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how to ask you partner
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What partner lol im just a mere pooor single soul on here booooooooooooow hoooooooooow"
awww don't cry, one day you will find your partner gdrink ......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What partner lol im just a mere pooor single soul on here booooooooooooow hoooooooooow
awww don't cry, one day you will find your partner gdrink ........."
gdrink?
hmmmm yeah ok why not if your buying im thirsty  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" booooooooooooow hoooooooooow
Bow how...?
One inclines from the waist dear sir... ;-)
Oooow suits you sir
Much obliged old chap...;-)"
Ones response is often called upon dear chap |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" booooooooooooow hoooooooooow
Bow how...?
One inclines from the waist dear sir...;-)
Oooow suits you sir
Much obliged old chap...;-)
Ones response is often called upon dear chap "
And most graciously accepted dont you know...;-) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" booooooooooooow hoooooooooow
Bow how...?
One inclines from the waist dear sir...;-)
Oooow suits you sir
Much obliged old chap...;-)
Ones response is often called upon dear chap
And most graciously accepted dont you know...;-)"
Indeedy sir indeed
Alas scroats are still of plenty tho hey lol |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"how did you ask your partner to rgink about swinging?"
Hi. I will answer you.
We spoke about our fantasies, we wrote them down, with a yes no or maybe as to wether we want to act them out...then we swopped lists to see if any matched.
They did, so here we are.
Good luck if you decide to bring the subject up.  |
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"how did you ask your partner to rgink about swinging?
Hi. I will answer you.
We spoke about our fantasies, we wrote them down, with a yes no or maybe as to wether we want to act them out...then we swopped lists to see if any matched.
They did, so here we are.
Good luck if you decide to bring the subject up. "
i answered...however i dont think mutual sharing is what he wants to hear |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read about fab in a paper and had a look at the site,showed ann next day she had a browes and loved it cant bloody get her of it now lol,both of us wish we had done it yrs ago.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Similar experience to Rugby for us. I'd always wanted to do an MMF so a friend very kindly helped out and we enjoyed it so much Mr suggested joining fab. Ms |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For us it was simply the progression of a very healthy sex life together........mr c worked with a "pervy couple" as we thought then and we went to a fetish club with them......well i sent him first and then joined him on a second trip.....it opened our eyes and more to the many experiences and oppurtunities the lifestyle has to offer and have never looked back!! It takes time to develop your own rules and boundries as a couple and we made a few mistakes but we both know now what each of us and both of us wants so its fun fun fun! Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us it was by text from different continents, when apart we share text stories and fantasies one series when he was in the USA led to swinging getting mentioned and fantasised about, when he got back we went to a club.
Depends on your relationship, but if you don't generally talk about sex with your partner, asking her to swing out of the blue may cause more problems than it's worth. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"how did you ask your partner to rgink about swinging?
Hi. I will answer you.
We spoke about our fantasies, we wrote them down, with a yes no or maybe as to wether we want to act them out...then we swopped lists to see if any matched.
They did, so here we are.
Good luck if you decide to bring the subject up. "
We started in a similar way, ours started mainly through watching porn films together. Got us talking about what we would like to try. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how did you ask your partner to think about swinging?"
Asking a long-standing partner to think about swinging is a very individual matter, depending on a multitude of factors (how strong you are as a couple, how well you communicate, how much honesty/trust there is in the relationhip, how satisfied both partners are with the sex-life, reasons for wanting to 'swing', etc) There is no 'one-size-fits all' way of introducing the idea of swinging to a partner.
If it's a new vanilla girlfriend, though, I would say it's easy .... take her along to one of the socials in a non-swinging venue, let her see for herself that we're a nice friendly bunch, and let her decide for herself if she wants to 'dip her toe in the water'.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your not sure how your partner will take it, then it's a big fat don't.
Just our advice, with us, the subject just seemed to come up in natural conversation, but then we are both sexual people and discuss sex quite a lot.
Don't push it, it will only end in tears. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"how did you ask your partner to rgink about swinging?
Hi. I will answer you.
We spoke about our fantasies, we wrote them down, with a yes no or maybe as to wether we want to act them out...then we swopped lists to see if any matched.
They did, so here we are.
Good luck if you decide to bring the subject up.
i answered...however i dont think mutual sharing is what he wants to hear "
I am not sure how you assume this from his two short posts.  |
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We were watching a swinger club orgy DVD and I said "would you like to do that?" She thought about it and we went to La Chambre for the first time the next Saturday.
It probably helped that we had only just met. It would be more difficult if you suggest swinging after years of marriage, I did to my ex once and she had a big sense of humour failure "so you're fed up with met then and want other women?" (the answer was yes but didn't dare say it!). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was always Mr's fantasy to watch me be fucked by another man, this is something we have spoken about for a long time, now here we are having soo much fun lol x |
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