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me and my partner are in the same boat ish. he has a fab profile can't remember the last time he logged on. we also have a couples profile. but he fines his meets on... a social network site. but still in the last 2 years he has only met 3 people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My partner and I are in an open relationship. We both have separate fab profiles. She does very well in fab. However I can’t seem to meet anyone. Any ideas or suggestions gratefully recieved. "
Your partner is stunning no wonder she does very well.
It's never easy for single men online. |
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Hello! Just seen this. To address the issue of why it’s taken me two years to verify is that he made an account but never used it (echoes what the lady further up says) where as I’m obsessed with the forums (read: nosey lil beggar!) and get hundreds of messages (as all ladies do) so am here allll dayyyy lol.
It’s very hard for single men as there’s absolutely so many of them, also it takes a lot of time and effort to build up connections and friendships/relationships. That’s where events kick in. A chance to meet people. I’ve been on here years too.
Ps. Welcome to the forum. Xx
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
Sandwich |
Maybe you should get to some clubs and events with your partner.
Also spend a bit of time on the forums
Anything that gets you better known.
Your partner is hot. She’s probably with you for a reason 
Bottom line is though, it’s so much more like hard work for guys to get sex. |
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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago
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We used to be the same.
It’s because your a guy, MrXOXO had the same experience sadly. He’d approach women get chatting and dare to suggest they meet up for some fun most women would either block him, call him pushy, only be looking for ladies, couples or not meeting atm...
Then we got a joint profile and the fun hasn’t stopped 
MrsXOXO |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My partner and I are in an open relationship. We both have separate fab profiles. She does very well in fab. However I can’t seem to meet anyone. Any ideas or suggestions gratefully recieved. "
it's difficult to say really could be the beard could be the Mike can I ask are you a stand up comedian?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To ‘do well’ on here, you have to put in the effort and it can become a full time job. We all know there are a lot of hot guys on here and the 437:1 ratio can make it hard to get noticed. That said I know some guys who are experts here. Attending socials and clubs and making sure you mingle is the best way forward. There are a couple of threads to follow with pointers.
You’re in the lucky position of being in a great social circle of Fab royalty. If you put the effort in you’ll start to get more meets.
C |
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"Hello! Just seen this. To address the issue of why it’s taken me two years to verify is that he made an account but never used it (echoes what the lady further up says) where as I’m obsessed with the forums (read: nosey lil beggar!) and get hundreds of messages (as all ladies do) so am here allll dayyyy lol.
It’s very hard for single men as there’s absolutely so many of them, also it takes a lot of time and effort to build up connections and friendships/relationships. That’s where events kick in. A chance to meet people. I’ve been on here years too.
Ps. Welcome to the forum. Xx
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well said xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Having known the OP and his partner for some time now. I have to say it's difficult for single guys on here. Like someone said further up you are in a very good position having such a great circle of friends and been the partner of a fab celebrity.
Get to some of the socials and get involved in the forums.
It's like been out with fab Royalty when going out with her.
She is with you for a reason and you should take advantage of that. Have a look on my bio.
At the bottom there's some great advice for single guys on here. Happy Fabbing my friend |
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"My partner and I are in an open relationship. We both have separate fab profiles. She does very well in fab. However I can’t seem to meet anyone. Any ideas or suggestions gratefully recieved. "
The mathematics of supply and demand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think your profile is just a bit sparse but it is a lot harder for men on here,I'm sure your partner could give you some advice on your profile."
I looked at yours and it's very sparse lol
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"in simple terms your partner is female you are male ...females in demand ... males a plenty"
I'm going to guess that Mrworldwide is aware of the dynamic on FAB, who isn't? I think what he's after is advise to help increase his chances.
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Fab mathematics... Women pretty much have the ability to choose who they meet. Men must put in the effort to be the one out of 20 who a lady decides to reply to when she opens her inbox after a long day at work.
Also some women won't meet married men, including those of us in open marriages.
Any man here needs to sell himself, think of your profile as a shop window. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also i thought that it was against fab rules for spouses/partners to veri each other?
Is it? Didn’t know that. "
When you varify someone this wording comes up on an unverified profile
"Please think before verifying. Verification ticks are really important. If you verify a fake or an account of your own, you'll be banned."
It says nothing about verification for your partner you just can't varify your own e.g. a couples profile running alongside two singles profile .
Correct me if I'm mistaken. |
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When the wife and I first joined it was certainly in the site rules that spouses/partners should not verify each other.
I don't see it in the FAQ, now so perhaps it's changed? Personally I think it should be permitted so partners can confirm "yes, I'm happy for my partner to see others" |
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"When the wife and I first joined it was certainly in the site rules that spouses/partners should not verify each other.
I don't see it in the FAQ, now so perhaps it's changed? Personally I think it should be permitted so partners can confirm "yes, I'm happy for my partner to see others" "
That was my reasoning behind it. So many women labelling everyone a cheater. Would rather be honest about the situation |
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"I think your profile is just a bit sparse but it is a lot harder for men on here,I'm sure your partner could give you some advice on your profile.I looked at yours and it's very sparse lol "
No dopey it's just hidden  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think your profile is just a bit sparse but it is a lot harder for men on here,I'm sure your partner could give you some advice on your profile.I looked at yours and it's very sparse lol
No dopey it's just hidden "
really doc where's snow white tonight? |
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Why didnt you go to Quest with your partner on Saturday night?
