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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago
Currently Faraway |
I am being approached about my future swingers’ party and I can sniff from a mile a way that the reason I am being approached is because somebody has sniffed out the opportunity for pussy, to put it in a crass manner; but this is genuinely what I suspect because otherwise I wouldn’t have been approached. It’s not a stranger by the way.
Plus I also suspect that the party interested wants a fuck-and-go situation, which my guests wouldn’t appreciate. It’s awkward so....do I delete from my ‘friends’ list and block? Do I politely but brutally honestly explain the reasons why it will be a ‘no’? Do I just vaguely dodge the subject like I’ve been doing since yesterday? What would you do in my shoes?
I’m sorry if it seems a bit weird but I don’t want to be reprimanded off the forum again for ‘airing my laundry’ accidentally, hence not a lot of details. |
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"I am being approached about my future swingers’ party and I can sniff from a mile a way that the reason I am being approached is because somebody has sniffed out the opportunity for pussy, to put it in a crass manner; but this is genuinely what I suspect because otherwise I wouldn’t have been approached. It’s not a stranger by the way.
Plus I also suspect that the party interested wants a fuck-and-go situation, which my guests wouldn’t appreciate. It’s awkward so....do I delete from my ‘friends’ list and block? Do I politely but brutally honestly explain the reasons why it will be a ‘no’? Do I just vaguely dodge the subject like I’ve been doing since yesterday? What would you do in my shoes?
I’m sorry if it seems a bit weird but I don’t want to be reprimanded off the forum again for ‘airing my laundry’ accidentally, hence not a lot of details."
Just say no, you’re not obliged to give a reason. |
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People want sex here, so it's to be expected if they influence opportunity for themselves.
All events would typically be a matched group and it's responsible to exclude those who don't fit. I'd just inform those you reject that they didn't make it and wish them luck.
I'd also only stay in touch with people I want to. I'd cancel and block others like him. |
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