Does anyone else get mildly annoyed when people put you in a box? We enjoy playing apart when we want, and both love the idea of each other fucking someone in a different location.
So guys tend to reply with “oh you like hotwifing, I get that”.
We aren’t offended, but don’t really feel that describes us, and it’s just a convenient label that misses all our kinks.
Anyone else feel this way, or is swinging jargon generally accepted? |
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We find a lot of the jargon a bit off-putting. Not everything, as there are some things it's nice to find a name for, but there's an awful lot of stuff that just feels a bit cringe worthy or hard to take seriously. We tend to just talk about having fun, playing and so on. |
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Yes know what you mean but equally we do find the ‘shorthand’ useful at times when we don’t want to explain certain aspects of our sexuality for the umpteenth time. For example, the term ‘Hotwife’ broadly covers my style preference, but there are lots more kinks sitting behind that too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It really puts us off.
Referring to ladies as 'the fem'..yuk!
All this mmf, ffm does nothing for us.
We are real people, not a description on the back of a porn video |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
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My ex used to refer to me as her bull so I guess I am by default however I personally find the term bull signicantly undesirable so get it totally.
The hotwife kink is sooo fascinating. I would also refer to ladies as being a hotwife and the husband as the stag. So many variations at play too. xx
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Glad it’s not just us. I get that shorthand helps and some things can be encapsulated with brevity but yes it does remind you of the back of a porn video!
Although, who has seen the back of a porn video recently! |
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