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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Dear admin and fellow swingers,
51 weeks ago a lady posted her idea of some sort of facility on fab for us singles to hopefully meet a significant other. I wonder whether you (admin) have had any thoughts about it??!
Although I’m happy meeting for nsa fuckery I’d equally love to find a swinging partner to settle down with in a long term relationship.
Traditional dating sites are full of people wanting nsa fucks who aren’t into a swinging lifestyle... so fab is the ideal venue to help swingers find “one of their own kind”!!
Some of us don’t want to be unicorns forever!!
Come on fab admin... please consider it 
Interested to see whether there are guys and gals who would support this... |
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"Dear admin and fellow swingers,
51 weeks ago a lady posted her idea of some sort of facility on fab for us singles to hopefully meet a significant other. I wonder whether you (admin) have had any thoughts about it??!
Although I’m happy meeting for nsa fuckery I’d equally love to find a swinging partner to settle down with in a long term relationship.
Traditional dating sites are full of people wanting nsa fucks who aren’t into a swinging lifestyle... so fab is the ideal venue to help swingers find “one of their own kind”!!
Some of us don’t want to be unicorns forever!!
Come on fab admin... please consider it
Interested to see whether there are guys and gals who would support this..."
I think something like this would be very popular. Admin please at least consider it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agreed
For those haters, I was part of a swinging couple and loved the life. Why should I leave just because I’m a single!? Funny that in clubs, the SF is approached differently ... can’t think why 
Come on admin, let us swingles find a permanent plus one  |
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"Dear admin and fellow swingers,
51 weeks ago a lady posted her idea of some sort of facility on fab for us singles to hopefully meet a significant other. I wonder whether you (admin) have had any thoughts about it??!
Although I’m happy meeting for nsa fuckery I’d equally love to find a swinging partner to settle down with in a long term relationship.
Traditional dating sites are full of people wanting nsa fucks who aren’t into a swinging lifestyle... so fab is the ideal venue to help swingers find “one of their own kind”!!
Some of us don’t want to be unicorns forever!!
Come on fab admin... please consider it
Interested to see whether there are guys and gals who would support this..."
I think it's a great idea Nina, and I wholeheartedly agree. |
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By *azpiz1Man
over a year ago
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"Dear admin and fellow swingers,
51 weeks ago a lady posted her idea of some sort of facility on fab for us singles to hopefully meet a significant other. I wonder whether you (admin) have had any thoughts about it??!
Although I’m happy meeting for nsa fuckery I’d equally love to find a swinging partner to settle down with in a long term relationship.
Traditional dating sites are full of people wanting nsa fucks who aren’t into a swinging lifestyle... so fab is the ideal venue to help swingers find “one of their own kind”!!
Some of us don’t want to be unicorns forever!!
Come on fab admin... please consider it
Interested to see whether there are guys and gals who would support this..."
Great idea! I fully support it.
Nina, you block single guys, are you looking for a female partner? |
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Up till recently I’d have run a mile. But I’ve got to a place where, while not actively looking for a relationship, I’d certainly be open to the idea if I met the right person. And I would definitely want to stay on the scene. So, it’s a yes from me! |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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I'm not looking for a partner but many people are.
This is a great idea.
Do I think fab will listen? Sadly not. So many ideas have been put forward in the past but nothing happens.
Come on Fab.....listen to your members!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dear admin and fellow swingers,
51 weeks ago a lady posted her idea of some sort of facility on fab for us singles to hopefully meet a significant other. I wonder whether you (admin) have had any thoughts about it??!
Although I’m happy meeting for nsa fuckery I’d equally love to find a swinging partner to settle down with in a long term relationship.
Traditional dating sites are full of people wanting nsa fucks who aren’t into a swinging lifestyle... so fab is the ideal venue to help swingers find “one of their own kind”!!
Some of us don’t want to be unicorns forever!!
Come on fab admin... please consider it
Interested to see whether there are guys and gals who would support this..."
Would love to see this happen come on fab sort it out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Up till recently I’d have run a mile. But I’ve got to a place where, while not actively looking for a relationship, I’d certainly be open to the idea if I met the right person. And I would definitely want to stay on the scene. So, it’s a yes from me! "
This
Tried vanilla dating and it’s no good when you want to swing too!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No I’m looking for a male partner but I don’t have all day to sit reading messages ( and replying ) from people who just message “ hi” or “ hey, what are you doing?”!!!!
I regularly look to see if I’ve got winks/fabbed pics etc.. and I often look at their profile. If it interests me, I’ll make contact. I also look at who’s near and local updates.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nina4u great idea i would fully support it but sadly i dont think admin will listen perhaps if we all stop paying for are site supporter they might lol"
That might actually work!!
Majority of people here must be singles?!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No I’m looking for a male partner but I don’t have all day to sit reading messages ( and replying ) from people who just message “ hi” or “ hey, what are you doing?”!!!!
