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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As someone recently introduced to my bi side I am still looking for a patient couple to help me explore without necessarily jumping into everything but giving me time to test the waters as it were . Are those types of bi couples out there and is this a something that interests others too.what have others experiences been being broken in |
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Sorry to hear you felt pressured - it makes us vulnerable enough meeting new people without there being extra anxieties. And you’re clearly exploring new stuff. You’ll hear it said a lot on here but communicating what our desires are to partners (both of them when meeting a couple) and understanding their desires too can really help in advance of anything happening. I know some people find that negotiation and discussion a bit awkward (it can be good to do it in messaging or phone before but also reiterated at the meeting) but it’s really important that everyone involved understands and respects each other’s boundaries. But none of that takes away from the fact that you shouldn’t have felt pressured - no-one should - and we all have a responsibility to pick up and look out for the signals that someone is not comfortable. Hope you have better experiences ahead - there are some great people on here. |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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"It's interesting that you have learnt to chat before the meeting to get to know them well but some don't want to chat "
If you want to chat and get to know someone before any action takes place, make it clear and stick to your guns - if someone doesn't want that also, you're incompatible and best you pass them by.
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"It's interesting that you have learnt to chat before the meeting to get to know them well but some don't want to chat
If you want to chat and get to know someone before any action takes place, make it clear and stick to your guns - if someone doesn't want that also, you're incompatible and best you pass them by.
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