority of "I love watching him fuck someone else". "
This is very honest. We tried it and it also did nothing for me, plus it was almost impossible to find a couple we were both attracted to. Luckily my OH finds watching me with other guys a huge turn on so we just do that now. Maybe give it a try OP and if you don't like it don't do it again? |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
We love it!! I love watching. Usually I'm playing too but not always.
I'm bi (female) and I was once sat on her face whilst he fucked her that was hot!
Neither of us get jealous it's always about the fun |
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You will never know for sure until you give it a go.
For some it's great
for others it will be meh
Some will hate it.
But once you know its then down to you as a couple about how you negotiate your swinging lifestyle.
Some couples are happy with the female only swinging approach. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I absolutely love it. Watched hubby fuck another women recently and he made her squirt for the first time. She not her hubby knew what was going on... but I did as he does it to me all the time.
Absolutely loved it and a massive turn on watching him xx  |
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We've never done that - mainly because I can't stand the thought of it. He's given women oral at clubs when we've played in a couple of group scenarios but generally we play with bi guys which he's happy with.
I actually like seeing 2 men play so it suits me too.
I think the reason for me not wanting to see him fuck another woman is purely down to my own insecurities regarding my body. Might not sound logical but there it is.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mark and I are quite new to each other (we met on here as singles) so it was a bit nerve racking initially but there's nothing better than looking over, seeing him with someone, making them groan and moan whilst i'm being pleasured too.
I admit i do get a little twinge of jealous but it's a different kind if that makes sense and we love telling each other about it during reclaim sex, it makes it hotter.  |
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
Kingston upon Thames |
"You need to remember sex is not love. He let's you fuck other guys and you don't love them and he is aware of that. Same if he fucks another woman he isn't doing it as he loves them he is doing it for sex only. Sex is anamalistic and is something we need to do. Person we spend our lives with is our choice. That's how I see it anyway. I love watching Jon slide his cock in another woman's pussy it's very horny
You could try couple next to each other on bed and watch each other I think you would enjoy it
Jayne x"
perfect answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't do it if you don't want to, Carry on cuckolding him. He loves that too anyway, of that I am sure. If he is pressuring you so that he can fuck other women, tell him enigmatically that you'll think about it but in meantime you fancy that slim handsome hunk off fab round again..... Mhoaw mhoaw. so carry on as you are if you don't feel comfortable about seeing him with other women.
Sexuality changes as we go through life. In a few years time you might think differently. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us the turn on is about seeing the person you love enjoying the moment! Whatever happens we see ourselves as a collective and communication before after and sometimes even during makes all of those worries easier. Just like anyone we have both had wobbles,we just make sure they are addressed.we only enjoy it when the partner feels comfortable.we always take our time and make sure we are both happy and if not then we stop.x |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"I love watching him fuck women.
I am definitely the ‘cuck’ in this relationship "
This is so me too. My partner gets nothing from watching me play with other guys, however my god the thought of some of the times i've watched him fuck other women still makes me wet.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is fem replying. We had no luck for ages finding a couple so we had a few 3somes with men. I know it's two faced but when we had a first meet with a couple I was a bit worried I would get a pang of jealousy but I totally didn't. I think it was actually better, I wasn't worried about crossing boundaries and checking hubby was OK like I do when we meet men, (I try to avoid kissing even though hubby hasn't enforced a rule about it, I just feel uncomfortable doing it) we were all having fun so we felt like equals for a change and I was happy for him that he was getting some attention for a change. It also turned me on as it was like seeing what he does to me from a different angle x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I adore watching the husband with other women. In fact, my desire to see it is what started all this for us.
I'm happy to just take a seat and watch and not get involved at all. But if I'm honest, I always end up in amongst it eventually!
We've never set any rules because there's no need for us.
Mrs.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love watching him with other women, turns me on. I’m not that bothered about playing with another man anyway, so at the mo we tend to play with women.
I admit that sometimes I get worried that she may be hotter etc than me, but that’s my insecurities, and when I sit back and watch them it tends to go away anyway x I love it, you may not, go with what you’re comfortable with, or it won’t be so enjoyable for any involved x Viv x |
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