never come across it, swinging is part of my normal life...so yes there are friends i go clubbing with.If i like someone enough to want to go to a club with them i like them enough to want to see them other times too
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I have seen a few profile of couples who only meet for sex rather than being in a relationship so yes it happens.
Have also seen profiles where people say they only play with real couples not those who are fuckbuddies.
Don't think there is a right or wrong here. But then I'd love to have a regular swing partner |
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A fuck buddy I suppose is similar but they tend to be more involved in my normal life know the same people I do etc but I'm keen to keep my swinging life seperate entirely as it would be frowned upon amongst certain people in my life and a disgruntled fb could say the wrong thing to the wrong people but a swinging buddy as I would imagine would be as open minded as myself but with no connection to any friends or family just a sexy secret liason if u will..... And yes I know this makes me look like a husband playing away but I can assure you I am not I've just had to many experiences in the past where my sexual activities and preferences have impeded my day to day life which has led me to exploring the swinging scene for various reasons |
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"A fuck buddy I suppose is similar but they tend to be more involved in my normal life know the same people I do etc but I'm keen to keep my swinging life seperate entirely as it would be frowned upon amongst certain people in my life and a disgruntled fb could say the wrong thing to the wrong people but a swinging buddy as I would imagine would be as open minded as myself but with no connection to any friends or family just a sexy secret liason if u will..... And yes I know this makes me look like a husband playing away but I can assure you I am not I've just had to many experiences in the past where my sexual activities and preferences have impeded my day to day life which has led me to exploring the swinging scene for various reasons "
no one in my village or family know i swing, and i intend to keep it that way...but i think if u want to know someone well enough to club with them more than once you are going to have to consider that they need to know and trust you...
On a wider level there is very little on offer for a single woman teaming up with a single man to go with a club soley for the purpose of clubbing...it costs more and she doesn't know how possessive he might get.
i have gone to clubs with different male swinging friends cos kev doesnt like GG nights...ones i know well enough to enjoy their company and be able to say no i dont want to fuck you too...and know they will be fine with that |
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i have in the past had a swinging partner, this was a guy i ment for sex meets only, be that just the two of us, or to go to clubs or parties with, didnt meet him outside of that, to be honest it didnt really work for me, i found that he got less interested in me as a person and more interested in the benifits he got from having me in tow, so i stopped meeting him and decided it was better to just go clubs and parties alone |
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"i have in the past had a swinging partner, this was a guy i ment for sex meets only, be that just the two of us, or to go to clubs or parties with, didnt meet him outside of that, to be honest it didnt really work for me, i found that he got less interested in me as a person and more interested in the benifits he got from having me in tow, so i stopped meeting him and decided it was better to just go clubs and parties alone"
Difficult finding someone with the right mix, who can holds it together over time....
OP you might have a few of these over the years but when you get one, make sure you look after em
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