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By *uncpl187 OP Couple
over a year ago
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My wife loves using her strapon in me,but keeps telling me that it is not as good as the real thing. She wants me to experience being fucked but I'm a bit unsure.Sounds to painful.
Has anyone had any experience that could pass on any tips? |
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Plenty of lube and ensure you douche beforehand. Start gently certain aromas can help relax the anal passage. A finger then two, massage around the edges and then let him slowly enter you. It'll hurt at first but the more you relax the better. For your first time it's better to be on top, that way you control how fast he enters you.
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By *uncpl187 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Plenty of lube and ensure you douche beforehand. Start gently certain aromas can help relax the anal passage. A finger then two, massage around the edges and then let him slowly enter you. It'll hurt at first but the more you relax the better. For your first time it's better to be on top, that way you control how fast he enters you.
Lube Lube and more Lube "
Thank you very much.Always douche when we play there.Best to be safe than sorry   |
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The real thing is a different feel in many ways... it shouldn't be more painful, but that all depends on the strap on you are used to and the size of the cock he has and how careful he is penetrating you. You will find you get more 'feedback' from it... feel it pulse, grow, harden, relax, etc... compared to the strap on.
Same rules as the strap on and mentioned above, clean, lube, relax. I would recommend finding someone sympathetic to your first time who will let you control the pace until you get used to it. |
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Yeah, with the cock, the head, although hard, is softer as its fleshier... but if rammed in by the male, will still hurt... but it is easier for the male to sense when you relax again, to continue if you do tighten up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My wife loves using her strapon in me,but keeps telling me that it is not as good as the real thing. She wants me to experience being fucked but I'm a bit unsure.Sounds to painful.
Has anyone had any experience that could pass on any tips?"
I suspect that this is not about toys and real cocks hurting you.
The real question is do you want to have the experience of a real cock inside you..?? Thats the main question you have to ask yourself.
It is a big step to go from passive toys to the real thing.
Regardless of your wifes thoughts, it is primarily your choice first and foremost.
You have think seriously about who you would have fuck you and in what form they would take.
You have to be turned on to truely enjoy the experience.
It is not a decisions anybody takes lightly when their sexuality comes into question.
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He he, nope, don't blame you... my first two where 5-6 inches... and very nice. Took me till my third fucking to realise how pleasurable it could be... first was bearable, second ok. Now, can't deny, it can be very nice. Expect to feel very emasculated too, having a man orgasm using your ass, is a different sensation and very powerful... for them he he |
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"My wife loves using her strapon in me,but keeps telling me that it is not as good as the real thing. She wants me to experience being fucked but I'm a bit unsure.Sounds to painful.
Has anyone had any experience that could pass on any tips?
I suspect that this is not about toys and real cocks hurting you.
The real question is do you want to have the experience of a real cock inside you..?? Thats the main question you have to ask yourself.
It is a big step to go from passive toys to the real thing.
Regardless of your wifes thoughts, it is primarily your choice first and foremost.
You have think seriously about who you would have fuck you and in what form they would take.
You have to be turned on to truely enjoy the experience.
It is not a decisions anybody takes lightly when their sexuality comes into question.
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110% this
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"My wife loves using her strapon in me,but keeps telling me that it is not as good as the real thing. She wants me to experience being fucked but I'm a bit unsure.Sounds to painful.
Has anyone had any experience that could pass on any tips?
I suspect that this is not about toys and real cocks hurting you.
The real question is do you want to have the experience of a real cock inside you..?? Thats the main question you have to ask yourself.
It is a big step to go from passive toys to the real thing.
Regardless of your wifes thoughts, it is primarily your choice first and foremost.
You have think seriously about who you would have fuck you and in what form they would take.
You have to be turned on to truely enjoy the experience.
It is not a decisions anybody takes lightly when their sexuality comes into question.
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Agree with this, remember psychologically you are going to be penetrated by another Man. It's easier for me as the minute I dress and look feminine I find it easy to submit. However you won't have that cross over mindset. Make sure you find the right partner and afterwards you realise it's experimentation and not to be taken too seriously, if you don't enjoy fine, if you do it's also Ok |
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Psychology plays a massive part in this, We really enjoy strap on sex but was intrigued at first about the differences... After a while of deliberations we decided it was time to try, the right guy is obviously so important but also be ready in your own head that you’re going to be penetrated by another guy... Once you are then you’re in for a treat as real cock is one hell of a lot better lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As you are bi-curious, do you have any attraction to men at all, this is vital so a bond can take place without the alpha male playing on both sides.
What is your wife's role in all of this, will she be there, watching, playing.
Or will it be a full blown 3some.
what ever you do, enjoy every moment, you won't regret it.
I didn't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hope you find someone to make your first time as pleasurable as it should be OP.