I regularly look to see if I’ve got winks/fabbed pics etc.. and I often look at their profile. If it interests me, I’ll make contact. I also look at who’s near and local updates.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn't text on a profile work better? Or perhaps a tick box 'looking for a swinging relationship' so people could search on that.
There's been trillions of dating threads over the years. Probably less than 20 couples created as a direct result. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it’s a great idea! I want to date and find a partner to enjoy some aspects of this lifestyle with. More than just pure random NSA. And I can’t find what I want on a traditional dating site.
It would be wonderful to be able to find the others out there who want the same |
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"Wouldn't text on a profile work better? Or perhaps a tick box 'looking for a swinging relationship' so people could search on that.
There's been trillions of dating threads over the years. Probably less than 20 couples created as a direct result. "
The tick box would be good.
I'd say a thread on a forum is slightly different than an out and out forum in its own right.
Why not have both, the tick box option and a forum.... |
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It’s been suggested many times over the year but nothing’s ever happened.
I’m only seeking a LTR and just last night had a message on here from someone who also wants one but only wants to find one through a dating site as otherwise they can’t trust them. WTF?!!  |
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"Wouldn't text on a profile work better? Or perhaps a tick box 'looking for a swinging relationship' so people could search on that.
There's been trillions of dating threads over the years. Probably less than 20 couples created as a direct result.
The tick box would be good.
I'd say a thread on a forum is slightly different than an out and out forum in its own right.
Why not have both, the tick box option and a forum.... "
Maybe they could add it as an interest option - not a whole new fiend and I’d assume easy enough to add in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve changed my profile to dating, don’t care that it’s Fab .
It’s nobody’s business how I use my profile and I now want to date but it must be someone on the scene. It’s not rocket-science to use the obvious site for that: here.
Hopefully, there’s a guy out there who wants the same  |
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"Wouldn't text on a profile work better? Or perhaps a tick box 'looking for a swinging relationship' so people could search on that.
There's been trillions of dating threads over the years. Probably less than 20 couples created as a direct result.
The tick box would be good.
I'd say a thread on a forum is slightly different than an out and out forum in its own right.
Why not have both, the tick box option and a forum....
Maybe they could add it as an interest option - not a whole new fiend and I’d assume easy enough to add in. "
You'd think......
As someone else had said, there's other forums for non swinging related subjects, (politics for example) why not swing dating? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve changed my profile to dating, don’t care that it’s Fab .
It’s nobody’s business how I use my profile and I now want to date but it must be someone on the scene. It’s not rocket-science to use the obvious site for that: here.
Hopefully, there’s a guy out there who wants the same "
I have done the same good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder how many people asked for bikers and camping forums against those who'd like a dating forum?"
lets hope admin listen and do a dating forum....loads want it
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Count me in for this! That's exactly what I'm looking for, to connect with someone in the lifestyle for a long term relationship with lots of kink and sexual deviance
Please admin! "
Finally someone who says this and who's living in the same city  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve done this too. I thought I’d said it in a roundabout way before but I’ve made it clearer now and I think it’s good if we can use our profiles and the site how we want.
Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wouldn't text on a profile work better? Or perhaps a tick box 'looking for a swinging relationship' so people could search on that.
There's been trillions of dating threads over the years. Probably less than 20 couples created as a direct result.
The tick box would be good.
I'd say a thread on a forum is slightly different than an out and out forum in its own right.
Why not have both, the tick box option and a forum....
Maybe they could add it as an interest option - not a whole new fiend and I’d assume easy enough to add in.
You'd think......
As someone else had said, there's other forums for non swinging related subjects, (politics for example) why not swing dating?"
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"Dear admin and fellow swingers,
51 weeks ago a lady posted her idea of some sort of facility on fab for us singles to hopefully meet a significant other. I wonder whether you (admin) have had any thoughts about it??!
Although I’m happy meeting for nsa fuckery I’d equally love to find a swinging partner to settle down with in a long term relationship.
Traditional dating sites are full of people wanting nsa fucks who aren’t into a swinging lifestyle... so fab is the ideal venue to help swingers find “one of their own kind”!!
Some of us don’t want to be unicorns forever!!
Come on fab admin... please consider it
Interested to see whether there are guys and gals who would support this..."
This is exactly what I’m looking for.. think it’s a great idea x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s been suggested many times over the year but nothing’s ever happened.
I’m only seeking a LTR and just last night had a message on here from someone who also wants one but only wants to find one through a dating site as otherwise they can’t trust them. WTF?!! "
Perhaps they want a monogamous relationship. I wouldn't trust someone I met on here for that either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not entirely sure how admin would be able to help with that one.
Many moons ago I changed my own profile writing in bio more of a joke than anything else how I'm now accepting boyfriend applications. Explaining in detail how I've tried for many years, but vanilla relationships don't seem to work for me so it's pointless looking love elsewhere.
I had a list of desirable criteria like no jealousy issues, preferably bi or bi curious, into kink and hopefully a workaholic like me.
