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is there something i could possibly be doing wrong
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i have been on here 5 weeks which i understand is not a long time but i cant even get a reply from a message i have sent how do women like to be approached on here |
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You're probably not doing anything wrong, you're just outnumbered that's all. Just make your profile reflect your personality and when you message ensure you've read their profile and you fit what they're looking for.
Contribute here on the forums or go to a club or social.
It's a time thing, put in the work and you may get lucky  |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
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OP. It is daunting, believe me, but it's a numbers thing with so many other guys all seeking the same thing.
The Profile can be the most difficult part, so look at similar threads in the Forum Index for ideas.
Yours is 4 lines long. To stand out, you should expand it, to say what you want and what you can contribute too.
You don't accommodate which can be viewed negatively by some people. Be honest and say why you can't.
It's all about being NOTICED. Get to socials and/or clubs in your region. Get into the Forums, even contributing at times as people can look at your profile. I've met up with people just through the Forums.
It can take time to achieve results, so remember that Patience and Perseverance are key.
Read profiles fully and answer those who are alike to you. Be aware of rejection with or without any reply - it's par for the course!
But it will work!
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I dont know if you do. But my personal bugbear is when people dont read my profile, what i am looking for and the type of person who i am to see if we would be compatible. People who clearly havent read my profile get deleted without reply.
Its a numbers thing, like so many mention already, you need to stand out. It does take time and patience but it can be very rewarding. Get involved with the forums, the more people see you and get to know your personality through your posts more people will feel comfortable with you and tge idea of a potential meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you are a guy, therefore out number women and couples by a mile, you might get lucky but its unlikely. dont forget its not instashag, sorry to sound harsh but thems the facts, anyway good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me as a single woman if you can't be bothered to read my profile or you are not in my age range or you are more than 20 miles away or you are not my type and I have no interest in meeting you I will just block straight away as it saves all the bother |
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