If you do your wife is in for a treat. One of my biggest turn ons is seeing my partner getting fucked. Drives me crazy 
Miss V |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't fancy men like I would do a woman. My wife is only really interested in being taught by another lady so she won't join in."
if you don't fancy men, then it might be awkward in you letting a guy take you.
you said your wife wants it to happen, how much do you want it to happen.
as many have said, it's a big step to make. |
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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago
Currently Faraway |
"My wife loves using her strapon in me,but keeps telling me that it is not as good as the real thing. She wants me to experience being fucked but I'm a bit unsure.Sounds to painful.
Has anyone had any experience that could pass on any tips?"
Find a guy who is patient and will not mind if you say ‘stop’. Also, find somebody who enjoys slowly massaging your arse with their fingers using plenty of lube and patience. |
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By *uncpl187 OP Couple
over a year ago
Ramsgate |
"My wife loves using her strapon in me,but keeps telling me that it is not as good as the real thing. She wants me to experience being fucked but I'm a bit unsure.Sounds to painful.
Has anyone had any experience that could pass on any tips?
Find a guy who is patient and will not mind if you say ‘stop’. Also, find somebody who enjoys slowly massaging your arse with their fingers using plenty of lube and patience. "
That is how I would love it to go.Unrushed and painfree  |
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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago
Currently Faraway |
"My wife loves using her strapon in me,but keeps telling me that it is not as good as the real thing. She wants me to experience being fucked but I'm a bit unsure.Sounds to painful.
Has anyone had any experience that could pass on any tips?
Find a guy who is patient and will not mind if you say ‘stop’. Also, find somebody who enjoys slowly massaging your arse with their fingers using plenty of lube and patience. That is how I would love it to go.Unrushed and painfree "
I love taking a guy’s virginity but I also constantly ask the other person how they feel. I can ask umpteen times until you’re fed up. Also as other posters have said, it’s good if you are bottoming on top. That way you can control how intense you want it. |
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"Hope you find someone to make your first time as pleasurable as it should be OP.
If you do your wife is in for a treat. One of my biggest turn ons is seeing my partner getting fucked. Drives me crazy
Miss V"
Absolutely xx |
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By *i de BiCouple
over a year ago
Leicester |
I love taking the strap on from Mrs Bi , but I don't let guys fuck me , I only fuck guys , as this turns her on massively .
So basically do what you want , no one is here to judge your sexual preferences x |
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By *uncpl187 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I love taking the strap on from Mrs Bi , but I don't let guys fuck me , I only fuck guys , as this turns her on massively .
So basically do what you want , no one is here to judge your sexual preferences x "
When my wife has seen me with a guy she gets very horny when we get home and talks about what she witnessed and gets very wet.She can squirt for England lol
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My partner LOVES watching me take anal, but only when dressed as Sara. Fortunately I've no desire to do it as a guy so there's no conflict.
Thing is,you both have to be on board with really wanting this as watching someone or doing something you're not certain about can result in some really negative emotions.
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"My wife loves using her strapon in me,but keeps telling me that it is not as good as the real thing. She wants me to experience being fucked but I'm a bit unsure.Sounds to painful.
Has anyone had any experience that could pass on any tips?"
Lube, train, practice, right size.
Sometimes slightly smaller than you would expect works better, you also get good rythmn with a slightly smaller cock.
My magic size is 5incher, the guy can get real close and pump hard if so required to reach climax.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Plenty of lube and ensure you douche beforehand. Start gently certain aromas can help relax the anal passage. A finger then two, massage around the edges and then let him slowly enter you. It'll hurt at first but the more you relax the better. For your first time it's better to be on top, that way you control how fast he enters you.
Lube Lube and more Lube "
Little naive here...but can you explain 'douche' to me please... |
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"Plenty of lube and ensure you douche beforehand. Start gently certain aromas can help relax the anal passage. A finger then two, massage around the edges and then let him slowly enter you. It'll hurt at first but the more you relax the better. For your first time it's better to be on top, that way you control how fast he enters you.
Lube Lube and more Lube
Little naive here...but can you explain 'douche' to me please..."
It's cleaning 'up there' can be done with the vagina as well. But in the case of anal sex there can be accidents as you are loosening the muscles in the area. This is the definition online;
Rectal douching, also known as anal douching, is the act of rinsing the rectum with intent to clean it, typically in preparation for anal sex. An instance of this rinsing or a tool used to perform the rinse may be called a rectal douche.
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We started off with my wife fucking me with a strap on and then I met a gay couple for my first guy on guy experience and oh my!! They both fucked me and my wife loved to hear all about it!! Since then we have invited guys round and she watches whilst I play!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have played with guys but never had a cock in me.But want to try it but the hardest thing is finding someone that has the experience to know what he is doing to an anal cock virgin."
This is a tough one.
You really need someone who knows what he’s doing.
Also you can buy some things that you sniff that can help relax the anus.
Unfortunately being nervous about the whole thing makes it worse as people tend to tense up even if they are trying not to.
Good luck dude. |
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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago
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"We started off with my wife fucking me with a strap on and then I met a gay couple for my first guy on guy experience and oh my!! They both fucked me and my wife loved to hear all about it!! Since then we have invited guys round and she watches whilst I play!!"
sounds like your both have some great sexy fun |
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