She could have introduced you to a lot of people.
I think that meeting people face to face is probably the best way forward.
Or if your partner arranges another South Leeds social, then attend that to meet people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My partner and I are in an open relationship. We both have separate fab profiles. She does very well in fab. However I can’t seem to meet anyone. Any ideas or suggestions gratefully recieved. "
Same here mate, however it’s just how fab is. Get yourself out into the real world you will do much better. |
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"As the male half of the couple, 99.9% of the interest in her not me lol
It's just the way of the world I'm afraid, ladies pretty much hold all the cards! "
This
I know it’s always kim that attracts people, not me, if I was single or in an open relationship, I’d be in the same boat as the OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As the male half of the couple, 99.9% of the interest in her not me lol
It's just the way of the world I'm afraid, ladies pretty much hold all the cards!
This
I know it’s always kim that attracts people, not me, if I was single or in an open relationship, I’d be in the same boat as the OP"
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
Cheshire/Staffs |
You appear to have just realised you’re getting the shit end of the stick here.
Not much you can do about it sadly - thank your lucky stars you’ve got a hot woman (occasionally) to be with and do other things which relieve the frustration. Walking is very good, as is basket weaving. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My partner and I are in an open relationship. We both have separate fab profiles. She does very well in fab. However I can’t seem to meet anyone. Any ideas or suggestions gratefully recieved. "
Try meeting men like her that will multiply your options tenfold |
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"My partner and I are in an open relationship. We both have separate fab profiles. She does very well in fab. However I can’t seem to meet anyone. Any ideas or suggestions gratefully recieved. "
Grow some flaps and a pair of boobs that’s the only way to get the same as her |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
We just keep one couples profile then it’s very clear and no suspicion, I do fine on here, Mrs is obviously inundated, but most just get bulk deleted, just focus on getting to know people rather than sex. You sound a nice guy ( if Mrs N Stars says so you must be!) but you profile isn’t very good |
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"Glad it worked out for you in the end. Hopefully eventually it does for me also. In the same boat you was. Any tips?
Got to have lots of trust in your relationship. Without that it won’t work. "
Trust is definitely not an issue. Just waiting for light at the end of the covid tunnel |
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"My partner and I are in an open relationship. We both have separate fab profiles. She does very well in fab. However I can’t seem to meet anyone. Any ideas or suggestions gratefully recieved. "
Have you guys thought about creating a couples profile. It opens a lot of doors. ... |
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"My partner and I are in an open relationship. We both have separate fab profiles. She does very well in fab. However I can’t seem to meet anyone. Any ideas or suggestions gratefully recieved.
Have you guys thought about creating a couples profile. It opens a lot of doors. ..."
We did at a point but was pretty quiet. Might give it another go |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My partner and I are in an open relationship. We both have separate fab profiles. She does very well in fab. However I can’t seem to meet anyone. Any ideas or suggestions gratefully recieved.
Have you guys thought about creating a couples profile. It opens a lot of doors. ...
We did at a point but was pretty quiet. Might give it another go "
Keep going never know until u step into it. |
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"Your partner seems to have posted a pic in the past few days having fun with another guy. That would worry me."
Why? They are in a open relationship and swingers, its clearly not a problem for them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your partner seems to have posted a pic in the past few days having fun with another guy. That would worry me."
Then you clearly don't understand swinging and / or open relationship's.
This probably isn't the site for you.
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"Your partner seems to have posted a pic in the past few days having fun with another guy. That would worry me."
This is a swinging site you know. They also have an open relationship.
I suggest you never swing with someone you have feelings for if posting a picture of her with another guy would worry you.
Maybe you need to take a step bank and think if swinging really is for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read it was about wife swapping that's how it all started.
Yes, I agree it's about having fun fun fun in an intimate way.
When covid is over mind you. |
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"It's not the fact of the other guy that would bother me. It's the intimate fun they're clearly having."
It might surprise you to learn the picture doesn’t concern me in the slightest. I knew before she went where she was going and what was going to happen. It had my blessing as it would if the roles were reversed. |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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"It's not the fact of the other guy that would bother me. It's the intimate fun they're clearly having."
Sorry dude, this is not meant in an offensive way so hope you don't take it that way but I think you might be on the wrong site. |
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I think this thread is all getting a bit out of hand.
People play in different ways. Some people wouldn’t dream of playing without their partner, some build their whole lifestyle around it etc etc.
So long as everyone is happy and everyone is safe then crack on everyone.
Happy swinging x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your partner seems to have posted a pic in the past few days having fun with another guy. That would worry me."
There's lots of pictures with GG and myself. All with the full consent of her partner. It's never been a problem to them and they are one of my bestie couples and very good friends with myself and my partner. What suits one person doesn't always suit another. We are all wired differently.Good job really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1this was us when we had a seperate profiles. She's the pretty one with titts, and I'm not everyone's taste. Cos she was getting flooded inboxes, we deleted it. Just stick to our couples profile now.
But it is 100 men to 1 woman on here lol |
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