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I could use some advice please folks ,I have been invited to a swing party,,I'm a single guy ,and not had sex in 3 years ,,I am extremely nervous, about not getting it up , ,and been stuck in me head,and ,should I mention it even in joking ,and about how long it's been. ,And any general advice for a nervous first timer. Thanks |
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Just because you have been invited there is no pressure to play. Just relax and see what happens on the night.
To be honest i am surprised you got an invite as you are not verified but they obviously like the look of you so go and enjoy.x |
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"Just because you have been invited there is no pressure to play. Just relax and see what happens on the night.
To be honest i am surprised you got an invite as you are not verified but they obviously like the look of you so go and enjoy.x"
Well said |
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"I could use some advice please folks ,I have been invited to a swing party,,I'm a single guy ,and not had sex in 3 years ,,I am extremely nervous, about not getting it up , ,and been stuck in me head,and ,should I mention it even in joking ,and about how long it's been. ,And any general advice for a nervous first timer. Thanks"
Don't go expecting/hoping to play.
Go with the intention of meeting people, chatting and networking.
No self imposed pressure or nerves.
If you get invited to join someone take your time, build the passion and intensity.
And even if you can't stand up, you still have hands, fingers, lips and a tongue.
There's more than one way to skin a rabbit.
Best advice, do not drink for courage.
Have fun!!!!  |
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Find out from the hosts what kind of party it is. We've been to one where play was expected, there was no social area at all.
If it's a no pressure party, go along with the idea of socialising and no expectations of anything else.
If you go I hope you have a good time |
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"I could use some advice please folks ,I have been invited to a swing party,,I'm a single guy ,and not had sex in 3 years ,,I am extremely nervous, about not getting it up , ,and been stuck in me head,and ,should I mention it even in joking ,and about how long it's been. ,And any general advice for a nervous first timer. Thanks"
You can go and see what happens you don't have to play and often the social side can be just as good. You are not on your won with this fear many men have the same fears after talking to them. |
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The minute you worry about not getting it up is when you don't get it up.
Take everyone's advice go for the social with no pressure and if it was me I'd pop to boots and grab some viagra (in my experience it works wonders in this situations) you don't need a prescription now just a 5 minute consultation in the store then you can buy a 4 pk for £20ish.
We hope you have a good time x
KJ x |
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