I also listed some benefits of dating me - like the fact that I'm self sufficient and not needy, that I'm social, have a dark sense of humour and love Guinness.
Slowly applications started coming in.... What all started as a harmless joke of me trying to clean up my profile ended up in me meeting the most perfect man. We fall in love with each other every single day more and more.
There are people who are the same as you and are looking for the same things, you just gotta be patient and focus on loving yourself first x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not entirely sure how admin would be able to help with that one.
Many moons ago I changed my own profile writing in bio more of a joke than anything else how I'm now accepting boyfriend applications. Explaining in detail how I've tried for many years, but vanilla relationships don't seem to work for me so it's pointless looking love elsewhere.
I had a list of desirable criteria like no jealousy issues, preferably bi or bi curious, into kink and hopefully a workaholic like me.
I also listed some benefits of dating me - like the fact that I'm self sufficient and not needy, that I'm social, have a dark sense of humour and love Guinness.
Slowly applications started coming in.... What all started as a harmless joke of me trying to clean up my profile ended up in me meeting the most perfect man. We fall in love with each other every single day more and more.
There are people who are the same as you and are looking for the same things, you just gotta be patient and focus on loving yourself first x "
Hey send me a copy of the application form. I will post on my profile. is lazy Sunday after all .. lol x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not entirely sure how admin would be able to help with that one.
Many moons ago I changed my own profile writing in bio more of a joke than anything else how I'm now accepting boyfriend applications. Explaining in detail how I've tried for many years, but vanilla relationships don't seem to work for me so it's pointless looking love elsewhere.
I had a list of desirable criteria like no jealousy issues, preferably bi or bi curious, into kink and hopefully a workaholic like me.
I also listed some benefits of dating me - like the fact that I'm self sufficient and not needy, that I'm social, have a dark sense of humour and love Guinness.
Slowly applications started coming in.... What all started as a harmless joke of me trying to clean up my profile ended up in me meeting the most perfect man. We fall in love with each other every single day more and more.
There are people who are the same as you and are looking for the same things, you just gotta be patient and focus on loving yourself first x
Hey send me a copy of the application form. I will post on my profile. is lazy Sunday after all .. lol x
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Wouldn't have any problem doing So, only have changed my profile many times since and don't hold a copy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had a couple of really nice messages since I put dating very clearly on my profile yesterday but I’ve also had a couple pretty much telling me to get off here and go away to a dating site as I won’t find dates here, only sex!!
I see absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to enjoy mind blowing open minded sex with a partner who will enjoy exploring swinging with me but also enjoy my company in social ‘normal’ activities as well. And if there are others wanting a partner as well like me then why can’t we say that’s what we want?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ve had a couple of really nice messages since I put dating very clearly on my profile yesterday but I’ve also had a couple pretty much telling me to get off here and go away to a dating site as I won’t find dates here, only sex!!
I see absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to enjoy mind blowing open minded sex with a partner who will enjoy exploring swinging with me but also enjoy my company in social ‘normal’ activities as well. And if there are others wanting a partner as well like me then why can’t we say that’s what we want??"
Don't listen to the grumps.
I've received some idiots voicing their opinions like that too. Some people genuinely don't get it and think that this website is just all about fucking. That's the type of people who are ashamed to be here themselves in a first place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ve had a couple of really nice messages since I put dating very clearly on my profile yesterday but I’ve also had a couple pretty much telling me to get off here and go away to a dating site as I won’t find dates here, only sex!!
I see absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to enjoy mind blowing open minded sex with a partner who will enjoy exploring swinging with me but also enjoy my company in social ‘normal’ activities as well. And if there are others wanting a partner as well like me then why can’t we say that’s what we want??
Don't listen to the grumps.
I've received some idiots voicing their opinions like that too. Some people genuinely don't get it and think that this website is just all about fucking. That's the type of people who are ashamed to be here themselves in a first place. "
Thanks for the reassurance. I agree completely and those people are a major turn off anyway |
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Sounds like a good idea to me. Don't get me wrong, in the relatively short time I've been her I've had lots of fun. I've also met some very nice couples,one of whom met just like this and are now very happy to continue to play in the way they first got together. |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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Although I am not actively looking for a relationship, as in becoming half of a couple, I am not completely ruling the idea out. However they would have to be into or at least interested in experiencing this lifestyle.
I think it would be an excellent idea as this site is so much more user friendly and better run than any so called dating site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Brilliant idea.. Actually think fabswingers are missing a trick by not having a dating part to their site.. Or at least catering to singles by having some kind of dating functionality on searches or profiles. It wouldn't be unreasonable to charge for it either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good idea as lots of people seem to be coupling up recently - I dont think it would be easy going from swinging to vanilla for a lot of people - I'm sure the it wouldn't be too difficult to set up x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a brilliant idea. I have got to the point that I want to date but would still like to explore sexually with someone. Also majority of people who are on dating sites are on here too so seems daft not to have a section for dating x |
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